when your best friend has gone abroad..

Philippines
October 11, 2008 7:36am CST
i had a friend. we hanged a lot. he understands me and i do understand him. we share each others strength and weaknesses,.. we go along well. i would massage him and we do sleep together sometimes.. but there was this time when he have to leave for greener pasture.. he was now in qatar. we do communicate, but this time, much lesser.. i don't know what happened, but we barely talked. he has his own life now.. how i wanted him back.. huhu..
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5 responses
@Shar1979 (2722)
• United States
11 Oct 08
it makes us sad when our friend leaves us but try to understand that he needs to work for his future. he'll come back and you'll be happy coz you have your friend back. try to put yourself in his own shoes. im sure he'd feel the same way too
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• Philippines
12 Oct 08
thank you.. yeah, and i hope he would fit in my shoes too. how i wanted to hold the time that we were together. but i could not do it. things must move on..
@Shar1979 (2722)
• United States
15 Oct 08
awww cheer up. he won't really be away for too long. :) you'll be together again real soon :)
@lrglara (1334)
• Philippines
11 Oct 08
you just thought he's gone or kind of grew apart. but i tell you, when he comes back, as if nothing happened. as if you haven't been apart or something like that! that happened to me and my friends. i've been abroad for 3 years now but whenever i come back for vacation, we still see each other and hanged out like it was before. just keep in touch with him. im sure he misses you too. :)
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• Philippines
12 Oct 08
hehe, the problem is that we are both guys.. and we guys don't really share the same kind of emotion. we would snub this feeling out. hehe.. well, it is just common to us i guess. but hopefully, he does not change, but his beards were longer now... haha
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@lrglara (1334)
• Philippines
12 Oct 08
well, you may not show your emotions but im sure you miss your drinking buddy, the times when you were in your houses, drink-until-you-puke type of drinking. like i said, just keep in touch. you may not know that the only thing he wants from you is to know that no matter what, you're still there for him. :)
@austere (2812)
• Philippines
15 Oct 08
i understand how you feel.. i can see how hurt you are.. it's not easy to have somebody you care about left you...i mean he is not really leaving you but being away to that person is really sad.. you feel sad because your friend left for qatar.. how much more for my case.. my boyfriend is out of the country to work.. but we are able to make the relationship work and he comes home every year.. so that's something to be happy about!
15 Oct 08
when your friend goes to abroad he must be having something to get success and for our a little pleasure we can't force him to come back to us.
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• China
12 Oct 08
i have a friend who go abroad when we were in high chool. at that time i really felt not good. sometimes i even didn't want to see her when thought about that she will leave me forever. but then i realized that it was not the last time we can be together and it was not the end of our friendship. because she would come back someday and maybe i would get a chance to go broad to see her. so i value the every time i stay ed with her. then , we always connct on net and she phones me a lot. i sometimes write to her . now we are still in a intimate relationship and i am studying hard ,hopin that there is a time when i can go abroad
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• Philippines
17 Oct 08
well, thank you!.. and i just want that we all could have the same feeling when he comes..