Are you attracted to charming and attractive people?
By zandi458
@zandi458 (28102)
Malaysia
December 15, 2008 6:38am CST
We are aware of people, both men and women, who are glowingly attractive, not only in appearance but also in personality. These people have that magnetic force which draw them to us, and we are attracted to them. They are what we call "charming" They are people we like to be with, who make us feel good just to be around them. They are warm, friendly, "human" people. If they are women, men love them and are attracted to them. If they are men, women admire them and seek them. You can be that kind of man or woman! No matter what your age, appearance, education, you can be radiant and attractive. You can develop an inner fire and radiance that will win others to you! And I realize that there are charming people in mylot, the way they write can say a lot about them in real. I respect their experience and knowledge on many good subjects which I would not have learned in a short span of time. Would you like to be that kind of person or in other way round are you attracted to such people who are charming in their own ways either in real world or in this virtual world?
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@dpk262006 (58675)
• Delhi, India
16 Dec 08
Yes, I definitely get attracted to charming persons in real life and I do agree with you that there are some real charming members here on mylot with lots of wisdom and wit and it is great experience interacting with them (you being one of them). It is but natural to get attracted towards a person, who has some charm in his/her character or personality. Sometimes, it happens automatically for me it becomes effortless to get attracted towards those nice persons. I would definitely like to be a person who could attract others with my charm and conduct, everybody likes to be appreciated, so am I.
@ESKARENA1 (18261)
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16 Dec 08
i think it is easier to fall for someone here than it is in real life because we can read into typed words a lot of things that the other may not intend. We have to keep hand on heart we have to be careful
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@dpk262006 (58675)
• Delhi, India
16 Dec 08
Esk, you have a valid point to make.
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@zandi458 (28102)
• Malaysia
16 Dec 08
Oooops..
you are placing me at high stake! I wouldn't have thought that you gonna rate me highly as the starter of this discussion, anyway it is only your personal opinion and feel honored being in that circle of 'who's who' in mylot. A beauty and charming person is very subjective. What you consider beautiful may be ugly to some or a reject. Despite all the attraction to beauty, people have forgotten to use a source everyone is endowed with by nature but not often used. They miss out on this natural source of beauty. Maybe this source has easily been overlooked because present day cosmetics provide a convenient substitute to give an instant though false conception of real beauty. The source of beauty is kindness, love, simplicity and the beauty of the heart. Without these source a person cannot be called charming or beautiful.
you are placing me at high stake! I wouldn't have thought that you gonna rate me highly as the starter of this discussion, anyway it is only your personal opinion and feel honored being in that circle of 'who's who' in mylot. A beauty and charming person is very subjective. What you consider beautiful may be ugly to some or a reject. Despite all the attraction to beauty, people have forgotten to use a source everyone is endowed with by nature but not often used. They miss out on this natural source of beauty. Maybe this source has easily been overlooked because present day cosmetics provide a convenient substitute to give an instant though false conception of real beauty. The source of beauty is kindness, love, simplicity and the beauty of the heart. Without these source a person cannot be called charming or beautiful.
@kedves (728)
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16 Dec 08
i have come across many types of people and may be I am a little too cynical sometimes but I have found often that people who are that charming are actually hiding things and sometimes they are hiding the fact that they lack some emotions that make us decide who we like who we dont like how we react to things .. i knew a woman who was so kind so nice always with a smile .. then i realised she had that persona to everyone and never actually gave anything of herself except a smile which was actually false because she did not have feeling and emotions inside to decide anything .. yes its nice to be around charming people but for me i prefer real people who have real feelings and can express them at least that way I know where i stand :)
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@kedves (728)
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17 Dec 08
as i said maybe i am a little too cynical :) but i will still always be drawn to people who i feel are good inside whether they radiate warmth or not. sometimes the facade does not show the depth or warmth inside and that is what i search for most in people.
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@vinaykiran28 (5149)
• India
15 Dec 08
You seem to be a charming person and I really admire you to raise out such a discussion. I would definately want to be one like you. But I would say charming people need not be perfect in typing, so its difficult to judge if they are really charming by their replies.
I always try to be friendly with people and have a smiling face (well people say that). But there are some instances when you tend to go by your need rather than thinking of others. Its very important for us to balance our needs and be friendly with others. Dont you agree?
