There is a male that continues to look on my profile at Reunion.com...

That's rather creepy. Don't pay the fee! You're better off if he doesn't learn how to find you, I'm sure. You can't afford the fee, anyway. I would remove my profile from there if I were you. You have your children to think about, do you want to put them in danger? If he keeps looking, he may be fixated on you in an unhealthy way.

I coudl say you can display a message stating it drop a message in your id whomever visits your site with age as well, if you could able to guess again whom it is then just forget and go on. thats what i could say for you

hope he means well.keep your finger crossed.but i think their is actually no harm in paying the fee and finding out what the person really needs,.

I would definitely be careful though, it seems you might know who the person is and I hope your right. Even so people change and he may be more of a stalker then anything. I hope i'm not scaring you, i'm just being honest! Good Luck though and I hope you make a new / old friend.

It sounds like you should be concerned about this especially since he lives in the same city. You are probably very wise to pay the fee just so you can find out who this guy is in case he is stalking you or means you harm. This way you can take the proper action to protect yourself. I wish you all the luck in finding out who he is. Purrs, Catwoman=^..^= & Mija

Could you just not get a new e-mail address and leave that on your profile page? Then, he can see it and e-mail you and you him? You would have to put the e-mail in a different way so that the company would not know. like c r e a m 5 2 9 0 . c o m and sometimes that works. You could try it. And, if you don't want to talk to him after you e-mail then just stop the e-mails on that account.

I agree with sheepie. It could be Reunion.com itself trying to convince you that someone is interested in you just to get your money. But if not then it could be someone from your office or your neighbor...someone who knows you in real. Who knows he might have a crush on you

I have been getting e-mails from reunion.com telling me that someone has looked at my profile,well I dont have a profile there so I dont see how anyone could be looking at it so be careful about paying a fee to see who it is.You have a great night.

You can always pay the fee, find out who he is and then decide how to proceed. Hopefully it's somebody legitimate.

I think its a repeat email that the company sends you (and me) to peek your curiosity enough for you to pay them a fee...don't bite unless you are interested. Its probally cheaper to wait for the class reunion...lol

Hi cream97, LOl! I hope its not someone to harm you but it could be one of your old boyfriend or someone you knew from way back maybe school days? and trying to contact you, whoever he is I hope you know him. Good luck. Tamara

if you are reaLLY CURIOUS ABOUT IT, THEN go for it. there is no harm in finding out who he is--though the setback is you will have to pay just to know who he is. i hope you can somehow feel appeased after finding out who he really is

Maybe he's someone who knows you...perhaps a woman disguising as a male so you wont figure her out. Just ignore them. You don't really need to do it nor pay for something so you could know who he was.

Are you sure that he isn't someone you remember back in high school or college, also it could be a possibility that this guy who keeps searching for you would have a crush on you I mean pretty flirtatious and in a safe way of course... of course he wouldn't tell you he liked you for fear that he might get put down if you told him either that you were already married, not single, or seeing someone or if the feelings aren't mutual another thing to keep in mind is did you remember to update your profile for Reunion.com to refresh any information that may be inaccurate like if you created your profile page 6 years ago and said that you are single and later down the road 3 years later you met your husband are you sure that he isn't just contacting you because he thinks that you are still without someone in your life and contacting you just to be absolutely sure? I would just send him a brief message if possible and ask him why he keeps sending you messages and if you get a funky message back that is really even more creepy then in all likelihood he could be a dangerous individual without you knowing but again I would just ask him what his intentions are or why he keeps pursuing you just to be on the safe side and if you wanted to see who he was your best bet would be to invite a couple other friends either male or female or to really scare him off bring your husband to meet him that way he realizes that you are already with someone

Is he an ex colleague, or a an ex lover, or a relative? Curiosity kills the cat. If I was in your place I would have done the same thing. I would pay the fee to check who he is. I have received two anonymous phone calls this week and I am really curious to check who they are.

cream, be very careful of things like this. You have a man basically stalking you, although he hasn't found out your home address or home phone number yet. Then again, you could have a secrete admirer. Either way I'd be careful.

Hello cream. I am wondering how come you can figure out who is watching your profile, but at mylot, we cannot find who is looking at our profile. I hope that the guy who keeps looking at your profile means you well. Good luck to you and take care.

I hope your money is worth it too. I did not know you can really find long lost friends with these online sites. I hope it works. Good luck

That is creepy for me. Couldn't you just delete him or maybe block him from visiting your page? You should be careful I think if he only lives in the same city and state. Or he could be your ex-husband if I remember it right. Its easy to create a bogus email. Anyways, just be careful. Ciao!

Well, you should probably be careful. I would think that they are just doing that, making it look like someone wants you, just to yank money out of you. But I think that would be a reliable company because I hear about it a lot. Well, I guess if they are someone you would want to meet, that can only be good for you.