going to KFC???...................no money.....

Malaysia
December 27, 2008 4:11am CST
i have a girlfriend.... she so prety... 1 day.... i have a date with her.... then she want to eat at KFC.... i say to her i have no money.... then she mad at me..... i dont know what to do.... she din't talk to since 3 days ago... i miss her... what must i do????
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20 responses
• China
2 Jan 09
I think that if she really loves you , she would not mind if you take her to KFC. We know that KFC is very expensive in fact, and many of us cannot afford to go to it. Then why not choose to go to some other places instead of KFC, for example, you can take a walk or go to park or do some other things.
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• Malaysia
4 Jan 09
yea!!im agree with coly20032003.Be a good gf should consider partner problem and understand for it.No money also can have a great sweet time.Money wont be a problem!!
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@rosdimy (3926)
• Malaysia
27 Dec 08
Kpanther, a rather hard question is whether the girl is really suitable for you oe not. YYou are 18. Aren't you too young to have a girlfriend and give her treats? Most probably you are still a student and are not working. Remember, your parent(s) gave you money to help you with your studies, not to blow it on a girl. Personally I would not worry too much. If she really cares for you then she will come back. Otherwise there are always other fish you can catch. all the best, rosdimy
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• Malaysia
27 Dec 08
hmmmmmm.... ok... that a nice advice...
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@chiyosan (30184)
• Philippines
4 Jan 09
i think this is pretty lame.. if you can't afford to buy your gf a lunch or dinner.. might as well not have a relationship. you know... i would be mad as well and would have bought myself a dinner if i was your girl hehehe :D
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• India
2 Jan 09
well i do agree with her, if you dont have the money i think you should be nice about it and explain to her what your genuine problem is... well if she still does not understand then well i think she is too immeture. if she does not understand if you have a genuine problem then thats sad.
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@Rexdoron (345)
• Malaysia
27 Dec 08
She mad at you just because of didn't able to eat at KFC?? That doesn't sound good my friend. Didn't she know your financial state? Okay, I'm guessing that she didn't know your financial state, so why dont you let her know. That maybe will help her to understand and try to accept you because of you. Keep me updated. Goodluck! Have a nice day! :)
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• Malaysia
27 Dec 08
thanks 4 ur advice....
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• India
1 Jan 09
please fall in love with money then her fill ur pocket with bugs before u fill ur heart with her... KFC......kicking friend in company with u
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@tutul0045 (2630)
• India
27 Dec 08
Hi, Well she loves yr money than u. If KFC is so important to her then think about the future where so many big problems can crop up. I think u r lucky that she ran away. Cheers, Tutul
• Malaysia
27 Dec 08
i dont think she ran away.... i think she sulked... what i must do??
@tutul0045 (2630)
• India
28 Dec 08
Look for a new Gf
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@sid556 (30960)
• United States
28 Dec 08
I know you like her a lot but seriously, I am sure you can do better. Someone that really cares about you for the person that you are would not get this upset simply because you could not afford to buy them KFC. If she really, really wanted it that bad then why did she not buy it for the 2 of you?
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@tx_666 (191)
• India
5 Jan 09
If she loves you she definitely would pay the bill. Don't be sorry thinking that you put her into an embarrassing situation. Don't know since when you are together. It's time to work hard finding a new one. After reading this, I can tell you she is not perfect for you to be mere a friend.
• Canada
5 Jan 09
what? if she loves you she is not obligated to pay for anything. If she wants KFC, she could most certainly go out and get her own, not expect him to buy it for her, but she should not have to buy his too in the same way. People need to be able to stand on their own in all confidence before they get involved with another person and try to build a relationship.
@saiKO92 (392)
• Malaysia
28 Dec 08
haha..that means that u r nt matured and not yet to think bout girlfriend..bet u get ur money frm ur parents aite?u want to go to kfc? dig ur own pocket money..and don't be a loser on such a pathetic situation..
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@kprofgames (3091)
• United States
3 Jan 09
Sorry to hear of your troubles. What this sounds like is she's petty, not pretty. Maybe you're in love with the idea of being in love with this person; however she doesn't think much of you if she gets mad because you can't buy her things. You shouldn't feel you have to buy a persons love kpanther. Bottomline, think she's using you and plays on your emotions. Time for a new girl friend.
• Canada
5 Jan 09
maybe she was mad cuz she expects an equal partnership in a relationship, not a man who expects her to take care of him all the time. I experienced a man like that and it makes you feel like a sucker he is taking advantage of.
• United States
5 Jan 09
If she can't understand that you have no money and still doesn't talk to you for that long, then honestly she doesn't sound like the right girl for you. It seems really selfish on her part, but I suppose you could try calling her and talk to her about it.
• Switzerland
6 Jan 09
buy her some chicken wings! naaaaaw, just kidding. why don't you ask her instead of us?
• Philippines
9 Feb 09
well u sound like youre still a kid, study first before gf. Don't rely on parents just to give you money for your date. You should be ashamed asking money just for a date. Study hard, finish your course, get a job, earn money and you can relax and enjoy life.
@deb121 (42)
• Romania
2 Jan 09
18 years? is age of grow up. just look another girl if do that again. simple as that
@jesbellaine (4139)
• Philippines
3 Jan 09
Hi There! Good Evening! If your girlfriend really loves you then she must understand that you are on a tight budget. Both of you need to talk things that are going in your life so that you both know what to expect to each other. Besides, it is just KFC, I don’t see any reason to be mad if you can’t treat her because you don’t have money. There are lots of things to consider to be mad to a partner, let her know that. If you miss her so much then find a way to talk to her and explain your situation. Maybe she thought that you don’t want to be with her or treat her… you know… stuff like that… but I think if you explain to him what you are going through like you don’t have the money right now then she will understand that. If not then you better think if she really loves you or just some other reasons. Relationship must be built with love and respect to each other. You must have that… if you have that then other factors will come in the way like patience and understanding… hope you will sort things out. Take care and Good Luck! Thanks for the discussion. Happy Mylotting! Cheers!
• Canada
5 Jan 09
uhh, get a job. Chicks like guys who work and stuff like that so that they can afford to go out on dates.
@aakay4u (799)
• India
2 Jan 09
it is really very unfortunate that your girlfriend is not talking to you as you could not give her a treat at KFC.i am sorry but it seems KFC is more important to her than you.If she talks again tell her your exact situation and if she continues with you fine,otherwise thank God that it was very early that you got to know about her that she loves money more.
@ktosea (2025)
• China
5 Jan 09
No update? did she come back to you now, if not, just go and catch another fish.
• China
5 Jan 09
[b][/b]I think true love is not delicious foods?beautiful dresses?songful words?If you love him or her ,you must to understanding, thoughtfulness,you ought to give,not to ask something?I advice you considere carefully ,whether she is love you ?I holp you can meet with your true love?