As you teach your child how to operate the new toy you have bought for her/him

Child play - Do you let your child in you play with the toys of your child?
By Bala
@balasri (26537)
India
December 21, 2008 6:43am CST
Do you always teach as a parent or do you use it as a chance to play with it as a child lurking inside you? And take some extra time in teaching as you need to enjoy it more.
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8 responses
@salonga (27775)
• Philippines
22 Dec 08
Yes I do enjoy my time with my kids. I enjoy teaching them how to play with their new toys if they need my help but only when they request for help. Most of the time, my kids would do on their own to prove they are capable, but when they give up and find me for help...that is the only time I come into rescue. I want them to develop their mental and mechanical activities through the toys I am giving them. But I also find it a time to teach them and enjoy their company.
@balasri (26537)
• India
22 Dec 08
Do you enjoy playing with the toys yourself in the guise of teaching?
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@balasri (26537)
• India
22 Dec 08
Gotcha!
@salonga (27775)
• Philippines
22 Dec 08
Yes I do, It makes me feel like a child again! Ha!ha!ha!
@cupid74 (11388)
• Pakistan
22 Dec 08
Ha ha ha nice discussion well i try to teach my son but trust me before i teach him half, he is gon with the Toy and 2-3 daus he need a New One
@balasri (26537)
• India
25 Dec 08
He seems to be a normal kid as all the kids universally.
@cupid74 (11388)
• Pakistan
26 Dec 08
Ha ha ha ha very true All kids are like that and i learnt it when i become father
@dpk262006 (58679)
• Delhi, India
22 Dec 08
Yes, whenever we see a new toy and our child needs to be taught about the operations of the new toy, we also indulge in it and start feeling ourselves the child again for few moments. It gives me great pleasure to observe kids playing with toys, that make me remember my own childhood.
@balasri (26537)
• India
22 Dec 08
I don't remember my childhood I become a child instantly and started playing with the toy and the child.
@dpk262006 (58679)
• Delhi, India
22 Dec 08
@littleowl (7157)
22 Dec 08
Hi bala...as a mother you find you are a teacher in all ways to your child and in return it keeps you young as well littleowl
@balasri (26537)
• India
22 Dec 08
I am a father my little owl.A grown up adult father with a big mustachio and hefty figure.
@GreenMoo (11833)
6 Jan 09
I love going to playparks just after Christmas. There you can see all the parents (particularly the Dads!) taking the opportunity to play with the kid's new toys whilst fibbing to themselves that they are 'helping'! Last year we watched a pair of blokes playing with a remote controlled car for ages whilst their kids sat despondantly on the swings! Personally, I normally let my kids figure out their new toys for themselves. It's more of a learning experience for them, and more fun. If they want help, I'm there if they need me.
@balasri (26537)
• India
8 Jan 09
Right.Some kids are very smart that they never ask for the help of the parents fearing that the toy will be snatched away from them in the guise of help for quite some time.
@messageme (2821)
• United States
22 Dec 08
I take it as a chance to be a kid again and play with the toy :) I just sometimes miss being a kid and being able to play with toys. Some toys these days can be very fun and entertaining even for adults. They never made toys like that when I was a kid! Merry christmas to all!
@balasri (26537)
• India
25 Dec 08
I am very happy t know that you are my kind.
@riyasam (16556)
• India
21 Dec 08
i am re-discovering the child in me. i get great pleasure in teaching my kids about toys as then i get to play myself.nowadays i think they make great toys. merry christmas
@balasri (26537)
• India
22 Dec 08
I become a child with the toys instantly.
@leenie50 (3992)
• United States
21 Dec 08
Hi balasri, I don't really know the answer for myself, and my son is now 28. But what I do know from watching my husband put toys together, he usually became very frustrated by the time he figured the darn thing out. Another thing I know about men is, they never grow up. leenie
@balasri (26537)
• India
22 Dec 08
Yes I know that being a man.