when's the last time you spoke with your best friend?

@oyenkai (4394)
Philippines
November 23, 2008 6:15pm CST
It's been quite a while since I met up with my best friends (I have two: one is working, and the other is still in school finishing her last semester). The working best friend is in another province and the student best friend is busy with school life. I try my best to keep in touch with them through texts and chat but even there we don't have much common time to meet up online. We don't mind the distance or the silence for a couple of months, we make up for it when we do meet (which we're planning will be this Christmas).
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@Geone1 (65)
24 Nov 08
I also have two main best friends Oyenkai, They unfortunately don't live close to myself I do try and get up to see them at least once a year, but with everyday life being tough it's sometimes hard to even do that but I do chat with them but fone or txt just make sure they are kewwl though.
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• United States
24 Nov 08
yeah it is hard sometimes with life, kids, work , family and all that . my best friend lives nearly 2 hrs away . when we see one another we try to make the best of it . i am going to be seeing her this sunday and then again for a party in 2 weeeks after that . take care
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@Daunt02 (19)
• United States
24 Nov 08
Interesting you mention this topic because I spoke to my best from of many years two days ago for the first time in at least seven months. We had a blast and I love how my friends seem to never change. I hope it continues in that trend. We still laugh at the same jokes and have the same interests. It is only coincidental that we have the same first name and initials.
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@metschica25 (5399)
• United States
24 Nov 08
Hi My best friend lives just about 2 hrs from me . We see each other once a month or every other during the winter because we go to hockey games together up by her . Also from time to time i go to a party there . We talk daily thru emails and IM . This summer i hope she can come to the city again and that it works out . Maybe go to a few ball games. last time she was here she got sick and we had to cut things short
• India
24 Nov 08
hi oyenkai.As im in college i meet my best friend daily in college.Today only I met her in morning and talked to her.ya i too feel boring and want to meet her when vaccation is going on.during vaccation i rarely meet her. happy mylotting and have a nice time.
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• India
24 Nov 08
hmm like 5 hrs ago!! ;D
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• United States
24 Nov 08
Well the last time i talk to my best friend was six month ago :(, enough timeee, maybe neither doesnt do it our part to communicate but the truth even in the distance i really appreciate him a lot. Have a nice day and a good week see you ;)
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@Ithink (9980)
• United States
24 Nov 08
I was with my best friend yesterday, we actually play on a pool league together. I also talk to her at least every other day. I cant imagine her not calling at least every other day. If she didnt I would be calling her!
@Ithink (9980)
• United States
3 Dec 08
Wanted to say THANKS for BR.
• United States
24 Nov 08
Hmmm...a month ago? It's sad really. We use to talk all of the time. We even called each other every day. Now we only talk or see each other once a month if we are lucky. We both had had changes in our lives. But you would think that would bring us closer together? I miss her when she is not around.
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@anaknitatay (1335)
• Philippines
24 Nov 08
I have several close friends that I haven't spoken to in weeks and I am also hoping that we could meet each other this Christmas and catch up!
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@dhangski (3194)
• Philippines
2 Dec 08
As far as I remember, I last spoke to my best friend about 2 months ago. My bestfriend was my sister-in-law and we only see each other occassionaly for we live far from her. And as far as I remember, I last spoke to my BOF (Best Online Friend) neildc about a month ago on my cell phone. But we've sent SMS regularly for we both haven't been online for sometime now. He had no internet connection in his office and my laptop had to be fixed. HUGZ always my friend. Keep myLotting.
@kissie34 (2294)
• Philippines
24 Nov 08
Its been a long time since I had met and talked to my best friend and friends who are closed to me.. Well, the last time I had talked to my best friend was during our graduation day that was 8 months ago.. After the graduation, we had never met and talked again even in chat.. We are both busy after the graduation.. I was reviewing for the board exam then I went to another city after I finished the review to have a vacation with my mom until I had found a job.. Since, I have found already a job in the city so, I decided to stay.. Same also with my closed friends, I had never seen them for 8 months already and I had never talked to them in person but we have some communications like text and chatting.. I am trying to keep in touch also with my friends.. Yes, Christmas is coming only few days already and I don't know if I can go home this Christmas.. Maybe, I can't see my friends, my family and my boyfriend this coming Christmas because I am saying here in the City and this is my first Christmas without them.. When I am thinking that I can't go home I know already that my Christmas isn't that happy since it seems that I'm spending all by myself (I'm with my niece and sister this coming Christmas, only 3 of us)..
@oyenkai (4394)
• Philippines
24 Nov 08
Then you won't be so alone afterall :D you're with your sister and you're lucky :) a lot of people would really be spending their Christmas without a single family member. God bless your Christmas!
@agrant10 (1476)
• United States
24 Nov 08
I have not spoken to my best friend in about 21 years. However we do keep in touch by email. We email each other at least three or four times a month. Now that I think about it I do even have her phone number. We were buddies in college and found each other about four years ago on classmates.com.
• China
24 Nov 08
i have spoke to my best friend the day before yesterday on the phone,casue we are in different cities
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• United States
24 Nov 08
It's been about 2 1/2 years since I saw either of my best friends but we stay in touch. One lives in another state and the other works a lot so it's hard to see them as much as when we were kids
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@oyenkai (4394)
• Philippines
24 Nov 08
Hello spanky and welcome to myLot! 2 1/2 years seems like an awfully long time. I'm afraid that someday I might have the same relationship with my best friends. When one gets into the job that she's aiming for, she's going to be a flight attendant, and the other one plans to study in Australia. Have fun here!
@orevro (715)
• Philippines
24 Nov 08
I've lost contact with my best friend 3 years ago.. When we had time during our summer vacation, we used to hang out at the mall and at their house to pass time.. I'm not sure if she still pursued for a medical degree but I know that she's doing very well since my mom still has contact with her mom.. Maybe due to our scehdules and the different crowds we're in, that keeps us apart?
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@fasttalker (2796)
• United States
24 Nov 08
I actually spoke with my bestie just a few minutes ago. We chat while we are online at least two or three times aweek. We only get to see each other once a year becasue we live a great distance from each other. Last year she came and spent Thanksgiving with me. This year I am going to see her for New Years. We have been friends since elmentary school and she moved away after graduating but we have always stayed in touch!
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@iamcdy (1119)
• Philippines
24 Nov 08
The last time I talked to my best friend was 2 weeks ago when I greeted her for her birthday. She is currently abroad so our means of communication is through texs, chats, emails or phone calls. We have never seen each other for almost three years now and I really miss her so much. But I am happy knowing that despite the distance, we still keep in touch and never forget our treasured friendship.
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@MKBORA (80)
• India
24 Nov 08
hello oyenkai... well i have many best friends, but they seperated from me. my school best friend seperated for higher study and now i do not know his wear about. my college friend also moved out to persue higher education and thus all my best frient were lost in this vast world... i do not know where are they??? but they will be in my memories for ever... you are lucky to have friend even now, be in regular contact with them... don't loose them like me, otherwise you'll miss an important part of your life. take care, bye.
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• Philippines
24 Nov 08
It's been years since I talked to my bestfriend! I miss her a lot but since I moved I never got the chance to talk to her again!
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@zyy1984 (18)
• China
24 Nov 08
It's so difficult for us to meet the friend who is far away from us after graduate. I always missing the days that we live together in the university. We are shopping together, chatting and studying. So many happy times. But when we work, we have less time to meet each other, even for talking. We are busy and tired. How can we go back to the happy time? I always thinking about this question.
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