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@zandi458 (28102)
• Malaysia
15 Dec 08
I agree with you. We have to have balance in life and be friendly with others. Today, balance is a whole new concept for us. Keeping a balance in life is the key to a successful life. Almost all of us have one or at most a few dear friends to whom we want to respond, but find it hard. If you are attractive to just a few people, to even one or two, it is sure you will be attractive to many. Then may be that can be considered charming and attractive. You can attract others in coming to your discussion.
@vinaykiran28 (5149)
• India
22 Feb 09
Well Zandi you have attracted me and you seem to be a nice person. Sorry for the dealay reply as I was lil busy and could not log into mylot. Hope to have a long discussions in various topic as well in future.
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@zandi458 (28102)
• Malaysia
23 Feb 09
Hi vinaykiran, thanks for the compliments.. I really don't like to carry my own basket. I might appeal to some people but not everyone will agree with my views. You are most welcome to join in my future discussions. We might have something in common and can share lots of ideas.
. I really don't like to carry my own basket. I might appeal to some people but not everyone will agree with my views. You are most welcome to join in my future discussions. We might have something in common and can share lots of ideas.
@bombshell (11256)
• Germany
15 Dec 08
yes zandi i attract peolpe just like you "charming"
thanks for being nice mylot friends.
thanks for being nice mylot friends.1 person likes this
@bombshell (11256)
• Germany
16 Dec 08
ohhhhh zandi very sweet of you
thanks you.hugs and kisses.
thanks you.hugs and kisses. 1 person likes this
@Llonorra22 (1150)
• Philippines
17 Dec 08
yes of course, I would really love to be like that! You're one of the most charming person that I met here in mylot. You answer a lot of discussion in a very witty way... Happy positing friend and Godspeed...
friend and Godspeed...@zandi458 (28102)
• Malaysia
17 Dec 08
Oh thanks Llonorra, I have always try to fit myself in every kind of subject of discussions so that I may be able to be clearly understood and some topics which I have less knowledge of I try to respond as best as I can for the sake of my dear friends here. We are here to share and help each other.
@ESKARENA1 (18261)
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16 Dec 08
I have always been attracted to a persons mind. I have always listened to a person and what they have to say for themselves. My two most recent lovers have been people i have first met on the internet and had got to know them for a long period before we turned it physical. It is I believe a lovely thing. We get to know each other without seeing each other and then when we meet it is all beautiful
blessed be
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@zandi458 (28102)
• Malaysia
16 Dec 08
Yes, I believe you. First it comes from the mind then it slowly seeps into the heart. A new chapter unfolded in your life when you met that person through the net which you find charming enough to be turned into a real romance. Good luck to you for finding a charming person and hope that it will end into something beautiful.
@k1virus1978 (543)
• Singapore
16 Dec 08
We sure do, as if they had the attraction power to draw people to their traps. Maybe it's their dressing, their looks, their aura or even their charasmatic character displayed through their actions.
@Dday50627 (359)
• United States
15 Dec 08
I think that if we surround ourselves with beautiful people, both inside and out, then we too will find ouselves beautiful. As Misery loves it's company, so then does beauty and good nature love beauty and good nature. I do follow those that seem to have a beauty about them, from the inside out and enjoy that company. I also find that when i am down and worn out, I tend to find others like me at that time. Smiles beget smiles as frowns create more frowns. Your attitude is often dictated by the company you keep. I do think you are a beautiful person both inside and out and find myself drawn to your writings for that reason. Hugs, Darrel
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@zandi458 (28102)
• Malaysia
15 Dec 08
this is the first time I get a compliment like this. Thank you for that but as you know English is only my second language and I take great pain to learn this language and getting praise from a seasoned writer is something to be proud of and certainly a treasured prize. I do hope that I can write better but I do not have that skill or talent to go far. True beauty lies in a pure and clean heart. To surround ourselves with beautiful people we will also shine in their company.@Dday50627 (359)
• United States
15 Dec 08
well thank you so much for the compliment and I write what I see and I see the beauty in you and your precious words. I so enjoy you I am writing another short story on my website I do that once a month and it takes 6 days to complete. My readers love it Hugsss, Darrel
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@I_am_yours_06 (185)
• Philippines
16 Dec 08
It depends..the first thing that I attracted to a guy is the way he talks if there's a sense or not because even how charming and attractive he is physically if he dont know how to speak with sense then its a big turn off..
