are you asking ideas for topic here with your partner or friends?

United States
September 28, 2008 5:39pm CST
[i]Just last week, hubby started to give me some idea what to post..take note!!! he never liked mylot before but he observed how "mylot addict" am I, that even weekend, when he is in the shower, I will run into the PC just to respond to my friends post!LOL! ANyway, his assignment is to give me one topic each day! and he will get a cents/quarter for that! hahahahaha! joke![/i]
7 people like this
24 responses
@hellcowboy (7380)
• United States
28 Sep 08
That is a very interesting idea my friend,and I am glad to hear that he is going to try and give you topics to start discussions on,and I will often ask my fiance for ideas when I want to start a discussion,but can not think of anything,I will also get her to look over my discussions before I post them,to make sure that they are good and that I do not make any errors,and if I happen to think of an idea that she would like,I do not hesitate to tell her,because we are both mylotting to try and make money for us.
2 people like this
• United States
1 Oct 08
[i]HI hellcowboy, that is a great partnership indeed! I am also happy really that my husband is open about this now and even when we are eating, we talked about mylot, the post, my friends and the responses of friends..It's really fun to have this site integrated in our daily lives![/i]
@iyah10 (4116)
• Kuwait
28 Sep 08
I mean in my part here in MyLot it is my wife who is my secretary and I would give her my point of discussion and she will be the first person to arrange and grammar for the discussion and even the idea we also shared it in here like at this time.......
2 people like this
• United States
1 Oct 08
[i]Hi iyah, wow..that is cool! great partnership there! I am also glad that hubby started to be open about mylot and think positive now that he observed that I am really receiving real money from the site..LOL![/i]
@dhangski (3194)
• Philippines
28 Sep 08
Wow that's good. At least you have someone to support you here. LOL. As for me, I think of topics to post all by myself. My husband does not know yet my activities here. And if ever he will know it, I guess he will have no time to think because of tiredness from work. But I'm starting to introduce myLot to him. I hope he will support me too. As for friends, the only one that I could ask for ideas to post was my BOF but he's not online most of the time these past weeks. Hope he'll come back soon. Keep posting che, Keep myLotting. HUGZ always!
2 people like this
• United States
1 Oct 08
[i]HI dhang, Yea, I've noticed that too and he is one of our active poster here too, hopefully, he will find way to check and be here once in awhile! ANyway, I understand about your hubby...I tried also to invite my husband to join but his job is quite stressful and all he wants to do is relax and free himself from any thinking when he is home![/i]
@Bebs08 (10685)
• United States
29 Sep 08
haahah good for you, your hubby is supportive with your mylotting. Mine just don;t say anything. Or sometimes he would say that's a waste of time... hahaha He doesn't know that I already have money saved in my paypal account. I did not transfer it to our bank account. I just transfered once but now I thought of keeping it, I did not tell him how much I already have. I don't argue when he said waste of time because it is not a waste of time for me.
• United States
30 Sep 08
[i]Hi Bebs, ohhh..that is a nice way of saving there..Hmm..I didn't think of that! hahahahaha! I always withdraw my earnings anyway, last 2 months earnings here, I used it for my Mom and Sis' birthday presents! LOL! This time, I told him I will save this until December.. ANyway, my husband is very negative about this before and will also told me that I am just wasting my time,,,hellorrr! I can't spend 8 hours on Tv of just watching the ceiling! We are used to work so it's hard to have all this idle time! Just last week, he started to be nice to me about my mylotting and suggested some topic![/i]
1 person likes this
@Bebs08 (10685)
• United States
30 Sep 08
hahah good!!! my hubby sometimes stopped by my computer desk when I am online and read some of the topics.. then he laughed... and walk away, doesn't say anything... no comment.. He did not ask me either if how much did I earned now. Good thing. I will have enough if I will save my earnings up to December. I am not only in mylot I have associated content and ehow too.. aside from others. I am not active in associated content but I am receiving my page view bonus every month. So with ehow I am not active in those sites.. but I have bucks coming to may paypal. The best thing there, is to build up articles and leave it.. just wait for the bonus.. hahahah then save it in you paypal. Just hard to think of a topic though.
1 person likes this
• United States
1 Oct 08
[i]wow..that is great! That is also my problem, how to come up with a topic but for sure once we will focus and give ourselves time to think, ideas will just flow..LOL! ANyway, I will be trying there this week! [/i]
@aseretdd (13736)
• Philippines
29 Sep 08
Well, you are lucky to have a husband who now helps you out with discussion ideas... in my case... i do it on my own... that is why there are days that i don't even start one... i just respond to the discussions of my friends... but i am glad that i have a daughter... i usually start a discussion because of her...
