thanujad

@thanujad (405)

Sri Lanka • Age 57

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Want to have a party or give that money to poor?

thanujad @thanujad (405) • Sri Lanka 28 Sep 08

My eldest daughter who is a teenager who loves parties and Dancing, refused to have a party for her B'day. I was surprised as she is a party lover and when I asked her why? She said that there are so many who does not have money...

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thanujad Yes I'm proud of her. I think parents should guide their children in a proper way to make this world a better place.

27 Dec 08

do you consider yourself a restless person?

cher913 @cher913 (25781) • Canada 23 Apr 08

do you think that being restless contributes to motivation? i find it really hard to sit still (especially in church lol!) but i also know that i am a very motivated person (unless i am sick) - do you think they are different or...

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thanujad There is no "one" who is restless; rather it is the working of a particular mental factor, it comes and goes. If there is a balanced awareness, it does not disturb the mind.

24 Dec 08

Meditation

eastrologer @eastrologer (192) • Delhi, India 5 Dec 08

Look deep in to your heart, in fact you need to feel deep in to your heart, you need to feel your weakness and your strengthness. You need to recognise your goodnes and you will get some clues about yourself, why you are here, why...

clues

meditation

rivers

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thanujad We have all begun a journey. A journey into our minds. A journey of discovery and exploration of who and what we are. Taking the first step is difficult, and in the first days of practice there is often restlessness, or sleepiness, some boredom, laziness,...

24 Dec 08

Would u please tell me what do u do when u get angry? what are u supposed to do?

hiddenwing @hiddenwing (3719) • China 22 Dec 08

As you know, life doesn't always turn the way that we want all the time. Maybe someone is being unreasonable, or maybe something is unfair. Thus, all any of us will get angry for reasons unless you are a saint. What are you...

angry

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thanujad Meditate my dear. Freedom from illwill means freedom from anger. Anger is a burning in the mind, and when expressed causes great suffering to others as well. It is helpful to be able to recognize anger and to let go. Then the mind becomes light and...

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Battle of the desserts: Ice cream or cake?

modstar @modstar (9605) • Philippines 24 Dec 08

Not another ice cream discussion lol! Take your pick, creamy ice cream or or the yummy cake?

cake

food

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thanujad I would rather go for the Ice-cream than cake.

24 Dec 08

Which Do You Drink More Often? Tea, Soda, Water or What?

miraclefreebies @miraclefreebies (3043) • United States 24 Dec 08

I won't deny that I grew up drinking large amounts of tasty good o'l KOOL-AID, but I was only a child and I didn't give a flip about ALL the sugar I was inhaling or sucking up, it was ALL about the sweet taste, and I was a real...

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thanujad I drink lot of water. But I love to drink king coconut when ever I can.

24 Dec 08

In What Way Do You Show Your Anger To Anyone???

vidhyavini @vidhyavini (6111) • India 5 Dec 08

Hey Everyone. I just have a bad habit of showing my anger with my food. If I am angry I just avoid eating. I wonder if its me or if someone else also have that habit?? Lol. What do you people do when you are...

anger

eating

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thanujad When I get angry I will not open my mouth at all. But as usual tears will come to my eyes but I will not say anything. I'll try hard to control my self and until my mind is free I will not talk at all. sometimes it maybe 1 day sometimes more than 1 day. So...

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search for a tamilians

goopss @goopss (140) • Gibraltar 5 Dec 08

hi this goopss,who hopes there are lot of tamil friends in mylot.. i would like to know them.. and to be added as their friends.. yaravathu irrukiringala tamil nanbargalay vanga onnu saeruvom..

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thanujad Just now you sent me a friendship request to me and i approved it. But I just want to tell you that I'm not tamil. My kids learn tamil in school as a subject and they are good at it. But I haven't learned and don't understand it. So when my kids don't want me...

5 Dec 08

what makes you laugh n what makes you cry?

marketing07 @marketing07 (6266) • South Korea 4 Dec 08

i am the kind of person who was very easy to laugh with...even a small things i laugh with it..but some people are not very easy to laugh with...and i cry easily when i watch drama on tv or...

crying

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thanujad Ohhhhhhhhh marketing07 I'm exactly like you. I cry and laugh not only when watching a drama on TV or movies but also when reading books. Also when I see someone crying, tears comes to my eyes. Because of this reason my husband avoids taking me to unknown...

