My girlfriend is not responding.

Nigeria
December 16, 2008 10:28am CST
Guys, I lost contact with my girlfriend for a year, and last year we met again, and I am trying to make the all thing work again but she is not responding. I call her like 2hrs everyday, but that has not changed anything. She told me she still loves me but she doesnt call me back. I have told her everything. Sometimes she hesitates when I tell her I love her. She told me she doesnt have another boyfriend, but I dont believe her. What do you advice I do?
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4 responses
• United States
16 Dec 08
I would say don't push to hard. Just treat it like it is new. You have a chance to make things different without being to noticeable. Try doing some of the things you wish you would have done before. Make her fall in love with you more than she has ever loved you before. Be creative, but don't lose site of signs that this relationship could be over. It is either time to let go or just be a friend. If being a friend is all you can do and that is what you are willing to do, you shouldn't try to hard to be that maybe she isn't ready for it. Have you asked her what she want's out of this "relationship"? That would be a good start. Or maybe you should just make small conversation until you gain some sight of what she wants. Pay close attention to clues. It seems like you have by saying she sounds hesitant when saying "I love you" thoes are important words to say and hear, if you don't think she means it ask her. Honesty is the best policy.
@celticeagle (123149)
• Boise, Idaho
17 Dec 08
It sounds like you are alittle intense. This scares women. Try finding some other interests and don't call her as often. Play hard to get alittle. Make appointments during the time you usually call her. Go to the gym. See if she doesn't come around. If not atleast you have started getting into other things and can move on alittle easier. If that happens.
@twinklee (894)
• India
16 Dec 08
hi, I can understand your situation !Meet her once and try to talk to her. Don't get emotional. Just try to analyze her. Ask her if she still loves you. Ask her what is her problem and the reason why she is avoiding you. If she is not responding properly , then don't force her. Don't call her or leave a message to her for some days. See whether she is making a contact with you. Hope this works... take care:))
@jessi0887 (2794)
• United States
16 Dec 08
I think its you calling and trying so hard. MOst guys don't do that. Try ignoring her. Wait for her to want to talk to you. If she is not talking to you by then, then tell her maybe its time to move on. I know it will hurt but if its meant to be and she loves you she will work for it as well. Its not fair for her to be pulling you down. If you are as loving as you sound there are alot of women who would want that. Don't let her get to you.