1 person likes this
• United States
30 Sep 08
[i]Hi aseretdd, hahaha..I am thinking really about that too since I replied a lot of your post about your daughter even if I have no experience..LOL! Anyway, I am sure if your hubby is there, he will be giving you some topic too...LOL! I remember he is working abroad, have you tried to invite him her? I have seen a number of male "kababayan" here who are temporarily far from their loved ones and spending their time here![/i]
1 person likes this
@aseretdd (13736)
• Philippines
1 Oct 08
He is already a member... but has yet to make his very first post... mylot doesn't really interest him...
1 person likes this
• United States
1 Oct 08
I understand that aseretdd, that is also my hubby before and maybe since he is with me and seeing me very active here, he was influenced to know more about the site and it's flow!
@lkbooi (16100)
• Malaysia
4 Oct 08
Hi che, it's nice to know that now your husband has got great interest and would always share the fun of mylot posting here with you. All of my friends don’t have any interest in mylotting. Two of my colleagues have become mylot members for more than a year but only one would still post once in a while, the other one is totally inactive for months. My hubby is always busy with his Chinese calligraphy and painting. He has no interest in mylot posting. Anyway I’m glad that he would still have great interest to listen to what I’m telling him about all the friends and stories of mylot. He is quite familiar with some of the avatars which are unique and always appearing on the screen while I’m doing posting posting and have a nice day.
1 person likes this
• United States
4 Oct 08
[i]Hi lkbooi, ohhh..at least he is willing to listen when you will share him stories about this site and friends here! My hubby is also like that even though at first, he didn't believed that this site is legit and he will always asked me, where is myot getting any money to pay all the members here! LOL! ANyway, I am glad also that my hubby started to contribute topics but I am not posting it all, LOL! You know sometimes men will just give you a funny topics as his way to tease me! LOL[/i]!
1 person likes this
@cupid74 (11394)
• Pakistan
29 Sep 08
Hi Checa So it means that u r discussiong my lot with ur hubby hmmm so it mean need to be careful to respond u as u might be telling EBVERYTHING to him Well, i dont discuss with any one and that might be reason that i start very few new discussions Let me think what to do in Future
1 person likes this
• United States
30 Sep 08
[i]Hi cupid, yea, I am very open to my husband about anything here and my friends! I shared to him about my friends in Uk, Pakistan, China, USA and Philippines etc...LOL! Anyway, at first he thought, that this is not a legit site so he always discouraged me but I proved him wrong..LOL! Have a great time![/i]
@cupid74 (11394)
• Pakistan
6 Oct 08
Hmmmmmmmm u mean if i sau some thing nasty to u, u will go and tell to ur Hubby Hmmmmmmmmm I need to wear Guard while talking to U
@youless (99264)
• Guangzhou, China
2 Oct 08
In fact my husband and my friends are not interested in Mylot at all. Therefore, they won't give me any ideas to post a new discussions. That's alright. I always like to depend on myself:) I love China
1 person likes this
• United States
2 Oct 08
[i]Hi youless, ohhh..I have some friends also whom I tried to invite here unfortunately, they didn't enjoy as much as I do![/i]
@neildc (17251)
• Lapu-Lapu City, Philippines
2 Oct 08
Not only from my partner, but I get some ideas from friends and other people, too, to make some topics here. I actually had this Cancer from my wife, the Virgin Wedding thing from one of my colleagues here. It is really so hard to come up with some new great topics nowadays, when every body is doing some great topics too, that we, almost every one of us here have almost the same ideas.
1 person likes this
• United States
2 Oct 08
[i]HI neildc, I agree with you, with over 140,000 thousand members, I am sure great chance of coming up with the same idea or sometimes experiences! Nice having you back![/i]
@hcromer (2711)
• United States
1 Oct 08
I don't usually try to think up a lot of topics to post on MyLot like I did back when I first joined the site. Now I just use the site if I have something that I've been wondering about and couldn't find on the internet or possibly just for some advice. I don't ask other people for ideas on topics, I don't think I used to either when I was active on the site every day.
1 person likes this
• United States
1 Oct 08
[i]Hi hcromer, I am not also very active in posting ever since I joined! LOL! It;s hard to think of any post, so majority are experiences! ANyway, glad to have you back here, maybe busy from regular job?[/i]
• United States
29 Sep 08
heh, Good way to work your husband eh? Anyway why not just reffer him? then you get 25% of his money =D And he can post as well!
1 person likes this
• United States
30 Sep 08
[i]Hi Moneyseekerz, He will not do that..LOL! I don't think he has the patience for that and his job is stressful too so when he is home, he just want to relax and watch TV! That will be great if possible! LOL![/i]
@stephcjh (32327)
• United States
29 Sep 08
I really do nto start a whole lot of discussions lately with Mylot. I am so backed up with my friends discussions right now. I have alot of them to respond to before I start more to keep up with. I usually come up with them on my own though.