5 Dec 08

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Would you ever think of suicide when you're failure in love?

ck3259 @ck3259 (248) • Malaysia 4 Dec 08

Ever think of suicide because of failure in love? I just read from news that one of the famous singer suicide because of love. I personally think that it is not worth to suicide and people around would very sad. We have given to...

love

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thanujad Yes I agree with you. There isn't only one fish in the sea. You can find many. So if you lose one you can find another. I know it's hurting but time will always heal it. That's the human nature. I have 2 aunties (my mom's sisters) who couldn't get married to...

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can you explain what is colour to a blind?

goopss @goopss (140) • Gibraltar 5 Dec 08

i admit that i cant.. is there anybody here could explain what is colour to a person who is blind from birth.? i feel this is very tough... if anybody can,tell me how will u do this? keep finding..

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thanujad It's simple. Close your eyes in the morning, afternoon, eavening and night and find out what are the colours you can see.

5 Dec 08

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Do You Think That India Should Attack Pakistan,For Spreading Terror In India?

Ganesh44 @Ganesh44 (5547) • India 30 Nov 08

Dear Friends Pakistan has been spreading terror in India for almost last 40 years ,killing huge number of innocent citizen and soldiers everyday in India . Indian goverment has not taken any strong action yet but to keep...

mumbai terror attacks

order attack on pakistan

pakistan responsible

pakistan responsible for terror attack

soldiers

terror

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thanujad Oh At last you said what I wanted to hear from you. Thank you Ganesh.

5 Dec 08

Do You Think That India Should Attack Pakistan,For Spreading Terror In India?

Ganesh44 @Ganesh44 (5547) • India 30 Nov 08

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thanujad I'm sorry to continue to argue with you. Yes Rajiv Gandhi helped us but what about Tamil Nadu? They are helping LTTE in many ways. Just because they help terroristm do we have to think that all Indians are supporting them? No body wants and encourage...

4 Dec 08

Do You Think That India Should Attack Pakistan,For Spreading Terror In India?

Ganesh44 @Ganesh44 (5547) • India 30 Nov 08

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thanujad I don't think that India should attack Pakistan. But India should fight with the terrorist and make the country a secure place. In my country too our forces are fighting against terrorists and if you have been reading papers you should have seen how Tamil Nadu...

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What Do You Calling Your Parents........???

Tushavi @Tushavi (2076) • Karachi, Pakistan 3 Dec 08

Hi to All Well, Can you tells me What Do you calling your parents??? Such as Some Say "Mom & Dad" I Say "Mama" for Mother & "Baba" for Father.what you say??? have a nice day.

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thanujad I think mine is different than what you have heard. But most of them in my country calls their parents like that. I call my mother Amma and for my father I call him thaththa. Some says Amma for mother and Appachchi for father. Some says Ammi for mother and...

3 Dec 08

Who according to you is a real "human"?

sivanj @sivanj (1263) • India 26 Nov 08

According to you what makes a real human? Is it his * sixth sense? * ability to (try to) win nature? * ability to break laws? * love and affection? * support & care? * ..... What according to you makes a "human"?

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thanujad All human beings have weaknesses and are theresore prone to making mistakes. All human beings have desire, anger and ignorance. These weaknesses prevail in all of us in varying degrees. Unless you are perfect, you are no exception. The nature of the human mind...

2 Dec 08

What would it take for you to be truly happy?

shamsta19 @shamsta19 (3224) • United States 1 Dec 08

I ask not for lack of a better discussion to post but because I find myself at a difficult crux in my life right now. I find myself asking what would it take for me to be happy? Is it money? I know money would solve a lot of...

the pursuit of happiness

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thanujad Many people believe they can solve all their problems by just having money. They however fail to realize that money itself has its attendant problems. Money cannot solve all problems. Most people never think properly. All through their lives they are like...

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