How do you react when you are angry with your partner?

United States
November 22, 2008 7:32pm CST
Everyone reacts differently when we are angry with our spouse.. I keep mum when i am angry.. So share your experiences and suggest the best ways of reacting that would help to end up the dispute..
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9 responses
• Malaysia
23 Nov 08
akilaram, i have given up ..... no point .... what is there to be angry about .. you are just killing yourself ... ... i either sleep or hang at "mylot" watch tv ... i love my lonely moments ... i used to argue and fight for him to spend time with me ... now days, i dont at all ... what is the point ... he will be what he want to be , he has been what he wanted to be anyways ... i just changed my self .... i found ways to keep my self busy ... once i am back from work .. i just simply rest.. i dont have to do so much "wifly" work because he is not around ... i just ask him to eat with his friends ... i dont have to cook, mix drink, clean, wash ... in a rush ... i benefit too This does not mean we are not in love with each other ..... since i stopped nagging and disturbing him ... my thoughts are more clear and we spent lots of lovely moments during weekends, because that is the only time we spend together ... we have pillow finghts in the morning, we have remote control fights , we go for lunch and dinner ... we wash cloths together ... sometimes we shower together why be angry ???? for small things , unless he has murdered or has mistress or is a robber ...
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@ifa225 (14364)
• Indonesia
23 Nov 08
you better talk about it. just beeing quite won't solve the problem, it only delay the problem. maybe it will blow out someday if you just keep quite.
• India
27 Nov 08
I am agree with you. but if your partner is not ready to take your angryness seriously then what to do you have to get more angry and get irritated ownself. this is worst situation but i am worried how to handle it.
@joy4you (641)
• India
25 Nov 08
I love my partner too much to do anything to her even if I am angry, so if an angry situation does arise I usually implode, keep quiet and walk away for a few hours or maybe even the whole day till I cool down.
@annierose (19152)
• Philippines
23 Nov 08
I avoid being angry with my partner. Usually when I have bad feelings toward him I just keep quiet.I never tell him that I am angry with him.I keep myself busy and never chat at him at all. That makes him alarm and then talk to me about the matter.
@srganesh (6340)
• India
23 Nov 08
I will explain why I am angry towards her and see whether she realises her mistake.If she is understanding, say goodbye to anger and help her correct the mistake.And if she is not,then correct it or do it to your needs.Nothing good is going to happen by keeping mum.Because,the quickest way to end a war is to give up.
• India
27 Nov 08
i keep mum in that case but i dont leave the issue then and there only until unless it get solved i keep on feeling irritated and keep mum in that case. but my this behaviour leads to more hard reaction when time comes. it is really hard for me to keep me apart from my partner but it reats more fun it got solved.
@jstmarfz (1498)
• United States
23 Nov 08
When I get upset or angry with my husband about something, I just keep quiet and ignore him. With that action, he already knew that I feel that way. So, either stay in our room alone and wont talk to him until he starts the conversation
@dodo19 (47095)
• Beaconsfield, Quebec
23 Nov 08
Basically, I go into a room alone, in order to prevent from saying something that may make things worse. After a moment or so, we just talk about it and we solve the argument in a calm manner.
• United States
23 Nov 08
i just walk way so that i dont say or do anything that regeret .