Falling inlove

@eynjel05 (444)
Philippines
November 29, 2008 11:12am CST
In your opinion, is it right to fall inlove with someone you haven't seen yet? I knew someone that falls in love with his chatmate. They often talk in chat and they are also using webcams. But they were actually miles apart. But they are already exchanging words of love. Do you think thats okey?
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@smartie0317 (1610)
• United States
29 Nov 08
I'm not going to say it's wrong, because if they're adults,I'm assuming they are, they have the right to do as they please. However, I'd advise against it. It's pretty easy to lie online. How do they know the other is not msrried, or a criminal, or a person who has a mental problem? I also think, while you can find love online, it's very antisocial and can stop you from getting with someone offline.
30 Nov 08
If you truely believe you love somebody then you are free to do as you please. Not seeing someone is just a visual impurity which closes the mind. With this in mind it only gets in the way. Not seeing somebody but being able to fall in love with them, shows a lot of deep desire and real likeness towards that person. But is this love? No. You have to see somebody before you can truely say you love them.
• Philippines
30 Nov 08
As the song says, "love moves in mysterious ways". Maybe in this technology age, it is just right to consider chatting online as one means of communication. I think it's just unfair to base one's sincerity and love on the method of communication. A couple in a long distance relationship and chats online, as long as both parties are true and sincere is a lot better than a couple who are physically together but are no longer talking. Or something to that analogy.. Nonetheless, it's still a must though, to practice caution in all our dealings especially online. And especially when it's something personal and we haven't met that person yet. It's just easier to lie online. Though, a lot of people too lie even they are in front of us..
@maean_19 (4655)
• Philippines
30 Nov 08
I guess the proper question should be, "IS IT POSSIBLE TO FALL IN LOVE WITH SOMEONE YOU HAVE NOT SEEN IN PERSON YET?"...Sorry for that. Well, every person has his own right to fall in love whoever, whatever, wherever, whenever and however that is. In short, it isn't our business whom other person shall love. Perhaps, you may not consider the idea of falling to someone you have not meet in person because it has not happen to you, but once you struck with the same situation like your friend or someone you knew, then you can finally answer your own question. Like you, I had been wondering that, "falling in love with someone you meet in the net"...Is it really possible? Truly, there are people who can't easily fall with a mere chatting online, texting or even exchanging photos or webcam viewing. But now, I had proven myself wrong. Falling in love with someone you have not meet in person is possible. Just recently, I have this chatmate, who became my constant caller just confessed his feelings towards me. It was very surprising, but i just felt he is telling the truth. You can just feel it and you can't describe it.
• India
30 Nov 08
My best friend stays near my place. He married the same girl with whom he was chatting for months together. They were in love and now they are both married... Till now they live together happily So wat do u say about this..
• United States
30 Nov 08
Don´t people say that love is blind? I would say that it is never wrong to fall in love and there is no right way to do so. I have heard of many stories of people falling in love through the internet and I have even heard of people who have gotten married after meeting online. I personally don´t believe it to be wrong or outrageous, not even strange since the Internet has become such an everyday ocurrence for most people in the world. Nonetheless, I believe it to be a totally different story when we referr to the age of the people involved in the "chat-crush". We cannot turn our backs to the fact that there might be danger in this kinds of interactions if they end up in going somewhere and meeting someone... I know there are many people who take advantage of young people who sometimes are naive and gullible due to their lack of experience... this could be a long, long discussion jeje.
@Subbual87 (130)
• India
30 Nov 08
yes its right .. we can fall in love.....
• India
30 Nov 08
Its completely okay...i think love blossoms only between hearts and not because of ditance,colour or appearance..its their true heart which matters and i think the person that you know has just did that and i'm happy about that person..happy mylotting..
• Philippines
30 Nov 08
yes i do believed in true love in the chat/net. cause it happened to my cousin. it was just 6 years ago. when my cousin named ate fel. met her husband on the chatroom. danny is the name and also a pinoy worked in saudi at that time. it was just 12 midnight when my cousin asked me if i want to chat. well i said to her yes. and we open the 2computers and we entered in the chatrum. after one hour the phone rang and it was a long distance from kuya danny, ate fel chatmate. that is there first time talk on the phone after 3 months danny decided to go the philippines and they met of course im with them. hehehe.. they felt love to each other and they decided to got married. and now they lived in qatar right now having 2 beautiful children. and they live happily ever after.
