can you tell all secrets to your friend

India
December 16, 2008 8:51am CST
Do you tell all of your secrets to your friend or keep some with you if the friendship broken what happen with your very very much important secrets is it safe to tell all secrets?
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8 responses
@vikeyshuy (284)
• China
16 Jan 09
i won't tell my secrets to my friends,even my best friends.it is not because i don't trust her or him.i just think that i makes me feel good as only one person,me,know the secrets in the whole world. sometimes,my frined tell me her secret and ask me not to tell others. but i hear her secret from another person's mouth later.that makes me feel very bad. if she tell her secrets to so many friends,why she call it a secret?so i'd better keep secret with myself.
@dpk262006 (58675)
• Delhi, India
16 Jan 09
I am an open book...LOL! so no great secrets as such. However, whatever they are I have two-three real life close friends, whom I share my secrets. Some of the secrets are shared with better half, which cannot be shared with friends and those which cannot be shared with my better half, are shared with my close friends. I have strong faith in my friends that they will keep the secrets with them. Quite an interesting post!
@shonali (1286)
• India
16 Dec 08
well i dont think it is wise to tell all your inner and deepest secrets..... there are some secrets that i have which i dont tell anyone.... well i think the only one who knows almost everything about me is my partner but there are somethings which i dont think are all that important to tell him as its all the past and i dont want to be reminded of them myself..... but its not always good to tell anyone everything....what if something goes bad between the two of you or you have a fight and your so called best friend tries to get back at you and in her anger she tells a third person all your dark secrets??? she may do it in her anger maybe but it still would hurt and totally humiliate you!! tell only those things which you know that even if they do get out no harm would come out of them.... !! always play safe according to me.....
@bombshell (11256)
• Germany
19 Dec 08
i can share my secret to a friend if she open her or his secret first. then sharing secrets together is a lot better
@Porcospino (31366)
• Denmark
18 Dec 08
I don't tell my friends all my secrets, there are certain things that I don't share with anyone except my fiance. I have a few close friends and they know a lot about me, they know my history and background, but they don't know everything about me. I also have some friends who are less close. I enjoy spending time with them, we have fun together etc, but I don't tell them my secrets. One friend has a habit of me telling me other people's secrets. Of course I would never confide in her or tell her a very personal secret, because I wonder who she is talking about when I am not there She a great girl,she is funny and interesting to be with and I enjoy her company, but she will never become a close friend of mine.
• Malaysia
25 Dec 08
i wil tel everthing to my frien .. but i wil made sure tat it doesnt relate wif others .. cz i believe my frien wil never betray me ..
@gemini_rose (16264)
16 Dec 08
The only secrets that I tell to friends are the ones that I dont mind everyone knowing! The thing with real secrets is once one person knows then there is always that risk that they will tell someone else especially if there is a fall out with the person holding the secret!
• New Zealand
16 Dec 08
Ofcourse I share all my secrets to friends but only with selective friends. I have hundreds of friends and I will not share everything about me to all of them. I have certain peoples who are close to me and be considered as a best friend. I only share everything with them. As far as I as concerned, I usually don't keep any secrets with only certain peoples. A few others are not trust worthy and I cannot afford to tell everything with whoever I know just because I know them or just they are a friend of mine. I only share my secrets or whatever to a selective number of peoples that I feel is trustworthy.