I have to become delinquent before you can help me?!?

@sedel1027 (17846)
Cupertino, California
October 10, 2008 5:06pm CST
Since money is ultra tight this month and I would rather have services disconnected than not be able to pay my rent on the first, I sat down this afternoon and started calling places that we owe money to in order to find out if there is anything I could do to alleviate the problems. Cable company: We disconnect at 45 days, you have until Nov 7th to pay...can't give me another week to get the cash to pay the Oct & Nov bill combined Electric company: we're sorry you are paid in full (bill isn't due until Tuesday), we can't do anything until you get another bill around Oct 24th and you get a disconnect notice, then we can help you out. Since I am calling all these places before I am late, wouldn't it make sense if they would work with me now rather than after they give me a disconnect notice or I am late? Sometimes I wonder why I bother doing the right thing. You know there are hundreds of folks that can't pay their bills and do nothing.
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@emarie (5442)
• United States
11 Oct 08
thats nice that you call. most of the basics on mine are automatic so i get screwed by the banks when i don't have enough money in there. and in the past month and 1/2 its been pretty hard. you do better then me, my husband handles our credit cards and those have been going over and late a couple of times. one is due tomorrow, but i know i can't make it since i don't have enough to pay it and won't for about a week.
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@sedel1027 (17846)
• Cupertino, California
11 Oct 08
Since you know it is due, call the tomorrow when you get up, you may be able to get an extension so you won't hurt your credit.
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@emarie (5442)
• United States
11 Oct 08
thanks for the advice.
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@CanadaGal (4304)
• Canada
11 Oct 08
That is rather odd, I agree, it is really surprising that they weren't working with you. I've made calls beforehand with various companies (cable and hydro), and instead of asking for a payment plan because I'm not overdue yet, I simply TELL them that my next payment will be $X, and then I tell them on what day I will be paying $Y. Have you tried that tactic? I find that method also keeps me from getting a reminder phone call. Of course, the trick is to make sure you follow through. ;) I didn't in the past when I was with nuckfuts, and that was just a bad situation.
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@sedel1027 (17846)
• Cupertino, California
11 Oct 08
I figured that was a last resort. Right now I only have X coming in and the less I HAVE to spend the better.
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@CanadaGal (4304)
• Canada
11 Oct 08
Think of it as more of an assertive approach. You're taking control of your finances and telling them how it's going to work. They can't tell you not to make any payments, that'd be outrageous! And if for whatever oddball reason they give you a hard time, then ask for a supervisor and explain your plans to take your business elsewhere. I would imagine they'd hum a different tune then.
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@lilaclady (28207)
• Australia
10 Oct 08
yes you would think companies would give a little help to their customers in these hard times, it would be good public relations I think, I think this is where competition with areas pays off because they treat you better to keep your custom, I hope things work out for you sed...
@sedel1027 (17846)
• Cupertino, California
10 Oct 08
Thanks. Well for the places that are being a pain, I am going to have to pay - at least enough to keep my electricity on. I am going to reduce my cable bill. We are turning off the phone service. Our bill right now is like $112 w/taxes, it will drop to $85/month w/taxes. I have decided that the only bills I am 100% paying this month is our insurance - car & renters - the cable bill, and the electric bill depending on what they tell me when I call back. Everything else will have to go to food and rent. Hopefully, I can get some stuff to sell on Ebay and have a good month to cover other things that come up.
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@stephcjh (38473)
• United States
11 Oct 08
Yes. I know exactly what you mean. We try to do the right thing too and go through the same thing as you. It makes no sense. They do not care. You try to do the right thing but they could care less.
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@sedel1027 (17846)
• Cupertino, California
11 Oct 08
I guess the cable people feel like I have already paid for the service I am using, so I get to keep it until the next bill is due. So who cares if it gets shut off. The electric company I was surprised at. See we use to be with a different company in the area and if you called, you would get a 2 week extension.
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@ShellyB (5241)
• United States
11 Oct 08
I think you are right, I am not sure who you talk to but if you can make partial payments I will advice that you do, and then the rest when you can. If cable is too high, go to the most simple plan that you can at this time. That is what I have done when I have been in your shoes.
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@sedel1027 (17846)
• Cupertino, California
11 Oct 08
If he was working, our bill wouldn't' be too high. LOL In fact it is less than what we were paying before we moved by like $40. I am going to cancel the phone service though, that will cut $27 off the bill. I think we actually have the cheapest cable plan, I know we have the cheapest internet through them. We really don't have any fat to trim right now. When he lost this job we were just starting to recover from him being laid off over the summer.
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@Bobbysox (224)
11 Oct 08
There must be thousands of people who are struggling to pay their utility bills at the moment ,but I always thought that the answer was to contact them,as you have done,and make arrangements with them to pay the bills,which you seem to have done.They do themselves no favours if they turn you away you know,how do they expect people to conjour up the money to pay.They repeatedly say dont bury your head in the sand,if something is going wrong then face it head on,and sort out the problem with the creditor.If they chose to take you to the courts ,the outcome wouldnt look to healthy for them,as an income and expenditure sheet would be drawn up,and the payments offered would be based on those sheets.How are you supposed to help yourself,when others wont let you.
@sedel1027 (17846)
• Cupertino, California
11 Oct 08
There are some program locally you can take part in BUT they are usually run by churches and those churches have limited funds. You do have to be at least 30 days past due and there is another requirement. Now if you are low income - which we still don't qualify for LOL - and live in certain areas of the state you can get help - a) we still make too much and b) we don't' live in that areas. Thirdly, there is a state wide plan you can apply to but you have to be poor and over 65. So no real help for anyone who falls in between once again.
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@Celanith (2327)
• United States
12 Oct 08
I don't know why companies like electric and phone company do this. It is like they don't want you to pay ahead or to help you. Then the second your past due they get nasty and threaten shut off notices and this goes against your credit record as they well know. I would take down the name of all the people you talk to. First and last and their specific position in the company. As to talk to a supervisor as well as this may gain you better result. Keep a list of the names of people you talk to and their response and reason. Then if you have a problem later you can contact consumer affairs of your state and let them know you tried to avoid the situation and they would not cooperate with you. You can also contact the utility commission of your state about the matter if need. I had a problem with a phone bill and finally did get things worked out but not until I did have to contact the utility commission and then all of a sudden the phone company was ready to bend over backwards to accomodate me and gave me $140 credit. Some times talking to a supervisor helps and other times you get a run around but keeping track of who you talked to and when will come in handy if you run into problems later.
• United States
11 Oct 08
I find that pretty sad myself. I feel like they're doing it just so they can make sure that they'll still get their money, probably even more if you can't afford to pay your bill. Since most bills end up gathering interest when you can't pay, they'll just end up getting more out of you and that's what it seems like is going on here.
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@cher913 (25782)
• Canada
11 Oct 08
sadly, these places dont seem to care about your circumstances. hubby and i were having some money issues at a time earlier this year and no one wanted to help us out. one company even suggested we go bankrupt (obviously, just so they could get their money!)
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@Lee_Rites (845)
• United States
11 Oct 08
Utility companies have pretty cut and dry rules when it comes to payment. You have a due date. You have a cut off date. If you don't pay by the cut off date, you get cut off. That is why many people who will be late do nothing. They have probably already been where you are and know this already.
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