1 person likes this
• United States
30 Sep 08
[i]Hi steph, Me also, I don't start a lot and sometimes, I will not also post my hubby's suggestion..I am glad also to have over 100 notifications each day and that makes me a little bit busy![/i]
@comfort55 (1574)
• India
29 Sep 08
Hubby is so occupied and busy in his work that he just listens to any interesting discussion which I narrate to him, but not actively involved in giving me ideas on what to post. Maybe in future ,seeing my addiction to mylot, he might give me some new ideas. Have a nice day!
• United States
30 Sep 08
[i]Hi comfort, ohhh...that is my husband also..Imagine I need to reach 6000 plus post before he started to become open about mylot..hahaha.. Anyway, it's nice also that you can talk to your hubby about mylot! I am sure in the coming days, he will be sharing ideas from you maybe an experienced at work or anything![/i]
@gr8life (6252)
• Malaysia
29 Sep 08
Hello checapricorn, My hubby doesn't like me to spend time here too. He always find 1001 excuse to make me busy so that I will not log in here. He teases me whenever he knows how much I earn from here but whenever I transfer the money to my local bank, he smiles and asks me how much I managed to transfer and what I am going to do with the money. Sometimes when we communicate to each other, I tell him about MyLot and how wonderful the people here, what kind of discussion and info I get from here, he changes the topic. I am angry with him but whatever it is, he is my husband...
1 person likes this
• United States
30 Sep 08
[i]Hi gr8life, hahahha..that is my hubby also when I started mylot and just last week, we can talk about it and he started to give me some ideas...I do know what makes him open about this but before, he is very negative about what am I doing and will always discourage me about it..LOL! Anyway, when I was paid, he started to believed that there are legit sites..LOL! [/i]
1 person likes this
@winterose (39897)
• Canada
29 Sep 08
now that is really cute, what a wonderful idea, co operation, the next thing you know he will have his own mylot account hehehehehe
1 person likes this
• United States
30 Sep 08
[i]Hi winterose, hahaha..I do know if that is possible since he has a stressful job but at least when I talked about mylot, he is very open now! [/i]
• Canada
28 Sep 08
My husband and I both have our own Mylot accounts, so when we get an idea we ususally just post it ourselves, rather than giving ideas to the other. This works, because when one posts, the other will always respond. We are able to work quite well this way, on myLot, and we give eachother a lot of great things to respond to.
1 person likes this
• United States
30 Sep 08
[i]Hi danish, wow..that's cooL! I wonder if he is in my friend's list because when I started, I add a lot of old members because I want to learn from them and I am learning a lot from you! [/i]
@SaintAnne (5453)
• United States
4 Oct 08
Hello Che. So far, I haven't asked Boyfriend for topic ideas on myLot. He's the only one who knows I'm myLotting. But I do use a lot of our conversations or activities for my topics. If we go out and something happened there, then I will most likely post something related to that event.
@rizzu87 (860)
• Malaysia
29 Sep 08
I never take ideas to post on mylot. Actually i dint take it yet, but i may do that. I usually think overnight on my bed what can i start here on mylot that might be interesting for people to post for.
1 person likes this
@lkbooi (16100)
• Malaysia
7 Oct 08
Hi che, it’s really a good idea to start a new discussion to inform your friends and other users here who don’t receive the mylot alert about the hacker, so they could take suitable precaution after reading your post. Yeah, I agree that it’s quite difficult to PM to every fried in your long friends list. Well, you have done a good deed here. I had received two mylot alerts about the hacker last week. After reading the alerts I then come to know that a fellow mylot user is trying to gain access to others users' personal information. So we have to be very careful and never try to login the invalid mylot link (mylot.freeholstia.com) which looks quite similar to that of myLot's. posting and take care.
@lkbooi (16100)
• Malaysia
7 Oct 08
Hi che, I had sent this post here wrongly, please ignore it and enjoy my silly mistake here ..... I had sent it again and let it to park at the correct lot. I had done this mistake for I's doing the post in a hurry at the starbucks coffee during my vacation at a hill resort. posting and have a nice day.
1 person likes this
• United States
8 Oct 08
Hi lkbooi, no problem...hehehe..enjoy your vacation and thanks for sharing!
@skbh12 (2950)
• Philippines
10 Oct 08
[b]hi checapricorn!! i don't ask my boyfriend for ideas to post in but he does give me topics to talk about VOLUNTARILY.. hahaha!! he knows i am a mylot addict just like you are and he helps me just so i can reach payment for next payout. he is not into mylotting too but he manages to help me out with this because he found out that i have really something thru this site although it is not as big as what he earns pero day for a private nursing duty. hahaha!! happy posting! [/b]