TRUST in a relationship. 100%??

with out trust in a relationship you have nothing at all , right there your losing half the battle ,that person can say i love you til the end of time but , how can you beleive them ever ? how can you look at them the same way? ...if your partner cheated on you and still say they love you ...THEN would you trust them , ? do love you just as they loved the person they cheated on you with ? ...my point exactly godbless

whether to fully trust or not when in a relationship, depends upon the person wholly. it is true that a human being cannot be fully relied upon at anytime considering that we are only made of flesh. and flesh is weak. however, if a person chooses to be fully reliable when getting into relationships, he can be trusted 100 percent. so you see, it is really a matter of will power from one's part to practice fidelity or be an infidel. this is the reason why i opted to be open to hear about what's truly happening around me. i just kept an open heart as regards the weakness of man. when i heard that my husband was running around with some women, i confronted him about it but, no quarrels. i do not have to be a jealous wreck because, i cannot force him to take the straight path. it is a choice that he has to make, and it will be his will power to change and be righteous that will make him choose to be upright. well, he chose to be continuously womanizing, we have to break apart at a time when i am already advanced in years. no, i do not wish to have any more man in my life. my three kids are more than sufficient worry already. i have my hands full loving and taking care of them all. this is my choice.

I think it is nice if you can trust 100% but i think those who do are fooling themselves, people are controlled by emotions and instinct, and as you say things can change in a person, we are very complicated creatures and our emotions and instincts make us very selfish at times, I had a discussion years ago with a young girl who thought I thoughts were crazy, she was young and she was so sure of her boyfriend, they did get engaged, but I guess something happened because i heard they had broken up after he had an affair, I myself did put 100% in a man who I thought was so strong in that area and so honest but he cheated on me so I am afraid I just would never think that nay human being is a superman when it comes to human nature...

I feel that in a wholesome and good relationship you should trust your partner explicitly. If there is a good foundation and alot of communication, respect and consideration then you have it made. Ofcourse there is the occasional bad situation that comes up. But, relationships are like anything else-Work!

i trust in relationship 100% eventhough that my partner will cheat on me cause God will know n give them punishment if they cheat someone specially that we already trust on them

it pretty difficult to trust your partner a 100%. as humans we cant control ourselfs because we might like some1 else or fantasize all these sort of things makes the relationship not trust worthy enough.

Without taking my husband for granted, I do trust him that he wouldn't cheat on me. However, I don't assume that he will always make great choices or be on time for things, so I remind him about events or to talk to me before he agrees to do things, so I guess I don't trust him 100%. If it's just a discussion about whether you trust your spouse not to cheat on you, I trust my husband 100%. It just wouldn't occur to him to cheat on me.

hmmmm, for me, i would not give my 100% trust. just like what you have said, human heart changes, a man/woman can change, so, i would not give my 100% trust. it is better to have some 90% trust on your partner and the remaining 10% would be for yourself, in other words, don't be too serious or dependent on your partner as if no one else evolve your wolrd but him/her. that is not love, that is selfishness, give your partner a little bit of his/her own time for herself/himself. i would also say that you give yourself a little percentage. you have to trust others but you also have to trust yourselves, so that if all else fails, that remaining precentage for yourself will help you move on and rise again after you fall.

I don't know about 100% trust in a relationship especially if you have been hurt before. I think for the most part people go into a relationship trusting the other party until or unless something happens. Just like innocent until proven guilty. No offense and I am not defending women at all but it is very hard to give a man 100% trust knowing the statistics about them cheating. The only person I have 100% trust in is GOD not my children but GOD he has never failed me. Man will all the time.

It would be great to have a great partner to trust 100% coz even if you trust the partner 100% and he turns out to be a cheat, then placing trust on that person actually makes us feel vulnerable.Given the era that we living in, relationship is a business.

It would be great to have a great partner to trust 100% coz even if you trust the partner 100% and he turns out to be a cheat, then placing trust on that person actually makes us feel vulnerable.Given the given era that we living in, relationship is a business.

I don't really believe on 100%... only 60-70%... the one that we can only trust is ourselves and god...