What is your opinion on punishments? Is it necessary to realize the mistakes?

@Sreekala (34312)
India
November 26, 2008 6:25am CST
"Punishment may make us obey the orders we are given, but at best it will only teach an obedience to authority, not a self-control which enhances our self-respect" - Bruno Bettelheim When we think about punishment naturally we are thinking about children. Mostly they are getting punishments. But grown ups are also punishing in different ways. Some are facing some punishment on their work; some are violating some rules; some are doing some crimes etc. Do you think punishment is necessary to realize the mistakes? Or do you think it will change men's attitude? Can us able to realize our mistakes by ourselves without a punishment. Please share your views.
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@Roseo8 (2947)
• India
28 Nov 08
Hi sree....this is an interesting discussion...Punishments are good to instill discipline and obedience in children as well as adults,to a certain extent.Punishments play a great part in maintaining the law and order situation in any place,without which there will be mayhem and corruption in society.it is also meant to instill a sense of respect and obedience to law ,which will enhance the well being of society as a whole. But there are some situations in our day to day life,where mistakes can be pointed out and corrected through love and understanding,rather than by wielding a stick.And it is also possible to realise one's mistakes and punish one self through self disciplining .Its all a matter of attitude.......
@Sreekala (34312)
• India
10 Dec 08
Hi Rose, So you are going with the punishment part. It is really a nice idea if we can realise our mistake by ourselves. But how many people could do it? Only a small percent. Thanks for your nice comments. Have a great day.
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@Roseo8 (2947)
• India
11 Dec 08
Hi Sree thanks for the BR.....
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@dpk262006 (58675)
• Delhi, India
28 Nov 08
Punishment works as a detterant for those, who go against the laid down rules and laws. Supppose, you remove punishment from every rule and law of land, then people will become more free to do anything and everything. In my opinion, fear of punishment makes most of the people to work and they remain disciplined. To my mind 'punishment' factor should be necessary and it should be applied, when any rule is broken. One should not be harassed for the sake of punishment. What is your own opinion, suppose your subordinate disobeys you and you have the power to punish him/her, what will you do? Will you punish him/her?
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@dpk262006 (58675)
• Delhi, India
11 Dec 08
You are 'wise' enough, therefore you know how to get the work done, without punishment. I am also not in favour of punishing anybody, if the task can be got done through persuation and some other methods. have a great day!
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@Sreekala (34312)
• India
11 Dec 08
Hi Deepak, Thanks for the compliment. But in office we have to be very careful. Otherwise it will affect some others future and I really don't want that. Have an excellent day.
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@Sreekala (34312)
• India
10 Dec 08
Hi dpk, I think that is pity, 'the fear of punishment makes most of the people to remain disciplined'. In fact it is a reality (fear of punishment pulls back people) and I agree with you. and deepak, for me, fortunately it has not happened yet, but some have done some wrong thing but I never give a punishment instead make them understand what turned wrong, so that they won't repeat the same in future. thanks and have great time.
@balasri (26537)
• India
25 Dec 08
Punishment is absolutely necessary for making at least others to realize that it is a mistake to commit and they will be punished.It definitely kills the eagerness to commit mistakes.
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@balasri (26537)
• India
27 Dec 08
Thanks a lot for the appreciation Sreekala.
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@Sreekala (34312)
• India
27 Dec 08
What a wonderful reply. Thanks Balaji.
@cupid74 (11388)
• Pakistan
27 Nov 08
Hi Sreekala Hope u must be doing fine i believe that Both are important, "i mean Fear Of Punishment and Joy of Rewards", Both these are way to keep Humans on Right Track, I wont say children only. Both are important, just imagine if we don’t have Laws , Punishments, Jails and Law Enforcement agencies, What would be situation of the World and Society If u r religious, look at the Concept of HELL and HEAVEN, so one must know that what would be punishment if one do wrong deeds and what would be reward, if he able to self control. Take care
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@cupid74 (11388)
• Pakistan
23 Dec 08
Hmmmmm r u talking about UTOPIA
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@Sreekala (34312)
• India
29 Dec 08
@Sreekala (34312)
• India
10 Dec 08
Hi Cupid, Yes, I am doing fine and thank you for your concern. I agree with your points. But I would like think in another way. If each person is good then there is no necessity of Laws, Punishments and Jail etc and there no need of 'Hell' at all. If that is the situation how beautiful the world would be. thanks cupid, hope you celebrated your festival well.
@anneshirley (1516)
• Philippines
2 Dec 08
I do believe that punishment helps us in some ways. When we were young, it is very important to know the consequences of our actions. We must equal punishment with the reward. If we did something wrong then we must be punished but if we did something good then we must be rewarded. Because of this, we will be doing good so that we will receive rewards until we such time that doing good has become our hobby.
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@Sreekala (34312)
• India
23 Dec 08
Hi Anneshriley, It means you agree the punishment part. Thanks for the participation. Good luck.
@mjmlagat (3170)
• Philippines
6 Dec 08
I think it's important to give them punishment from time to time just to let them know and be reminded that they have done something wrong.
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@Sreekala (34312)
• India
23 Dec 08
Thanks for your comments.
@subha12 (18441)
• India
27 Nov 08
Punishment is something taht should prevent for repeating the same crime again. It is also necessary the person can understand what was the real crime committed. otherwise it will have no meaning at all.
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@Sreekala (34312)
• India
10 Dec 08
Hi Subha, Thanks for the nice comments. Have a nice day.
@salonga (27775)
• Philippines
27 Nov 08
Punishment is necessary for people to realize they have accountability and will suffer the consequence for doing wrong or violating rules or laws. Even God himself punishes those who disobey so I believe punishments should really be employed. Children learned from the mistake they did when they got punished for it. This make them to be cautious and careful no to do the same mistake again. Same is through with adults. So children and adults alike deserve punishment for disobedience or violations.
