(marital romance) recreate intimacy without looking silly

@annjilena (5618)
United States
October 18, 2008 12:51am CST
over the years, women have been offered some silly advice about romancing a stone -cold marriage.they have been told many things that is ridiculous.(love after the romance has ended.women who need to find out what gives them pleasure.women spend a lot of time trying to fulfill some perfect image dr,young says.then they feel empty because they haven,t explored their wants and pleasures.women who has have lasted a long time is on automatic pilot.discover what turns you on.i like romantic music candlelight,some people like deep breathing.remember when you was dating.get a baby sitter and go out.surprise your woman are your guy.what do you do to romance your mate.
5 responses
@Lakota12 (42600)
• United States
18 Oct 08
All I had to do was kiss him and the love started all over again!
@annjilena (5618)
• United States
18 Oct 08
wow that great you keep your love a live we have to do that because love can die it has to be nourished.
@Lakota12 (42600)
• United States
19 Oct 08
most certainly have to keep it going
@pehpot (4762)
• Philippines
21 Oct 08
my hubby and I have a good relationship even if we don't date, we never experienced candle light dinner and fancy dates but I think our life is really great, I guess I am just lucky to have an understanding and loving hubby like him. He really knows how to make me happy and though I am mad at him sometimes he knows that he is the one that should always make the first step to bridge our fight, he is the one who always says sorry, I on the other hand already knew that when he is mad I should just keep quiet and wait for him to calm down. as for the romantic moments we have, he sometime sneak at my back and hugs me and kisses me and saying naughty things.. and he does that not just once a day
@annjilena (5618)
• United States
21 Oct 08
wow thats great whatever works for you. i too keep quiet when we have a disagreement i wait until he is ready to talk meantime i just dont say anything i have a saying:if you don,t put any wood on the fire the fire will go out.what that means is if you are having a disagreement if you be quite he can,t disagree by himself so it go out.
• Malaysia
18 Oct 08
hi annji ... A lucky woman is a woman who has the husband that can communicate with the woman ... When the husband and wife communicates openly on their individual needs and wants then the marriage is healthy I have healthy marriage with my husband ... but our "romancing" parts are very limited, no matter what effords I put i fail if he does not fall for it .. But i have tried a few and can share with you - when he is showering, just go in and join him (my husband, i must check his mood first) - I ask him to put my nail varnish ( successful only once) - I ask him for a massage ( high success rate especially if i am tired) - We feed each other at home or share 1 plate .. - We perform prayers together Cheers
@annjilena (5618)
• United States
18 Oct 08
don,t give up keep trying i find that massaging his feet helps we have five toes rigt well did you know that the nerve in our feet control so much of our body,the big toes controls the brain and the side of the neckthe other 4 toes control the sinus and brain area.
@eddie42 (270)
• United States
22 Oct 08
you have to keep your love alive by romacing your love you have for that person.love has got to be culitivated and cheerish it carry a thin line between love and hate.learn your mate and their desires so you know how to love your partner for all times.
@thanujad (405)
• Sri Lanka
19 Oct 08
Each person should like to have a happy family life. Scientists found out what you should do to keep happiness in marriage for a long time. Reserches of British psychologists have shown; to make a family life happy, a couple needs at least 22 romantic events in a month. It can be a joint walk, romantic supper or just a small gift to your better half. You won't do without gentle embraces, kisses and other romantic gestures. In such way you will show your partner how strong you love him/her and appreciate his/her support and care. But psychologists are also assured that sometimes it is necessary for spouses to have rest from each other. They advice to spend an evening not with the partner once a month, but in a company of your friends.
@annjilena (5618)
• United States
21 Oct 08
this is some good advice you have give here thank you so much for sharing