Do you open presents on Christmas eve or Christmas day? What is your tradition?

a decorated christmas tree with presents under it  - a decorated christmas tree with presents under it and red bows
United States
November 12, 2008 5:56am CST
We do both in my family. We have alot of people and have found out that this works out well because of everyones schedules and the locations, as well as the sizes of some of our homes.Sometimes, it works out best because of two sets of relatives. How about you?
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@wolfie34 (26771)
• United Kingdom
13 Nov 08
There are only three of us my friend, four if you count the cat and she gets presents as well, naturally! We are all patient enough to wait for the big day itself and only open our presents on Christmas Day and we've always done this, but because we are a small family unit this is easy and unproblematic to do.
@wolfie34 (26771)
• United Kingdom
13 Nov 08
She is an old lady now, I got her for my 25th birthday she was 2 then, I am now 37, so that makes her 14! She is black and white and a right madam with it. No, sadly I haven't got my frogs any more because I had to move from my last home and I had to give them away, I couldn't trust my ex to look after them and I wanted to break all my ties, it was bad enough leaving Zeus (the beautiful ginger and white cat I idolized)
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• United States
13 Nov 08
That is so sweet that you get the cat a present. What kind of cat is it? Do you still have your frogs? I have two albino frogs and they are getting big. Thats true when you dont have as many people, you can do that.
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@cher913 (25782)
• Canada
13 Nov 08
for us, because we pretty much have 3 christmas's, it doesnt really matter to us. we will try to get together with my hubbys family on christmas eve (they are german) and christmas day with my family and then we do our own family's christmas on boxing day (here in canada, it is another holiday!) so it just depends on what whose doing what as to when we get together.
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• United States
13 Nov 08
Thats the truth , when you have several different houses that cook and ours dont get together at the same place everytime. It switches around and actualy gets a bit confusing about who is doing what!
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• United States
12 Nov 08
When my daughter was litlle and growing up in Germany our tradition was everyone got to open one present before going to midnight church service and the the rest next morning on Christmas Day.
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@GardenGerty (157552)
• United States
12 Nov 08
I do not always get to go to a Christmas Eve service, but it is great when I can. On the other hand, sometimes I am participating in the service on Christmas Eve.
• United States
12 Nov 08
Now that would be a great tradition. I like that ideea alot. Its good to go to church...very good....and it was always fun to open at least one present on Christmas eve.
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@tyc415 (5706)
• United States
12 Nov 08
We have always done both, Christmas Eve and Christmas Day. Now with my youngest living 6 hours away they open their gifts at home and have their Christmas morning to see what Santa brought then they hit the road and come down here. We open gifts up Christmas Eve and after they get here we will eat then open up gifts from each other plus Santa always leaves a gift or two here for my grandson too.
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• United States
12 Nov 08
awwwwwwwwwwwww that sounds likke a lovely Christmas, and alot of fun..I always have a few things from Santa for my grandkids too ..
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• United States
13 Nov 08
Ever since I was a child,we opened Christmas gifts on Christmas Eve. Then opened our stockings Christmas morning. Even today, as an adult, my family, in SoCal and my husbands family, in NorCal, do the same thing. It is just a cool tradition to keep going.
• United States
13 Nov 08
Some people say that its better to do that so that on Christmas day, they can ffocus on the cooking and the meal and the cleaning up ect. I can understand that because there is alot to do.
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@dawnald (85135)
• Shingle Springs, California
13 Nov 08
Christmas eve in my husband's family, Christmas day in mine. Usually means we spend Christmas eve with his relatives and do presents with them and then Christmas day with mine and do presents with them. If we aren't spending Christmas with anybody, we let them open one present Christmas eve, and then they find the rest of them on Christmas morning.
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• United States
13 Nov 08
We have so many relatives that its almost confusing about where we are suppose to be and when ?lol heheheh I just hope I get it right lol
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@GardenGerty (157552)
• United States
12 Nov 08
It depends on who we are Christmas-ing with. My hubby can hardly stand to buy anything and not have me open it right away. When my kids are in town it is whenever we can all get together.
