To pay or not to pay?
By missybear
@missybear (11391)
United States
December 5, 2008 6:45am CST
My friend called last night and said that they had concert tickets but something came up.
They can't go so they giving them to us.
My boyfriend was the 1 taking the call.
He said there was no mention of paying for them it was a gift because they couldn't go anyway.
Now i wonder when they drop of the tickets today should I,1."mention how much do i owe you"
2. "Not say anything but thank you" and hope she don't ask for money, or wait for her to ask for money?
What a dilemma. I want to go but don't have $100 for tickets.
5 responses
@oldboy46 (2129)
• Australia
5 Dec 08
If your friends cannot go to the concert then the tickets will go to waste unless someone else uses the tickets. The money has already been paid for the tickets anyway and there is probably no way your friends can recoup that money uner normal circumstances. In this case they offered the tickets to you and your boyfriend and if there was no mention of mney, then it sounds like a gift to me.
However if you are concerned about the situation you might be able to offer your friend something, if not the entire $100. If your friend asks for the money then you will have to tell her that you cannot afford them as much as you would like to attend the concert. Then it is up to your friend as to whether you still get the tickets to attend the concert.
Maybe you could give your friend some money for the tickets, even if itis not the entire amount but it would depend on how your finances are. Or at a later time invite them around for a meal, if you do not have a lot of spare money. If in a few weeks you do have some extra money, maybe you could take yor friend out for a meal. There are any number if was you could thank your friend for the concert tickets if you cannot afford to pay for them.
Good luck and I hope it goes well for you and that you can enjoy the concert.
@missybear (11391)
• United States
5 Dec 08
I might have to do that ,I would feel kinda guilty just taking them if they wanted the money.
Thanks for responding.
@oldboy46 (2129)
• Australia
20 Dec 08
missybear, did you end up going to the concert and if so, did you have a fun time?
I hope that you were able to go and without a huge expense as well, because that would have spoilt the entire experience for you. Sometimes misunderstandings can occur when it comes to these sorts of things and I hope your friends actually meant for you to have the tickets for free.
Thanks for giving me best response for this discussion.
@miraclefreebies (3043)
• United States
5 Dec 08
Maybe it's a gift. If they didn't mention anything about selling them to you, then maybe it's a gift because like you said, they couldn't go themselves anyway. When they drop the tickets off I would just not say anything about money. Why? Because they didn't say anything. If they want money for them, then It only make sense to me to tell you or your boyfriend on the phone first hand about the money. Don't say anything unless they do.
@missybear (11391)
• United States
5 Dec 08
That's what my boyfriend says to.
I hope you guys are right.
@kunking (1118)
• China
20 Dec 08
hi,missybear! well, i think u should take it as a gift if ur friend wanna present the ticket to u..the ticket will be a waster of paper if they can't go. however, i think u better ask u friend whether they give u for free or not..if they do want to sell the ticket to u and u can't afford it, tell them the truth. other than that, u should be glad to accept ur gift..

@missybear (11391)
• United States
5 Dec 08
I hope not course i'm really broke and i really want to go.