@shiloh_222 (5479)
• Philippines
30 Nov 08
hi. i have two friends who fell inlove with their chat mates and got married. they are okay and still inlove. so i guess these things happen... hehhehe... anything could be possible. happy mylotting.
• India
30 Nov 08
it is just my opinion and not to hurt anyone feelings just think over it how wise is it to choose your life partner over chat??????? there are high possibility of them cheating you, lying you about themselves? a married person would tell that he isn't married and fall behind you for love ...... which is just fake and for some bad intentions i hope you are understanding what i am trying to tell, so in my opinion its better you stay off from such relations..... If you are extremely lucky you might get one like that but that's very rare
@arunmails (3011)
• India
30 Nov 08
According to me Love is a Magic, that is to be learned and loved.... 1. Some believe in "Love at first sight"... they say that "Love is a Spark". 2. Some believe in "Love comes after Marriage"... they say that "Love comes after a deep friendship"..... So, person to person love different....
• Philippines
30 Nov 08
No one could condemn you for loving any person, it is your feelings anyway. Who are they to tell you what or right and wrong? In love nothing is impossible. When you are in love, you will do crazy things that you never thought you can. However, we must be really careful in taking the risk for in the end we might just get hurt.
• Philippines
30 Nov 08
in my own opinion, it just ok to fall in love with someone you doesn't know yet. or far from you. it depends to the person or both lovers. because in love you dont have to choose, you just fall and go with the flow of your emotion. and love is not about looking for the right person its about creating a right relationship.
• Philippines
30 Nov 08
in my own opinion, it ok when you fall in love with someone you doesn't know yet.or someone faR from you. it depends to the person or both lovers.because in love, you don't have to choose, you just fall and go with the flow of your emotion. and as they say love not finding the right person, but creating a right relationship.
@aisaellis22 (6445)
• United States
30 Nov 08
Hello eynjel05! There's nothing wrong with falling in love through online. But just be very cautious. Not all the you meet in the chatroom are true and worst some are psychotic. In my case, I fell in love to a man whom I talk online for 3 years and now we are happily married.
• United States
30 Nov 08
It's not a question of right and wrong. Anyone who has ever been in love knows that very little about it makes sense. Love is not in any way a logical state of being. So as long as they are both sure they are really talking to who they think they are talking to, I actually think it might be easier to fall in love online. Online all you have to work with is the other person's mind. Sure, there are webcams but those things put out horrid pictures...all grainy and dark. And they can email pictures but who emails a bad photo of themselves?
@HOW2DO (226)
• India
30 Nov 08
You have to may meet unlucky or luck.Because you can't predict that person meet your expectations.May be that person is good in chating skills But really may not be good.So becarefull by taking any decision and don't be too much fall in love keep a limit and enjoy your life best by sharing your thoughts and idea's.
@flojever (404)
• Philippines
30 Nov 08
The internet could be an interesting place to find someone who can possibly become the partner you've been dreaming of in life. Some people claim to have met their soulmate online, but did it work for everyone else? I think not, others were not as fortunate. Contrary to what most of us think, statistic show that most people fall inlove with someone they've known for a while. I was never in love with someone I haven't meet yet, but I got in love with the guy who pursued me for 6 years. He's my boy friend now. I think it's okay to get to know someone online but you need to remember not to believe everything in his/her profile. Get to know each other first, know his/her favorites, likes and dislikes, goals, work, etc. That is all. Save the emotion until you meet him/her. At least you'll be sure it's the real thing and he/she's the sort of person you've always wanted to meet.
• United States
30 Nov 08
Whatever works for them the more power to you! My brother met his wife online and they spoke through chat and web cams for nearly a year. When he visited her in the Philippines for the first time he proposed. 8 months later she was in the United States and 5 more months after that they were married. Additionally, my dad just got remarried in April and he met his wife on eharmony. They only lived 45 minutes apart and got to see eachother early on in the chatting.. but i think meeting online and falling in love is completely acceptable. Please rate me if you liked my response :) Happy mylotting!
• Canada
30 Nov 08
I believe in love at first site.Ever since I saw the girl I well fell in love with the first moment I saw her me and her have always had a strange connection :S but on the other hand other people have other opinions