• United States
12 Nov 08
I am just as bad as your hubby on that!It seems like it takes forever when you are waiting,,lol and I always want to give some of the gifts early...and my kids will say mother, be good,,,and dont give us any presents untill Christmas lol
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@imsilver (1665)
• Canada
13 Nov 08
I let my children open up ONE present on christmas eve - and I pick which one. LOL. Usually it's something new for that night. Such as a new set of pyjama's or a pillow or blanket. The rest of the presents get opened in the morning.
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• United States
13 Nov 08
That sounds very nice. Thats what my mom used to do. I know its very special for them. Its very sweet of you!
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@Bd200789 (2994)
• United States
13 Nov 08
We do both, too. At home, we open them on Christmas Eve. Then on Christmas, we go to my grandmother's house, and open presents there, too.
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• United States
13 Nov 08
I really miss my grandparents. I really enjoyed them. We haad marvelous fun with them.
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@palonghorn (5479)
• United States
12 Nov 08
when i was young we used to go to one set of grandparent's (my dad's parents) home on christmas eve. my other grandparents would then come spend the night at our house and be there to open presents christmas morning. as we got older and things changed in our lives, marriage, moves, etc., we would do christmas eve with my ex-husbands family, and then leave around 4 am to drive 4 hours to my parents home for christmas morning. for the past 3 christmas' i have lived 1600 miles away, so me and my s/o exchange gifts christmas morning, then go to his parents' that afternoon, we usually pick up his daughter on the way there, it's also her birthday, then later in the evening we are back home and open gifts with her at our house. this christmas will be a bit different, it will be our first christmas apart, i am flying down to surprise my family for christmas this year. i'll be leaving the 23rd and coming home the 30th, so we'll have our christmas before i leave.
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• United States
12 Nov 08
What a wonderful surprise for your family. Thats wonderful. Happy holidays to you and all of your family!
@misshoney (973)
• Philippines
14 Nov 08
hello :-) The thought of opening presents made me smile. anyway in our house, the presents are opened on Christmas eve. we will wait for the 12 midnight then eat a hearty meal. after the meal, the opening of gifts follow. it is always a lovely and happy night
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• United States
14 Nov 08
I would love to have a midnight meal. Thats very cool. I have never done that.What a very marvelous idea....appreciate the response and happy holidays to you!
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@mentalward (14691)
• United States
12 Nov 08
We've always opened one present on Christmas Eve and opened the rest on Christmas morning. Now that my sons are on their own, my husband and I exchange one gift Christmas eve and my boys come over Christmas morning. Christmas has always been at my house for my entire family, except when my sister was in a nursing home. We'd spend the day with her once she could no longer come to my house. They always served a very nice Christmas dinner for the residents and their families. It's funny, though. We now live in a bigger home and my family has dwindled down considerably in the last 5 years!
• United States
12 Nov 08
Its nice to open a present on Christmas eve. The kids loved to do that when they were at home. I always let them and sometimes, I let them have their stocking too,lol just couldnt wait to see the looks on their faces.....
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• United States
14 Nov 08
I didnt see that post and who would do something like that to my dear friend? uhem, its unacceptable. You are one of the top most intelligent and dearest people I know. hugs
@mentalward (14691)
• United States
14 Nov 08
I know exactly what you mean! It's so hard holding back when you want so much to give them their presents and see the looks on their faces! I STILL have trouble with it and they're grown now! LOL By the way, thanks for the BR! It made me feel great after being attacked by another myLotter today!
@iskayz (5420)
• Philippines
12 Nov 08
Hi there! Oh the feeling of Christmas is here!! This topic gives me memories about our give giving day. Well, in my family we give our gifts to each other on Christmas day itself so we open the gifts on the 25th. We do the gift giving every morning when everyone is already awake. I remember how everyone gets excited receiving gifts and can't wait to open it. It's just fun! Ciao!
• United States
12 Nov 08
It was always so much fun when the kids were home and they woke up to all that. They still have just as much fun now. I enjoy them all and its wonderful. Happy holidays to you and yours.
