i am angry!

@sunjar (10)
China
November 30, 2008 1:07am CST
I AM REALLY ANGRY THESE DAYS I once have a good friend,and i always regard him as one of my best friends.Though we are in different universities now,but i still want to keep in touch with him. I send a message to him on thanksgiving day,no response.I send several messeages to him yesterday and today,still no response.What should i do to reconnect with him!I don't want to lose a friend!
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10 responses
• Philippines
30 Nov 08
try to find the reason why you got no response you might not know if the message was delivered to him properly..Do you used cellphone in delivering the message? Is it a text message? maybe his communication tools is out of service mode. We really don't know the real reason as to why? I think, you have to go with him, and talk to him.
@rrowenaa (834)
• Philippines
30 Nov 08
get a hold of yourself, try to keep calm and don't get angry. maybe your friend has no access to reply on your messages. just wait and see.
@Porcospino (27298)
• Denmark
30 Nov 08
Maybe your friend has a valid reason for not responding. He might be too busy, he might have some problems that you don't know about or he might be unable to respond because he has lost his phone, because his computer broke down or whatever. His silence COULD be a sign that he no longer wishes to keep in touch with you, but I don't think that you have a reason to be sad or angry yet. You don't know if he didn't contact you because he didn't want to or because he didn't have the chance to do so. If I were you I'd keep on contacting him. Have you tried calling him instead of sending messages?
• India
30 Nov 08
dont worry it happens almost never do friends stay friends forever i have a FRIEND N I;M LOOSING HIM bcuz if his gril
• China
30 Nov 08
i think if no responses from him, call to him to know the reasons is better than sanding messeages. you said,you are good friends,so beleive your friendship! i always think a good friend is not so easy to lose.Good luck!
@earnkk (14)
• India
30 Nov 08
to my opinion please try to send the message again or call him again
@MZKUMA (705)
• United States
30 Nov 08
With it being the holiday he may have been preoccupied with entertaining family he hasn't seen in a while. I see nothing to get upset over. If he received your message I'm sure he will respond. If you keep insisting on a response it may make him feel you are thinking the friendship is more than a friendship and scare him away. Friends aren't held accountable to give an instant reply. He may even be spending time with a significant other. As a friend you will hear from him. Just be patient.
• China
30 Nov 08
Maybe your friend is just busy, take it easy, everything is gona be allright!
@CJay77 (4438)
• Australia
30 Nov 08
Hi there! Welcome to mylot and have fun. Your friend is may be busy at the moment and didn't have a chance to reply to you. Sometimes friends get too caught with their busy schedule, but that doesn't mean they forget or ignoring you. Just be there and support your friend whatever he is doing and you may here from him soon. Thanks!
@uditpanda (1023)
• India
30 Nov 08
If u really regard him as ur best friend , u have every right to get angry. But my friend as of now u have to keep patience as little misunderstanding in relations can end result in big unpleasant consequence...Get to him through a phone call if ur messages are of no reply, talk to him on why has he not responded. he may have been busy with something important & could not have found time.Carry ur feelings to him...If he is worth ur friendship he will definitely understand.... Hope i helped...takecare