Did you inherit your political thinking from your parents?

United States
December 11, 2008 9:33pm CST
Personally, I am no where near in agreement with my parents politically. My dad is a staunch conservative and my mother is apathetic. She said my dad forced her to vote Republican when they were married, so when she left him she vote Democratic just out of rebellion LOL. But my dad is the kind of person who will bring politics up in every single discussion, it's so annoyinggggg. I used to believe that I was a republican, mostly because my Dad told me it was the Christian party and that liberals were evil, but after going to a Christian college and meeting many Christian liberals that were amazing people, I definitely had to rethink my position. So now I don't fit in anywhere. Haha. But I guess I'm a moderate. How about you?
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@ParaTed2k (22940)
• Sheboygan, Wisconsin
12 Dec 08
I think most of us start out with our parent(s)' opinions on pretty much everything. As we grow and start having our own experiences, we start branching off and forming our own. As far as political offiliation and general ideology, yeah, I'm still pretty close to how I was raised, but when it comes to specific issues, we don't see eye to eye. But does that mean that my opinions aren't my own? Nope. I may have started out thinking this way because I was taught it by my parents words and actions, but there comes a time in everyone's life when they have to decide for themselves. If a person's thoughts and convictions are carbon copies of their parents, and have no idea why they hold the convictions and opinions or where they came from, then yeah a case could be made that they inhereted them from their parents. However, the rest of us may have started with our parents' opinions, but it was up to us to decide to keep them or not.
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• United States
12 Dec 08
I definitely agree with you. Although I think a lot of times, people who were raised a certain way make excuses and justifications for themselves rather than actually THINKING for themselves.
@sharra1 (6340)
• Australia
12 Dec 08
I must be unusual then. I objected to my parents views on everything a I grew up because my family was sexist and being a girl it sucked so from my earliest memory to was against what they favoured. My eldest brother was 10 years old than me and was gone in the army when I was still young. He got called up in the draught. The middle brother, there were 3 of us, was an anti Vietnam protester so I grew up influenced by his actions and rebelled against my parents from as early as I can remember.
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• United States
12 Dec 08
I think it's good that you realized you were being discriminated against. Perhaps that is what makes your situation different.
@sharra1 (6340)
• Australia
12 Dec 08
Not a chance. I disagree with my parents political views and I am sure they would not approve of mine. In fact when I was growing up my political views were not even taken seriously because I was a girl so no one tried to brainwash me to vote the way they did. I suppose it also helped that we lived in an electorate where their candidate was safe so it did not matter who I voted for.
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@sharra1 (6340)
• Australia
13 Dec 08
I am having the same luck where I live now. It is a safe seat for someone I do not vote for but the party I vote for now has very few seats in the house of representatives but shares the balance of power in the senate and that makes life interesting. I love the place I live and I vote as I feel. It has changed over the years.
@mommyboo (13174)
• United States
13 Dec 08
I seem to have always lived in a place where the election choices are already a foregone conclusion. In CA, democrat always seems to win. Even so, I choose who and what I want to support based on my own feelings, not who is likely to win anyway. My parents don't always approve of choices I make either or things I choose to support, but I have never bothered with approval. The only approval that matters at the end of the day is mine.
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• India
12 Dec 08
I am of no political view as 99.99% of all politicians in my country are complete humbugs and I don’t identify with any of their policies. My mom had her political views rather expressed while Dad is mum on this. Mom was (don’t know now) a staunch supported of the Communist Party of Bengal as this is the party which had done a lot for the rehabilitation of Bangladeshi refugees (which her family was) immediately after the partition of India. So naturally I grew up having strong positive views about this party which has now changed owing to my own analysis of situations and interpretation of various incidents. I am now, what can be called apolitical and I don’t vote.
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• United States
12 Dec 08
I used to have the same idea, that if no politicians lined up with what I believed (and none of them do) that I just shouldn't vote. But this past election in the US taught me that some things are more important than upholding all of my political ideologies....
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• United States
12 Dec 08
I vote Democratic like my immediate family but all of us do hold different views on certain subjects. They are rather conservative on certain subjects and I am quite liberal. They feel that everyone deserves certain basic rights but certain groups should not have some rights. It's annoying. But I certainly do not vote a certain way because the rest of my family does.