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@Sreekala (34312)
• India
6 Dec 08
Hi Salonga, Thanks for the nice comments. It helps to make some people obedient. But some population is not bothered about the same. Good luck and happy posting.
• Philippines
27 Nov 08
I think punishments are sometimes necessary especially when you need to be firm, however positive reinforcement is still better for me
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@Sreekala (34312)
• India
10 Dec 08
Hi Thanks for your nice comments. Have a great day and happy mylotting.
@mokbul (616)
• Singapore
27 Nov 08
For children is still the best to avoid punishment and try corrective actions, let them feel that they have done something wrong which is not good and should not be repeated. First the children should be made realized the gravity of his misconduct and he or she still repeats then second step should be corrective actions and only third step should be punishment in way that does not affect the child mentally. For adult offender I still support punishment
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@Sreekala (34312)
• India
10 Dec 08
Hi Mokbul, You support punishment for adults and not for children. In children also we can give punishments but the way of punishment is important. We don't want to give physical punishment instead we can punish them by not allowing to watching their favorite programm or not giving their favourite toy etc. I think this method is really having some advantages. Thanks for your views Mokbul, happy mylotting.
@intian (3)
• Philippines
27 Nov 08
punishment is a good thing in the sense that its is for a bad person. And also its in the bible that disobedience's persons will punished.
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@Sreekala (34312)
• India
6 Dec 08
Hi Intian, You seem to be a new member, so welcome to mylot my friend. Hope you will enjoy with mylot. Yes you are right punishment meant for bad people or in other words those who did a crime or violating law etc. If the people are good there is no crime and there is no need of punishment at all. Thanks for the participation. Keep posting. Good luck.
@pooHnes (15)
• Philippines
27 Nov 08
In my opinion, I think punishment is one way of modifying a behavior and that it can help people especially children to learn from their mistakes. But it doesn't mean that when a person commits mistake we immediately punish because doing so will only lead to hatred between you and the one being reprimanded. We have to weigh things first in order to give fair judgment whether or not to give punishment.
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@Sreekala (34312)
• India
10 Dec 08
Hi PooHnes, It means you are thinking that before punishing a person we have to judge him/her properly. May be you are right because sometime people do some mistakes not intentionally, in that case your opinion is right. Thanks for the nice comment. Happy mylotting.
• United States
26 Nov 08
Punishment in certain way is the best resolution that the law can apply for the people that is really guilty of committing crimes like robbing, kidnapping, killing, reaping, and so much more felonies that affect the society and the inocent people that struggle everyday to survive and have and honest way of living. Punishment depending on how is applied could be painful for the relatives of the person that is being punished, however is the only way to refrain the others of committing such actions.
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@Sreekala (34312)
• India
6 Dec 08
Hi employmentdep, Yes people need some fear then only they obey the rules. Actually it is a sad thing, because of most of the people are educated and then also they need some fear for obedience. Thanks for the nice comments. Keep posting. Good luck.
• India
27 Nov 08
Yes punishment make us obey the orders that we are given. but again here the degree of punishment, importance of person who is giving order in once eyes and the issues on which order and punishment is given plays an important role. what type of punishment is given for what reasion plays crucial role here. but finally the punishment is the full and final answer. punishment like : Ignorence to love onces shouting slaping more pressure of boss on you etc
@Sreekala (34312)
• India
10 Dec 08
Hi Anjali, Means the circumstances plays an important role, is it. Ok Anjali thanks for the comments have a nice time to you.
@stephcjh (38473)
• United States
26 Nov 08
Yes. It is necessary to realise the mistakes we have made so we do not repeat them again. Punishment is also needed alot of times for people to realise it is not okay with what they have done.
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@Sreekala (34312)
• India
27 Nov 08
Hi stephcjh, You have choosen the path of punishment. Thanks for sharing. Happy mylotting.
@Pose123 (21635)
• Canada
26 Nov 08
Hi sreekala, Punishment is never necessary under any circumstances, it is pointless and outdated. This doesn't mean that we do not have to learn from our mistakes and everyone eventually will. Everyone must be taught the law of cause and effect, or the law of Karma, whatever you want to call it. What goes around comes around and no one gets away with anything, it is absolutely impossible. When everyone understands this, we will see that we don't need to punish, only reform through education. Blessings.
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@Sreekala (34312)
• India
2 Dec 08
Hi Pose ji, I understand your view point. But do you think it is possible. You also agree with me that people are doing several mistakes and they are well aware about their mistakes then also they are doing the same. May be they think that they can escape from the punishment. For example some people are taking bribe; they know that they are doing something against law. So my opinion is, people are greedy and selfish and they can do anything for their personal benefits. In that way, punishment is necessary. But I really appreciate your viewpoint. Thanks for the wonderful points. Happy mylotting.
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@cupid74 (11388)
• Pakistan
27 Nov 08
Hi Sreekala Hope u must be doing fine i believe that Both are important, "i mean Fear Of Punishment and Joy of Rewards", Both these are way to keep Humans on Right Track, I wont say children only. Both are important, just imagine if we don’t have Laws , Punishments, Jails and Law Enforcement agencies, What would be situation of the World and Society If u r religious, look at the Concept of HELL and HEAVEN, so one must know that what would be punishment if one do wrong deeds and what would be reward, if he able to self control. Take care
• Philippines
26 Nov 08
For me punishment is necessary for them to realize their mistake and for them not to continue those mistakes they have done.
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@Sreekala (34312)
• India
27 Nov 08
Hi Dehdows118, So you believe in punishments. Let us hope punishment will helps to realise the mistake and don't repeating the same. Thanks and happy mylotting.