what u will do when ur girlfriend tells u, she got somebody else

India
October 18, 2008 2:03pm CST
will u slap her? will u kiss her n try to convince her? will u try to emotional blackmail her? will u tell that u also had somebody in ur mind from quiet a long time but could't able to tell her so, thanks a lot? will u wait for her until she leaves that guy?
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7 responses
• Malaysia
21 Oct 08
If she really going after what she wants, then it's really no point in asking her to stay. Just do nothing. Maybe the feeling of betrayal and honesty you thought she had on you but thinking that you had somebody inside your head is enough. Just let her go cause she choose to go.lol.
@n30wing (4768)
• Philippines
21 Oct 08
I don't think I will slap her, I'll talk to her and listen, yes it hurts after all the love I gave to her, and I know I can't ask anything in return. Sometimes nothing good last what do you think? Well I'll listen to her reason, trying to believe that she doesn't love me anymore, I'll try to absorb it, but I won't insist myself, or still force her to love me. I'll just respect her decision, her happiness, if that what she wants letting me go. Well if it was meant to be and that time I still love her, well I'll accept her back. Time will just tell if it's us. As long as my conscience is clean, and did not do anything wrong with her. Have a nice day!
• Philippines
19 Oct 08
i don't have a girlfriend but i do have a husband and if that happens I will just let him go...set her free if that's what you must do to lessen the pain..sometimes letting go is more better than holding on and just keep on hurting each time you knew she has another inside her heart.... I wont try to convince him or try to ask why's of what might have i done or what i lacked to do to make him find another one...its just plain simple, they fell out of love... you can hold on but give your self a limit because you might end up waiting your life for someone who's not determine to come back...
19 Oct 08
i will ask her about the somebody else and ask her that will she happy with him and if she is than i will let her to go the somebody else. but my friendship will never end
@cupkitties (7489)
• United States
18 Oct 08
I would let her go and move on with my life. All that other stuff makes a person look weak and desperate.
@zeroflashx2 (2489)
• Philippines
18 Oct 08
That's going to be hard but at least she told me instead of keeping the relationship while she is having another relationship with another guy. It would really hurt but that I'd have to deal with. I'd just let it go. I'd probably say thanks for the wonderful time I had with her and I can't force her to leave the guy. I'd make her choose and think hard about it. As for me, I'd just go on with my life. There are other things that could make me happy. Well, yeah, that really sounded easy but I really felt that way before. Take care.
@tryxiness (4548)
• Philippines
18 Oct 08
I will just let go of her. If she has decided to leave you, though, it hurts let her be. Ask her if there is still a thing you could do to change her mind, if she says no, do not emotionally blackmail her, nor will you say that you have other else (because in the first place technically that is cheating, and wait but give yourself a limit for the waiting because definitely you will find another guy in the process.