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@baileycows (3665)
• United States
12 Nov 08
AT my parents we either do it the weekend before or after christmas to accomodate all the inlaws since there is 5 children and all have spouses or significant others. Me and my husband and kids have ours on Christmas eve morning and his parents that night. Then my little girl goes to her daddys for christmas morning. It seems like we usually have a whole week of christmas stuff.
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• United States
12 Nov 08
Thats nice because you have lots of Christmas, it sounds like us because there are so many of us. There has to be lots of Christmas.
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@Thoroughrob (11742)
• United States
12 Nov 08
We open ours at home on Christmas eve, with my family. We open on Christmas Day with my husbands family.
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• United States
12 Nov 08
Thats a good way to do it...happy holidays to you and all your family...We have so many in the family that we have to do that too.
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@ronreyes (4724)
• Philippines
2 Dec 08
Opening of Christmas Present - A snapshot of a little boy opening his Christmas present / gift.
It doesn't matter what day you want to open your Christmas present(s) just as long the spirit of Christmas is still intact. However, I'm more on between. Although we don't necessarily follow any tradition, but I prefer to open my gift in between Christmas Eve and Christmas day. In short, opening of presents will occur at 12 in the midnight - kinda like the countdown of new year. Having an "opening of present" countdown is much more exciting especially when you and your family do it together. Christmas - the Christian holiday which celebrates the birth of Jesus Christ. Present - a gift, now especially one given for birthdays or Christmas. Tradition - a commonly held system. Let peace reign. Let love rule.
• United States
2 Dec 08
I love giving presents. I do not care if I receive anything or not. I just like to give and especialy to the children. Seeing their eyes light up is just the best feeling in the world. I am working on Christmas for 5 grandchildren now.
• United States
2 Dec 08
Dolls, doll clothes, purses, action figures, candy, art supplies and things like that. It will be a big mixture. They dont live close by so is a big deal whenever I see them. I am very excited that they are going to be here because I havent seen them since August. They are a joy and its always exciting and busy when they are here. They tell me about every thing that has gonne on and I get full reports. Its wonderful and I make sure and feed them all their favorite foods so they are spoiled the entire time.I love them so much, they are a blessing and a great joy.
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@ronreyes (4724)
• Philippines
2 Dec 08
5 grandchildren, wow! Sure is fulfilling! What kind of gifts you're planning to give to them?
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@ailema4ever (2668)
• Finland
12 Nov 08
Here in Finland the tradition is to open the gifts on X-mas eve. Families gather on X-mas eve to have a dinner together and then we'll open the gifts after dinner. ;-D
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• United States
12 Nov 08
That is very nice and thank you for sharing the information about Christmas in Finland. Happy holidays to you and yours!
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@Erssyl (617)
• Philippines
14 Nov 08
We do open Christmas presents when my children were still young.I get this tradition from my mother.She made me believe there was a Santa Claus.I can say my childhood Christmas was always happy.So when I had my own children I also made my children believed in Santa Claus until they are ten years old or earlier maybe they did not let me know they already knew I was their Santa Claus because they are enjoying the Christmas gifts.But since they have their own family and we are left alone my husband and my 15 year old son,that tradition does not exist in our house anymore and I feel sad about it.
• United States
14 Nov 08
My parents raised me to believe in Santa too. I do also miss the days when the children were at home. It was such a wonderful time and I do cherish the memories. I can only hope that my children realise how fast their children will grow up and be gone.
@rocketj1 (6955)
• United States
12 Nov 08
It's usually Christmas at home on the Eve morning. Then we drive 2 and 1/2 hours to my parents for Christmas Eve, stay overnight and go to my in-laws on Christmas Day. It's busy!
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• United States
12 Nov 08
Sounds very busy but also sounds like a wonderful time. Happy Thanksgiving to you and yor family.
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• United States
12 Nov 08
Thank you! I want to see everyone and will make some small trips round, but am cooking here at home for Thanksgiving and Christmas...then I will have yummy left overs...lol
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@rocketj1 (6955)
• United States
12 Nov 08
Same to you!Do you have big plans?
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• United States
3 Dec 08
For as long as I can remember, my family has opened presents on Christmas eve.
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• United States
4 Dec 08
That is a very good tradition too. I wish you and yours a very merry Christmas and a happy New Years!