Be happy in any situation..!

@navas4u (185)
India
November 23, 2008 10:37am CST
Can anyone here be happy in any situation? A lot of friends are happy outside and sad inside.Why we can't be just the opposite?That is very happy inside but cannot show it outside because of the circumstances.What are you doing to keep the happiness inside you for ever?
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@loxion (1551)
• India
25 Nov 08
I think most people try to keep up with the word "be profession and happy to everyone", i mean my friend might seem to be happy each and every time he/she is with me or other people but when they go home or when they are alone and think of all the problems they have..their hearts turn to cry. and i think this situation happen to most of us because i believe we all have problem but atleast we try not to let people see them through how we look or how we behave. I think to ourselves happy depends on the situation we are in, if you have a family that loves you and feeling happy on most of the things in your life then happiness should always be on our hearts
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@navas4u (185)
• India
26 Nov 08
That's true loxion.Our moods are greatly affected by the enivironment.
@moneymaya (901)
• India
24 Nov 08
I think its a state of mind and measurly in our society we have teached by our parent that be sober and this sober ness change in to the Sad of our inside, inspite of being sober person should try to understand what type of acutally he is what is his requirement and finally what capablity does he actually has and after understand all this simples things there is no reason that one can't be sad in any situation one other reason is also there is currently in my mind is that there is lots of competition in every where and people are only teached physically but not teached spritually here i mean by spritually is agin person inner quality so measure people know about their physical streght that also not completely , but they are so weak spritually ,that create some unbalancing and I thing due to this unbalanceness makes people sad and I think since people are the combination of these two part so I think until people don't balanced nobody make hime happy in any situation ....
@navas4u (185)
• India
24 Nov 08
You are right moneymaya!We are trained in a certain fasion.Most of the people don't think about how to oversome the situation when a bad thing happen.Instead they just go dim and feel very depressed.Why can't we train ourselves to face a situation as it is?
• India
24 Nov 08
yes Navas4u , since you are indian so I think you can better understand this situation, and you can watch that in india and all over the world why all such type organizations are increasing which is running by such type of sant or monks who know these art that how to balance humans both side , but problem is that due to commercialization they again loosing or deviating from their real motive ..
@navas4u (185)
• India
25 Nov 08
ofcourse! another great contribution to the subject. I have a dream to design a course which teach people to face the situation.
@Sreekala (32783)
• India
24 Nov 08
Hi Navas, You don't need money to be happy eventhough it is very difficult to a person to be happy in any situation. You need a smile to be happy but all the time you won't get the same. Most of the people feel unhappy on simple things. Life is mixed with pleasant and unpleasant things. A normal person won't be happy when he was in the middle of crisis. For me, if I sad I can't show happiness outside. You can read from my face what the feeling inside me is. Thanks and have a great day.
@navas4u (185)
• India
25 Nov 08
You are right Sreekala! "Money gives us happiness", theory is a Myth.And there are unhappy people in the rich and the poor.I think we must find a mental state which will maintain us in a steady state always.I have seen many people keeping that state in any situation.All of them are found to be deep rooted religious people. Thanks.
@gr8life (6252)
• Malaysia
24 Nov 08
Hello navas4u, I don't think I can be happy all the times. There are ups and downs in my life. Sometimes, whenever I feel happy, it will be followed by sadness. Whenever I am happy, I want the whole world to know about it and so, I don't think I can just keep it inside me and showing like nothing happens. But honestly, I am content with life right now though not all that I wish for are fulfilled.
@navas4u (185)
• India
24 Nov 08
Hi gr8life, I agree with the idea that there are ups and downs in our life.But I can't understand on what account our minds go down?Is is a truth that many things we worry about are really nothing?
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@riyasam (16570)
• India
26 Nov 08
i used to think i would be happy if i had all the material things but i have realised how wrong i was.i have learnt to be happy in the small kids ,life offers like seeing a newborn makes me very happy.