sometimes discussing here is discouraging

Well, I have quite a few discussions as well I have very few responses too, so it continues to happen to the best of us. Sometimes it is because people are too busy to get back to every discussion that all of their friends have started, or they are not interested in the type of discussions you have started as well. I do not let it get to me. I just try to find a topic people are interested in responding back too, and then go from there. Just my thoughts.

Well, if you post an interesting discussion, or you get more friends, someone is bound to respond! I normally don't respond to my friend's discussions, I respond to the newest ones out of habit.

Hey Jing! Well, that happens lots of times. I just think that some of our friends who can't respond to our discussions may either be too busy is doing something important other than mylot. Some may be incapable of going to the internet (internet or pc problems). But of course, there are some who doesn't reply at all to your discussions. Just post away on other discussions and continue creating your own. Who knows? You might encounter a great friend somewhere? Just keep on having fun. Take care.

i think they cannot relate you discussions or they dont get interest to respond to your discussion because you didnt catch a good topic. sometimes in my discussions it goes like that too but i never discourage.

That's too bad! Of course you can't expect your friends to be that supportive seeing that these is an online network. It's a two-way thing too. You should post interesting discussions so that even those who aren't your friends will want to participate. You can also earn money by responding to other people's discussions. I do this a lot more than I post new discussions because it's easier for me this way.f

hi jing! yes, i often feel this way, too, and at the same time i am probably also a culprit as well. i hate to admit it, but i also tend to look and respond to the newest discussions, simply out of habit. but lately i have been trying harder to remember to go to the "friends started" tab and look and reply to these as well. i guess it is often hard to juggle all of this on mylot. :) i will try harder, and i am sorry for being one of the bad friends! :)

Yes, its true that its not always alive here on mylot. There are times that we are busy replying to all discussions and there are also times that I just end up reading coz im too bored to reply, its normmal, its not always happy always here on mylot. I also check other sites and I just dont stick to mylot, I also visit other sites and visit my blog as well visit the blogs og others.