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@anniepa (27955)
• United States
12 Dec 08
I think if it's "inherited" it isn't really thinking, or it's not totally your own thoughts you're thinking anyway. I'm sure there are people who follow their parents' lead politically, at least in the beginning, and our upbringing and environment does a lot to shape our political views but that doesn't mean most of us don't make up out own minds as we mature. My parents were both Democrats and so am I but I'm much more socially liberal than they were. If anything, I influenced THEM in those kinds of issues. Annie
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• United States
12 Dec 08
That's interesting that you've been influencing your parents politically, that's not something that happens too often! I think I've been influencing my mom as well, I kind of convinced her to vote for a certain person.
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@SueD823 (371)
• United States
12 Dec 08
Definitely when I was still in my parents home was I influenced by their political views. Though once I had a mind of my own, also known as MOVING OUT, I realized that I didn't necessarily agree with their views. I'm not a devoted Republican or Democrat. If the person stands for what I do, or seemingly can make the changes necessary for our country, will I support them.
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• United States
12 Dec 08
Sounds like we're very similar in that sense.
• United States
12 Dec 08
In a way, I suppose. We were a very poor family, and in my part of the world that led to more of a Democrat ideology. I was raised by a single mother and grandmother who were pretty a-political. Neither expressed much of an opinion until election time and they insisted they voted "for the man" instead of the party. My personal observance over the years has been that the Democratic party was more in tune with working class people. The Republicans always seem to be about fattening their own pockets at the expense of everyone else. George W. Bush, born into an oil family, is a pefect example. We suffered while he hasn't had to buy a tank of gas in over a decade.
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• United States
12 Dec 08
You make a good point. Most of the time, our current class and/or monetary situation has a lot to do with the way we vote. That reminds me of the saying, "if you're young and a republican you have no heart. If you're old and a democrat you have no brain."
@anneshirley (1516)
• Philippines
12 Dec 08
When it comes to politics, my parents and I have our own opinion. Sometimes we have the same view about it sometimes we don't. We are not into politics so we just shrugged off our shoulders when we are not sharing the same idea. The idea and views I have about politics and politician right now are not 100% from my parents though they contributed to it in some aspect. The way I view politics is really depending on the knowledge I gain and how it affected me personally.
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• Australia
12 Dec 08
I think that to a large degree we do inherit our political thinking, but whether we build on that thinking or change it is up to the individual. And I emphasise individual, because most people do not escape their copnditioning. Obviously you did, and so did I. My family were very conservative, and up until a few years after I left school I voted conservative, as did my brother. We had both also attended an expensive private school which strongly reinforced the conservatiove message. But from that point on I began to shift away from the conservative line, to the moderate socialist line of Australia's Labour Party, but the older I get the more radical I have become, and I now would class as a radical Green. My brother, on the other hand, became ultra-conservative, a difficult thing for a gay man considering the approbation gays get from the Right. For those individuals with the ability to think for themselves childhood socialisation does not necessarily hold. Some of course choose to remain with what they learned from their parents, as a conscious decision, others move away. Lash
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• United States
12 Dec 08
That's really interesting. It's a really interesting thing to think about. I wonder where we would all be politically if parents didn't teach their children politics and let them make up their own mind. Of course, then you have to be careful that someone else doesn't teach them politics either...
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@mommyboo (13174)
• United States
13 Dec 08
That's interesting, murderistic. My kids aren't really that political, at least my older kids. I was like that as a teen too, I could have cared less. I only began caring when I was able to vote and now of course I care because it affects my life in a much greater way than it did when I was a kid and responsible for no one else. I'm not in the business of 'teaching politics', as such my older daughter is very much for pro-choice and gay rights, and I think she would be that way even if I wasn't. I mostly tell them that tolerance is key, and considering how others, not just themselves - would feel in a situation. Less boundaries for people, not more. Choices are important, losing them in America means the beginning of the end for a free nation. Above all, it isn't about whether they agree with MY view of the world, but that they are happy with their own because it suits them.
