i liked her, but she doesn't know it.. should i?
By jingbautista
@jingbautista (2456)
Philippines
October 7, 2008 8:23pm CST
well, part of human nature is to fall to someone, and to like someone.. well, i am human, and i did fall. i like this girl. we texted for a while. she responded. and when she responds, there is something in it.. well, i do like her, but she doesn't know it. or i think she doesn't. i am really not that type to express to her in an instant. i am just hoping that somehow, nobody is still courting her.. i see her as my future, but she doesn't know it. she texts, and encourages, and she doesn't know that i like her!.. i want to tell her, but i just could not.. huhu...am i worthy?
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4 responses
@Vivian_Studio (275)
• United States
8 Oct 08
My experience is: show your love gradually.....dun make is too quick....you will frighten her...
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@jingbautista (2456)
• Philippines
10 Oct 08
thank you.. i guess, that is what i have to do this time. i don't want to frighten the girl. i do pray for her. but if it is not the Lord's will, then who am i?
@Zelmarq (12607)
• Cebu City, Philippines
8 Oct 08
Hello jing. Wow, I thank mylot for through mylot, i know your thoughts and your struggles. DO I know this girl? Well, I hope you can still wait for God's perfect timing and finally tell her, have you shared this with kuya frank?
Take care!
@jingbautista (2456)
• Philippines
10 Oct 08
haha. not yet,.. i dont share names.. i only shared that it is a struggle for me now.. having not to tell and have this feeling deep inside. toinks, talking about desires.. hehe
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@Zelmarq (12607)
• Cebu City, Philippines
10 Oct 08
Toinks, hehehehe dont worry, I know its a secret that you have to keep and I dont want to know hehehehe. I just hope she is someone from our church, it does not matter who it is as long as we have the same vison with her.
@jingbautista (2456)
• Philippines
10 Oct 08
we talked. but i dont really share everything. i dont name names.. i just shared that i have struggles.. well, he understands and respects my privacy man pud..
@rocker21 (2716)
• India
8 Oct 08
you must just let her know and wait for her to answer and see what she says its nothing bad if you say someone that you like them until and unless your liking becomes an obsession and you start hurting the other either their feeligs or physically even.
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@rjblueyes (215)
• United States
8 Oct 08
JUST TELL HER!!! You gotta tell her you like her! The worst thing that could happen is for her to say that she dosen't like you. But if shes txting you she must like you as a friend, and maybe more. You won't know until you ask and the longer you wait the harder it will get. And what if she isn't seeing anyone right now, in a few weeks when you get the nerve she might have found someone who took the chance and asked her. Are you willing to live with that regret for the rest of your life? Just bite the bullet, even if she says no, you'll be glad you did.
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@jingbautista (2456)
• Philippines
10 Oct 08
nyah.it is too early.. i just could not tell her. i am not worthy of her. she is just somewhat that everybody is dreaming of..well, i guess i just have to wait and then enjoy my single life.. though i liked her, but i guess, i just have to control this.. i know we will just both enjoy being single...
