what attracts you in a man/woman?

India
October 22, 2008 8:00am CST
every one is attract to their opposite genders and fall in love if both find something in one another that they like it and they fall in love.so what qualities do you see to have a boyfriend /girlfriend. well in a girlfriend my first point will be she should be preety she should be a little stress free and know how to have a good time even in the days of sufferings and beautiful. so what do you see in a girl /boy?
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13 responses
@jelai24 (221)
• Philippines
22 Oct 08
the most thing that i can attract to the boys is the nose..i like long nose boys except foreigner because most of them have long nose lols....i like boys with long nose in our country only....
• India
22 Oct 08
long nose your the first person i met who is attracted to nose ,well i do not have a long nose i think i am not your type .well happy lotting
@jelai24 (221)
• Philippines
22 Oct 08
lols funny....i don't think so...
• India
22 Oct 08
Usually I like men who are tall and have a good attitude. A perfect man should know to conduct himself really well. I also like men who have a good deep voice Cheers
• India
22 Oct 08
well do you have one now?a man with good attitude ,deep voice and able to conduct themselvs very well a lot of things hope yo uwill find your best match happy lotting.
• India
22 Oct 08
Nooooo But will meet him very soon!! He'll come riding his horse to take me
@stephcjh (32303)
• United States
22 Oct 08
I think it has alot to do with appearance and their personality. They have to be clean cut and well groomed.
• India
22 Oct 08
nice qualities ,hope you got the person of your type,have a good time
@caskins (689)
• United States
22 Oct 08
hello my fellow myLotter, what attracts me to a man is an outgoing personality and must have a sense of humor. looks are not a big deal to me. happy posting!
• India
22 Oct 08
well great hope you will find your best match and a good thing that you believe in inner beauty rather than outer beauty.
• Philippines
24 Nov 08
Hi there my friend! According to an article, a study by University of Iowa researchers Eva C. Klohnen, Ph.D. and Shanhong Luo, a doctoral student, suggests that people are attracted to others who are loving, supportive and like to have. Participants in the study shows that they were attracted to secure romantic partners, or to partners with qualities matching the "ideal" self of the participant. Furthermore, participants who were attracted to insecure partners were more likely to have similar personalities. Klohnen explains this may be because a sense of familiarity brings about feelings of safety, essential to survival and well-being.
@adoremay (2065)
• Philippines
11 Nov 08
I like a responsible person, I am more into what it is in the inside rather than the outside.
@JOIEMARVIC (2341)
• Philippines
11 Nov 08
the first thing im atacted at in a guy is the skin color.I like brown skinned men.that makes them look more manly than the fairer ones.I am also attracted to guys who have nice eyes and smiles.I want a man who cam brighten up my day by simply looking at me and smiling.
@bombshell (11265)
• Germany
29 Oct 08
i attract to the guy has a nice teeth, smells good and clean thats why i married my hubby hehehe.
@tryxiness (4548)
• Philippines
23 Oct 08
The guy's ability to keep conversation flowing without any dull or gray moments. And when we run out of words and stuff to talk about, the silence between the two of us is something comfortable and peaceful. Oh well, that's like the deeper attraction, but initially, what I like most or get attracted with the guy is the eyes.
@JOIEMARVIC (2341)
• Philippines
23 Oct 08
the things i like with a guy whom i am going to have a relationship are the following.he must be descent,has a stable job,outspoken,understanding,easy to get along with,god-fearing,responsible,toughtful.loks are just a bonus.right now,my guy qualified for the traits i want in a person.
@ANTIQUELADY (36468)
• United States
22 Oct 08
i think personality i notice first. good looks are a plus but don't always count if i don't like their personality.
• India
22 Oct 08
Homely with the traditional dress(south Indian Saree).
• Malaysia
22 Oct 08
i like people who are true. who knows who they are. who has strong characteristics. I'm not really into the outer appearance.. more into the inner minds and who they are as a person. :)