@kiran8 (15348)
• Mangalore, India
12 Dec 08
I feel that we are bound to get influenced at least to a certain extent by our parents leanings in Politics.Personally, i looked up to my father and his opinion meant a lot to me, as he would discuss about all issues impartially without trying to influence or force us to follow his choice of politics.Because he was so mature in his thinking and dealings, i naturally felt that his choice of political leanings would be right :)
@daliaj (5674)
• India
12 Dec 08
I have inherited my political thinking from my father. My mom used to have a different political view, but my Dad always convinced her and vote for the party he likes.
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@goodtogo (149)
• Pakistan
12 Dec 08
some times i do agree with my parents ,but some times i dont .. always depends on the situation..
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@KimJoRoll (127)
• United States
13 Dec 08
I became a democrate because of my father. But after I got out on my own I decided I really did like the decision I made. My father and I don't have the same views on everything but we do have the same basic beliefs. You'll be
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• Vietnam
12 Dec 08
if yeu receive some good thinking about politics from his father,your mother .you should develop it its a good day you
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@suspenseful (40193)
• Canada
13 Dec 08
My family was Social Credit which is a Western Canadian version of the NDP that is a little left of the Democrats there in the States, but I was not that much into far left, and have been going rather right of center. I thought that my dad's favorite party was a bit too left for me. Our Democrats are the Liberals, but they are a bit more left than yours, and your Republicans are a bit more right then our Conservatives that are in the middle. So I guess I am stuck as well, if I were in the States I would vote Republican, but I vote for a Christian party, the Christian Heritage Party and since it is a minority party, it has little chance of getting in.
@us2owls (1681)
• United States
12 Dec 08
I was raised under British Politics folowing World War 2 and raised in a concervative household. When I went to live in the USA I really had no idea about the politics there. It was a former US congressman Paul Findley of Illinois who I became a registered Republican for he was great and worked hard for his constituants. Prior to an election I take a hard look at those running for office and vote for the person not the party they belong to. One of my favorite Democrats was an Illinois State Senator and I never failed to vote for him when I could - that was the late Vince Demuzio. So while I must say I am Republican on the books I vote for the person. No one in my family influenced me in my political thinking.
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@mommyboo (13174)
• United States
13 Dec 08
I am a libertarian, not to be confused with LIBERAL. My parents are both Republicans AND religious, so here we go with the two biggest causes of arguments among people - related or not - politics and religion. I am also somewhat apathetic as far as politics. Some things I am interested in, most I am not. I am not interested in being PC and I also don't care if someone doesn't agree with me. I don't ask people to agree, I only ask them to respect my opinion as mine and not to belittle it, argue with me too much, or put me down because of it. I think differing opinions in many fields help people to see where others are coming from, and as long as they can see merit in both and all, people can learn. My husband is relatively political, he knows I'm not and for the most part he doesn't get weird with me about it. I guess I'd say I took what I wanted and left what I didn't from my parents' thinking. I do the same with my husband, we were on two sides of the fence about a couple things. I think I am a lot more tolerant about things that are not mainstream than my parents.
@manunulat (604)
• Philippines
12 Dec 08
I am in constant disagreement with my parents about certain political positions and well that's democracy is all about... I am not my parents thinking, probably one of the reasons why they can't impose anything though, heheh! My mother has been a vocal political influence but the more she opens her mouth, the more she lose grip of her stand which is typically the reverse of me. My mother does not listen, my father is a conformist, I am an activist. What a family!
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@cybersoft01 (1284)
• India
12 Dec 08
No, I didn't. As the matter of fact, my parents did not have clear political views. And I think even if they had, I would not have inherited their views. I suppose we must look abound and develop our own views not only about politics but about many other things.
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@Khayam (346)
• Romania
13 Dec 08
My family's past does not allow me to stand up for a republican system, therefore my system of political values is shaped around a monarchic system of government. Since - as in any other partriarchal family - I will inherit the title from my father, I think I was impregnated, through education, also with his own political thinking, not necesarilly when it comes to policies, but when it comes to the system itself.
• United States
13 Dec 08
I am quite surprised to see that we have royalty here on mylot! No wonder you are so well-educated and well-spoken.