How Is Your Self Esteem?

United States
December 18, 2008 10:44pm CST
Hey guys! Tray here to ask you a serious question. My friend was talking to me via Skype and he asked me a great question. He said "If you was in a group of guys with some girls present as well, do you feel good about your looks?" I told him heck yeah. I just think I'm a really attractive guy. So how about you? Put yourself in a room full of guys or girls, do you feel good about your looks?
2 people like this
8 responses
@underdogtoo (9591)
• Philippines
19 Dec 08
I don't really equate my self-esteem with looks. I see so many good-looking girls and guys who are insecure about lots of things. I prefer to think that I am not as shallow as most people who expect to make it in this world solely on the basis of looks. Cheers!!
• United States
19 Dec 08
Thanks for the feedback brother! I totally feel where your coming from. A lot of insecure guys dating hot girls. It happens all the time. I don't know what their secret is!
@Frederick42 (2019)
• Canada
19 Dec 08
Wherever I am , I am always full of self-esteem. I am very confident of my looks and am proud of myself.
• United States
19 Dec 08
Good for you brother! It isn't being cocky too. It's good to be confident.
@celticeagle (123895)
• Boise, Idaho
19 Dec 08
Was self esteem? Haha?? I am fine looking and getting better all the time. Working out at the gym three times a week so far. Too bad you can't do a discussion on it with the people in the room.
• United States
19 Dec 08
Ha ha, that'd be awesome. Just sitting in a room and looking at each girl and saying "So... would you date me before these other losers?"
@wolfie34 (26791)
• United Kingdom
14 Mar 09
My self esteem is very low, and I often wonder is self esteem linked entirely with beauty? Can the most ugliest guy have a high self esteem, whereas the most attractive guy have a low self esteem? I would say no to your question, others would say it's totally unfounded, but when someone gives me a positive remark about my looks I dismiss it, when someone is critical about my looks I believe it, it's a lose, lose situation. I have had partners in the past but I am always down on the way I look and very critical and I think people are out there to stare at me and see me as a freak. You come across in your response as not having a self esteem issue, I wish I had the same.
@23uday (2998)
• India
19 Dec 08
Hi frnds, "what a man thinks of himself,that is what determines or rather indicates his fate". In live self esteem is important to every one. Grow with high self esteem strong conviction,competence and willingness to accept responsability,risk taking,motivated,opportunities and challenges. self esteem is a feeling that comes from the awareness of what is good and having done it. High self esteem: builds optimistic attitudes better relationship helping nature improve performance understanding sensitive discuss solitude. Positive self esteem: self respect self confidence self worth self acceptence self love self knowledge self disciplane.
@zhangw (145)
• China
19 Dec 08
Maybe not,I don't think i'm attractive,but i care about my looks very much. I'm not self-confident by birth. I once heard a famous man said,'outstanding is a habit.' I think he was quite right, I am not confident just because I haven't get used to be good. In fact, people have different appreciation of the beauty, there is no strict definition. One who feel good about one's looks are confident.
@veejay19 (3590)
• India
19 Dec 08
I am not very concerned or vain about how i look. I am satisfied with what i have been given by God and do not wish to either add or subtract to it inorder to impress some girls.I am confident about my knowledge and my personality and if those are sufficient to attract women so be it and if not it doesn`t bother me at all.Ciao.
@rsa101 (24233)
• Philippines
19 Dec 08
Well I guess I am not very particular about my image per se. Of course I would try to show the best of me but I do not expect them to kind of attracted to me. Just knowing that they are comfortable with my presence in the group would perhaps be satisfactory to me.