will you stil fight even if ur in the losing grounds??

@phayeth (519)
Philippines
January 1, 2009 12:54pm CST
i'm so in love with someone right now..we've together for almost 10 months by Jan.20. the fact is that... i'm so inlove with him even if i know..his going to die.. i'm still fighting until know..trying to convince myself that his not going to die.. that his not going to leave me.. he got only until march... but i really don't want to go... i really want him to stay and take the treatment the second time around just to by me time to go there..and see him.. i just can't help it to cry and to think that his going somewhere that i couldn't follow him...
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@shanemre (357)
• Saudi Arabia
1 Jan 09
I would have to say that you are not in the losing side. In this case, you will never be. Fighting for someone you love will never be a losing battle to fight for. As you said, he's got until march, continue to pray for him to be well, miracles happen, don;t lose your faith. If you really love him, make him feel how much you are loving him. Let him know that everyday. Make him feel that you are fighting for him, let him know that you want him to get better and you want him to fight as like the way you are fighting for him. Continue being in love with him. Even if he is dying, it should not be reason to give up...
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• United States
1 Jan 09
I have to agree, loving is never losing. Fight for all it's worth and hope he makes it longer then they say he will. Even if not, you may experience in a few months what some people will never experience in thier whole lifetime.
@shanemre (357)
• Saudi Arabia
2 Jan 09
I really wish both of you well. I'll have you in my prayers. Keep the love strong and hold on to each other.
@phayeth (519)
• Philippines
3 Jan 09
thank you for all ur advices... i really appreciate it so much...
@cathya (704)
• Philippines
2 Jan 09
If I were in your situation, I'll still fight for the love I have for him, I'll stay beside him and would spend the most precious moment with him, I won't let a day pass without making him feel how lucky I am having him.
@n30wing (4767)
• Philippines
2 Jan 09
Don't loose hope. I do believe in miracles, and it's only God knows when... If you love him now be with him, you have to be strong for him. Don't loose faith. It's too hard to loose someone that you really love, it's also hard to accept your loosing the person, but until that person is still alive give the best of the time. Nothing stays permanent in this world just your self. All of us goes, what remains is memories, good memories that will stay, and helping as to go on. Someday you'll be together again, just be at his side and make him feel the love, it will help him to be stronger too. God has always a reason. God be with you! God will make a way!
@sid556 (30960)
• United States
2 Jan 09
I am so sorry that you are going thru this. It is so hard for the survivors. I think it is harder for those left behind than it is for those that are dying as they reach a point of acceptance fairly early on. They know in their hearts when it is time to give up on the treatments and just focus on the quality of the life that they have left. As hard as it is, you have to respect that and enjoy and cherish every single moment you have with him. Help make his last days as happy and as comfortable as possible. Show a happy face to him and save your tears for when you are alone or with others who can give you moral support.
@dropofrain (1167)
• India
2 Jan 09
It is really sad to hear what you are going through. I feel this is a real bad phase of your life. You just want things to stay on as long as possible. But everything is not true in life as we want it to be. I just pray him to stay alive as much as he can and you too have a beautiful time together.
• China
2 Jan 09
I had fallen in love with a girl for 4 years during my college life.She is beautifull and had a great many followers.It seemed I was one of them,but i was the less fanatical one .the relationship between us was subtle,even there was a night she told me to my face that she was going to date with someone.That almost killed me. But I did not give up.Today i'm going to marry her.To my surprise,she did not date with the guy that night as she told me ....