@adhavgeek (252)
• India
16 Dec 08
hi zandi458
i am a charming person,i used to smile nicely,used to have good appearance and personality..these are things which my friends used to tell me..i dont feel that is right or wrong..sometimes i feel my friends are right when girls see me without taking their eyes for a moment...lol...
thanks
adhavgeek
@TrayBlaylock (630)
• United States
16 Dec 08
Of course! Who isn't? Any chance I get to meet a sweet and attractive girl, I take it. Most girls my age are snobs or unavailable so you have to take what you can get.
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@musicstarr (1)
• Trinidad And Tobago
16 Dec 08
God can touch your soul. And make you charming and attractive.
You can receive this special gift from Him. If you believe.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=A4r6eKSBCkc
O Holy Night by Muffin. Receive the gift. +blessings
@krajibg (11923)
• Guwahati, India
22 Feb 09
Very nice topic to deal with indeed. I am eye to eye with you so far attractive people in concerned. He/she is an attractive person who possesses a dynamic personality can easily motivate people around him/her, who has the leadership quality, smart in his/her approach and so and so forth.
This sort of people are not difficult to find for one or the other action of theirs give a hint that they are different. We are not sure as to what makes him/her different because you have not fallen in love with him/her either. Consistency in their approach and the use of their language and overall presentation are quite natural that you and I can not help appreciating him/her.
Yes there are such people in here who we have not seen but just their appearance itself is sufficient to draw us near them. This what is one should be after a person to marry or to befriend or to mix up to enrich his/her general self.
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@zandi458 (28102)
• Malaysia
24 Feb 09
Attractive need not be physically beautiful. Based on how they pen their words and the flow of their language to me is the driving point to be attracted to that person. They can make their presence felt in you with words that can touch you deeply. That is definitely not love as love might bring out different meaning altogether. With the thousands of people here there few that are truly charismatic and has that magnetic force which draw them to me. But I can't tell whether in real they are as attractive as the way they portray themselves here. Some people have split personalities. But I think after reading their posts and responses one can draw an image of the true person he is.
@urbandekay (18278)
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15 Dec 08
No, I usually distrust such people, who seem shallow and hollow, and prefer to be in the company of substance rather than spin
all the best urban
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@angel_of_charm (4134)
• Philippines
15 Dec 08
I am more attracted to charming people..once i feel ease with a person, i know for sure that i always wanna be with them and that if its a man for sure i am attracted to him...there are people that you feel so good being with them even if you just spent few times together..i say this people are the charming people that we would like to have around...
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@zandi458 (28102)
• Malaysia
16 Dec 08
Welcome back angel, your absence makes me wonder whats happening to you. Okay, charming people are a joy to be with, there is an aura of charm which glows that we feel at ease with them. We are attracted to that person because of that special charm as beauty naturally exudes from the person's body.
@Opal26 (17679)
• United States
16 Dec 08
Hi zandi! I'm charming already!lol Only kidding! I am sort
of leary of those types of people. I am not always sure of
them right off. If they truly are "real" or not I would have
to get to them first before I would decide if the "charm"
is really real or just a facade. I am, as you may know very
suspicious by nature and for good reason. So if I see someone
who is attractive and seems all glowy and seemly radiates
charm my first instinct would be "Are they for real?" I'm
sorry, that is just my way! I have been duped too many times
by people to automatically take someone at "face" value! Isn't
that a shame how the world has made me such a cynic?
@picotee109 (48)
• China
15 Dec 08
I think personality is more important. It can make a normal person felt very charming~
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@ujjwalbatra (446)
• India
15 Dec 08
hi dear,,,,,,
u seem to be a charming gal as u have started a discussion on such a charming topic,,,,,,in my view yes everybody is attracted towards charming people in both men nd women,,,,,,,,,although men seek more physical beauty rather inner thoughts of a gal ,,,,,but on the other hand gals are interested in guys who are humerous,intelligent,,,smart etc,,,,although different people find different things interesting or attractive in one another but there is 1thing everybody is attracted 2wards nd dat is beauty
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