Do people stay in abusive relationships because of love?

Canada
December 26, 2008 8:12pm CST
Do you think people stay in abusive relationships because they have so much love for their partner? Or is it because of some fear? What could be the reason?
5 responses
• India
27 Dec 08
They stay in abusive relationships for a variety of reasons. 1. Culture 2. Religion 3. Lack of finances. 4. Lack of a place to go to. 5. Fear 6. Lack of self-esteem. It could also be a mixture of a few of these reasons
@katrhina23 (1282)
• United States
27 Dec 08
i think its fear of being humiliated..most battered wives stay with their husbands because of their fear to be humiliated. abusive people would normally say, if the partner leaves them , they 'll tell everybody about what happened or would say that nobody is going to love them anymore .
@amyers06 (61)
• United States
27 Dec 08
Fear... maybe love sometimes. But mostly fear. I was in an abusive relationship and I was scared of what would happen if I made that person angry. He once told me he would kill me if I ever left him. So, I waited it out and eventually he found someone equally as crazy to be with.
@smartie0317 (1610)
• United States
27 Dec 08
I think the main reasons they stay is fear. Many of these people believe they have no options and/or no one else would want them. Many abusers alienation their victims from friends and family.
• Philippines
27 Dec 08
Hi Frederick! I've seen many people successfully terminate a bad relationship only to get involved in a similar unhappy or self demeaning bond with someone else. Nothing changed except the name of the latest source of their misery. Maybe one reason for to stay in a bad relationship is the addiction. They avoid someone good for them, for they see it as unappealing, boring and unattractive. Happy mylotting...