True LOVE

Malaysia
October 9, 2008 1:21am CST
Do you believe in true love? i don't....for me it just a statement...how about you?
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28 responses
@albino001 (154)
• India
9 Oct 08
if u don believe in love then u r a dumb ..... in this world . its the sweet feeling btwn a mother and her baby , among relations, among inmates and finally when it comes btwn a boy and a girl it gets a new face.its heaven dude .. experience it.
• Malaysia
10 Oct 08
i do believe love between a mother n her child n love to the GOD...but between man n a woman...??? guys nowdays just make love for fun...coz if u really love a lady...u will love her till the end of ur life...u would put all ur heart just to love her...be loyal & sincere to her...
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@jolope (988)
• Philippines
10 Oct 08
true..but you will never really know unless you try it yourself.. :) let's not leave the question why and how unanswered.. :) good luck to you.. :)
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@diansinta (7549)
• Indonesia
18 Oct 08
I don't believe in love either. but comitment is.
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@Hatley (164171)
• Garden Grove, California
27 Oct 08
diansinta you will believe one day when someone looks at you and smiles and you melt inside, and know this man is the one I am going to marry. committment goes with love but is not love,love is committment plus caring, sharing, wanting to do more for the other person than for yourself, true love makes you unselfish.
@diansinta (7549)
• Indonesia
30 Oct 08
My dear Hatley, I hope so. So that i knew that im not a failure creation that God made. I been devorce from a poligami marriage As a second wife 2 years ago. I just can't stand it. My ex husband and my mother in law always compare me to the other wife. Which is im not. And i don't want to be. And everything i must share. Time, money, attention. .... No i been unselfish before. Now i want to be selfish. I want somebody that is mine. I hope he love me only. only me. For once i want somebody that i don't have to share with other. Its not much to ask. But What is love exactly?? it can form to anything to manipulate people.. My ex husband word hide behind the word that : he love me. All i know is my mom and dad stick together for the rest of their life. Is there some one for me, really?? Just for me??
• Philippines
9 Oct 08
yes i believe,because i've found my true love when I met my husband.And yes up to this moment,after 6 years in relationship as boyfriend/girlfriend,and 8 years of marriage life,i'm still so in love with my husband.And that is inspite of all the Physical changes...
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• Malaysia
10 Oct 08
congrats to u mem....hope ur marriage will full of love till the end. why don't u share with me by giving any tips how to have a wonderful marriage?
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• Philippines
10 Oct 08
i guess there is really no secret with falling in love perse and believing in your true love.Maybe the time has yet to come for you to really experience it,that's why at this point you dont believe it.The magic is there but you cannot explain it either.All i know is that i am willing to share my life with this man forever and so long as i live.He is not that super extraordinary man for others,but for me,he is my perfect match inspite of his imperfection,(since i am no perfect too.) Tips i guess,you have know if you are in love right now.You have to admit it first and it will just come naturally.If the person you fall for,broke your heart,you can cry out and feel the agony of a broken heart.But don't close your door in love.It's the most wonderful; thing we can have in this world.
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9 Oct 08
yes i believe in true love... true love doesn't mean just for your girlfriend or boy friend. true love is universal... there is true love between parents and their children, between brother and sister, between relatives, friendship, and many other... it's a shame that you don't believe it, you're missing out...
• Malaysia
10 Oct 08
i admit that true love just for our parents, family & GOD & our good friends only. but it so sad coz guys nowdays just make fun of it....but for a woman...if she really love a guy..she will be loyal to him, try to do the best to her beloved guy. man look at love in just easy come easy goes... am i right?
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• United States
27 Oct 08
First off you can't group all men together as if they are the same. That's not fair and may be part of your problem in finding someone. You have to be careful about who you are looking for. If a guy or a girl does not care about someone, yes often they will not treat that person the best that they should. You may notice later on though see that same jerk or same bad woman with someone who they just treat like a queen or a king and that is because those are the one who they love. It takes time, but you will find your one. I thought I never would and I had.
• India
9 Oct 08
Until and unless you believe in love and understand a true love , it will remain as a statement for you no wonder. Love has many definitions , does your parents love is an statement for you. You have to think and understand that first.Love you can find anywhere and with anyone but true love only lucky people will find it in their life.
