Why do women fall in love quicker then men?

@nchap36 (556)
United States
December 24, 2008 9:40pm CST
A women falls in love quicker than a man. If a man approaches us, and tell us we are the best thing since loaf bread. "Bam" he got us. Some women are little hard than others, but this is pretty much the pattern. If a man sleep with us one night. We can't get him out of our head. But when a man sleeps with a women he has no feeling. He'll be looking around trying to find his next score. Why woman can't be like men? They are so hard. We are so emotional. Is that why we fall in love quicker? We need to just push emotions away, and be hardcore.
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18 responses
• Australia
26 Dec 08
Not so. There are many men, I'm one, who fall in love just as easily as you suggest, and many women who don't at all. There are many men who, as you say, probably don't remember a girl's name the next day, but there are others who can remember the name of every woman they've slept with, even if that's quite a lot. This behaviour is people behaviour, not gender behaviour. I might agree that there is a trend in the direction you suggest, but it's not overwhelming. You are just picking the wrong guys, if this discussion comes from personal disappointment. Lash
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@sharra1 (6341)
• Australia
26 Dec 08
I quite agree. I think that any form of generalisation like this be it based on gender or race or anything is totally wrong. Each human being is an individual and it is wrong to generalise to all members of a group as though they were all the same. I used to be guilty of doing this and I learned how wrong I was. I will never do it again. I think that if a woman or a man gets hurt in love then they can sometimes accuse all of the other gender of being just like the one that hurt them.
• India
25 Dec 08
Yes, you are right. This is because women think from their heart and so they take all the compliments to be genuine. Men act following their brain and intellect in every aspect of life and so they fall in love only when their brain tells them to do so. Exceptions are always there but usually this is the reason behind all the love affairs. Men fall in love with the face and appearance first and then try to go into the heart but a woman only loves when she feels it deep down into her heart.
@rosdimy (3936)
• Malaysia
25 Dec 08
In general it does seem that women fall in love quicker than men. Our brains are wired differently so it is not surprising that we react differently to the same stimulus. Women likes to feel that they are appreciated and cared for, When asked the question why they fall in love with a man the most common answer I get was "He is caring...". Their motherly nature also makes women to care for somebody. Many women fell for the line "I feel lonely because...". I still remember the guy who failed miserably in trying to form online relationship with girls he met in chatrooms. I watched what he wrote and told him he was saying the wrong things. Since I had not done any online chatting he challenged me to tell him what to say. He was told what to say along the same line. You should have seen his face when most all of the girls he chatted with fell for this line. I regretted teaching him this line because of misuse. Women are emotional if we base our observation on their behaviour at concerts. all the best, rosdimy
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• United States
25 Dec 08
I have to disagree with you! It doesn't matter if somebody is a male or a female. Today, men are kinda scared of women, especially of successful one. If some men don't talk about their emotions that doesn't mean they are less emotional or that they fall in love slower than a woman.
@nchap36 (556)
• United States
25 Dec 08
You are right men are afraid to show their emotion. They say thats a man thing.
• United States
25 Dec 08
But also you have exceptions. Some of us aren't afraid at all because we think it's normal to express our feelings. Especially if you love somebody!
@ahmadia (117)
• Malaysia
26 Dec 08
because women need to complemented and they are always looking for some one to affirm thier looks. guys dont need that. all they need is a target and quick fix for thier needs and they know what to say .
@sharra1 (6341)
• Australia
26 Dec 08
I disagree. If a man approached me and said that my first reaction would be what was he really after. I would be highly suspicious. Anyone who wants to be in love can fall in love easily. It is not a gender thing at all. As to men having no feeling I would also disagree with that. I would never sleep with a man to whom it meant nothing. Just because he does not want to get married does not mean he does not care. It just means that he is not looking for a full bore relationship either with you or with anyone. There are lots of women who just want a bit of fun for the night and want nothing more out of the man.
@annjilena (5620)
• United States
26 Dec 08
some women do one thing about a woman once she been hurt it,s not going to be easy for her to fall in love the next time.love can be changed just like your clothes it.s a thin line.some women are cold blooded they are just as bad as men if not worse.
• Nigeria
25 Dec 08
Is not true. Infact, men fall in love quicker than women. Men approach women because they are in love. It is difficult to see a woman that approaches a man. Though they might be in love, but it is not in thier nature to approach a man. Some women dont fall in love when a man approaches them. They just accept, maybe, because the guy is loaded. Just try and ask a man out if he will not fall. Except the woman doesnt look good.
• Macedonia
25 Dec 08
who says that??????
• China
25 Dec 08
I think its not true that most girls fall in love so easily. Yes its better if girls stop to be so emotional in love. Love is just a part of life but not life.
• India
25 Dec 08
hi there,,,,,,, hey buddy,,,its not like that,,,women fall in love more quicker than men,,,well i have experienced that men fall in love easily,,,,,,
@cameo22 (200)
• India
25 Dec 08
i don't think so.women are always very concious when selecting their partner i think.they may be emotional but they don't fall in love i think
@uditpanda (1023)
• India
25 Dec 08
I am so sorry to disagree with ur view . I think its the other way round. Men are pretty blind to go for a relationship. Women,on the other hand are too much cautious on that.They are emotionally stronger then men,so judge every aspect of their partner before falling in to a relationship. But i agree,once in a relationship,women are more dedicated than men.I think they know the secret of carrying on with a relationship...
@apsara60 (6611)
• Israel
25 Dec 08
I don't know if I should call it innocence of women or foolishness.......but it is true that they believe every word that men speak to flatter them. Man makes woman feel like she is the most beautiful girl on this earth and she believes it, only to find out one day that he never cared about her.I agree, women are very emotional, and honest, if they love man, then they real mean it, but all men are not same, they flatter women for their selfish motive, and later on ditch her leaving her in agony and pain of broken heart. Besides I heard that men were created like this by God, they just cannot be happy with one lady.......they have to keep looking around hungrily at all the women moving around......., and no matter how much women try to be like men.....she cannot.She will even forgive.....innocent foolish creation.
@zdollers (26)
• China
25 Dec 08
If you were a man you may kown the answer to your doubt.
@tabachi (263)
• Philippines
25 Dec 08
it must be because women are always thinking of romance...and they tend to be more emotional and innately more affectionate and sweet than men are..it's biological...i may raise the eyebrows of feminist mylotters here but really it's true..women have the tendency to get attached easily and be swayed by words when not in control...sometimes they are blinded by the concept of a woman should be the object of desire or everyman's fantasy...hahaha..although this thinking is already old school.it is still true today for most women...and among the teenagers they believe in true love stuff and love at first sight...women are usually the ones with crushes,etc..
• Philippines
25 Dec 08
it was just the women is very vunerable when it comes to relationships. they are so very sensitive and very romantic. they believed to monogamous relationship and believed that they if they fall to a guy it should be last and forever.
• India
25 Dec 08
Hi nchap, I actually dont think that women fall in love quicker than a man... It does really depend and differ from person to person You are also wrong when you say that : when a man sleeps with a woman, he has no feelings...... Well, I would not like to heat up the discussion here though! So cheers to you buddy