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• Malaysia
10 Oct 08
ok..i admit that my first statement is incorrect coz what i'm gonna is that a true love between man & a woman. i like ur statement that "only lucky people will find it in their life"...maybe my luck not come yet..
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• Australia
18 Oct 08
Yes, I defiently believe in true love. I know there's someone out there that's going to be just perfect for me.
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18 Oct 08
true love is a good thing. but it is not for all. if you find your Mr./Ms. right than this could be there else it is just a statement for you.
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• India
9 Oct 08
Hi friend, Welcome to mylot site first.Starting in mylot,you started this discussion.You are very smart guy in starting this discussion.See friend love is nothing but a feel and not a attraction between a boy and a girl.A person who is lovable will be always be happy than a person whose is not.We should love and respect to each and every individual.If you do good things than you will be lovable to others. This is what i meant by the word "love". Have a nice day.
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@JOIEMARVIC (2341)
• Philippines
9 Oct 08
i believe in true love.and there really is such a thing called true love. i know Someone who gave up His life just to show how much He truly loves us. He did not even asked for anyhting in return.It's Jesus Christ.I believe He is a perfect example of someone who can give true love.
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@nice030481 (1110)
• Philippines
20 Oct 08
i do believe in true love. i married my husband because he is my true love, i dont look at anyone after he become my boyfriend, not like before that even i have a boyfriend i still entertain somebody else courting me. Now we have 2 kids, one boy and one girl, and we are happy.
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• United States
18 Oct 08
I do not think that I believe in true love anymore. At one time I did believe. Too many things have happened to me to make me feel like you, that it is just a statement.
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• Philippines
18 Oct 08
If you haven't experienced it yet, I don't blame you if you don't believe it. Many here who experienced true love however will tell you you're wrong, that of course it exists. I am in the middle of this. The reason is that, I have loved truly, I have felt it. Unconditional love, no hold bars. I was willing to give everything, do everything, for the benefit of the man I love. I have give true love. But then I haven't really truly loved in return. No one gave me true love before, at least, that's how I feel. So I'm sure it exists, it's just that, nobody gave it to me yet. I hope you find yours. God bless you always...
• China
16 Oct 08
In fact,several months ago,I believe in true love,but now,after a failure in love,I don't believe in love any more,I think friendship is better than love~
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@abyin007 (426)
• India
16 Oct 08
i really belive in true love.....i have seen lots of examples in my life.......
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• India
16 Oct 08
Yes, I do believe in true love. I believe everyone has that one special person out there that will love them forever. when you find that special one that you want to be together with them forever. A true love is something that we will never leave or forgot. But if that person loved you so much while they're still kids and pretend to love you for not hurting you, that's not true love. A person that is being nice and not getting mad at him/her only for getting a love for a man/women, that's not true love, if a person is mad at you, making you cry or angry, a true love will happen if he/she still really loves you. keep posting take care and have fun..
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• China
11 Oct 08
Everything is decided by your attitude.True love will come if you believe it
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@vmksvmks (413)
• Canada
10 Oct 08
Sorry I absolutely do I love my wife and never in my wildest dreams every dreamed i would someday feel like this In the beginning of a relationship it may be slow and a little turmoil but in the end yes indeed Again it depends on your definition of True Love I see it one way whereas many see it another but for me I found it ,cherish it and thank God every day for the joy and happiness i experience Good Luck
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10 Oct 08
Wow a very interesting topic! Until you know and understand the meaning of love, then thats the time you will believe in true love! If you are unlucky to find a true love between man and a woman, keep searching for it till you can find it. Then you can see and feel what a real love is! Love is the greatest thing in the world!
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@jammyt (2822)
• Philippines
10 Oct 08
yeah, I guess. I believe that there is always somebody there for somebody. One will always have a soulmate. This statement may hold true to some but not for some. Just depends on the belief of the person.
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@suri008 (118)
• India
10 Oct 08
hi ya true love in this .just the realtion in mother and son. i think friend your so strugule in your life keep in touch i suggest some
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