marksleem

@marksleem (19)

United States • Age 49

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Do you use a car seat carrier for your dog?

ASteward @ASteward (120) • United States 1 Jan 09

I'm just curious how many of you use a carrier car seat or some sort of harness to secure your dog when he/she is in the car.

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marksleem With one of my dogs, I have to harness them in the seatbelt. They are just too curious and keep trying to get in my lap while I am driving, and that's not safe. If a dog is well behaved enough and they don't intefere with your driving at all, then I see no...

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What are the things you have learned in 2008?

dolce_vita78 @dolce_vita78 (8062) • Philippines 1 Jan 09

Disclaimer: I am only sharing the things that I have learned. I am not trying to change the way you look at life... There were so many things I have learned in 2008. Generally, about life. Of course, all are based...

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marksleem I have learned not to take things for granted. I never have been all that bad at taking things for granted, but this year I almost hit rock bottom. Was out of work for a long time, car got repod, was VERY close to loosing my house and being on the streets. But...

1 Jan 09

Going to the Ice Cream Shop When It's Freezing Outside

Shar19 @Shar19 (8236) • United States 1 Jan 09

It's been very windy and cold here. Winter is definitely here. For some reason though I was tempted to buy ice cream at Baskin Robbins the other day. The wind wipping around my car changed my mind though. I should have just went...

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marksleem Do you eat hot food in the summer? Of course you do. Just because something is cold doesn't mean you can't eat it if it's cold outside. There is no bad weather for ice cream, it is good anytime of the year. Besides, if you get some ice cream to eat in the...

1 Jan 09

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new years relosution: do you still believe in it?

luntian_grace @luntian_grace (1373) • Philippines 1 Jan 09

so every year i can hear people has this new year's resolution that they hope something wonderful in the year ahead. do you still believe that people can achieve it? but do you thing that people has something to look forward this...

life

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marksleem I personally think new years resolutions are a joke. They are like most other goals, they are all peachy and great if you can manage to achive them, but if you don't you can really let yourself down. I only make simple goals that I know I can achive for the...

1 Jan 09

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Library or Internet? Internet is a rich source of info,but be careful!

Jenaisle @Jenaisle (16572) • Philippines 1 Jan 09

Wikipedia is the most common source. But if you browse carefully, there are legitimate sites that could provide useful knowledge in each field. What site do you trust most? Do you rely also on wikipedia? Do you still use the...

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marksleem I would say to use a good mix of both. Initially finding information can be MUCH quicker on the internet, but I think it would be a good idea to verify most things using books. The internet it awesome, I use it all the time to find generally useless...

1 Jan 09

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will you stil fight even if ur in the losing grounds??

phayeth @phayeth (519) • Philippines 1 Jan 09

i'm so in love with someone right now..we've together for almost 10 months by Jan.20. the fact is that... i'm so inlove with him even if i know..his going to die.. i'm still fighting until know..trying to convince myself that...

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marksleem I have to agree, loving is never losing. Fight for all it's worth and hope he makes it longer then they say he will. Even if not, you may experience in a few months what some people will never experience in thier whole lifetime.

1 Jan 09

Is it true that you grow when you sleep and shrink when you are awake?

sanjanaraman @sanjanaraman (237) • United Arab Emirates 31 Dec 08

I read somewhere that you grow when you sleep and shink when you are awake. Is it true? I don't sleep much, and I don't think I want to shrink!

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marksleem I highly doubt that this is true, it sounds like a crazy wives tale to me.

31 Dec 08

Why people fall in love? Why not rise in love?

Frederick42 @Frederick42 (2043) • Canada 31 Dec 08

I do not understand why people even use the expression 'fall in love'. why not 'rise in love'? Do you not feel it rather derogatory to fall?

fall in love

when i fall in love

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marksleem Never really thought about that, but it's very true. "Falling" does sound to down. I never really use the term all that much myself, maybe Ive always thought the same thing subconsciously. I just usually use "in love" or "do love". Why not just use the term...

31 Dec 08

Do You Like Chocolate Covered Pretzels?

Shar19 @Shar19 (8236) • United States 31 Dec 08

It's the morning and I'm already thinking about chocolate. My friend made us some chocolate covered pretzels for Christmas. Some of the pretzels are dipped in dark chocolate, milk chocolate and white chocolate. They are all good...

white chocolate

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marksleem I love chocolate, but not pretzels. But even so I'll have something like this from time to time, especially if I'm having it with my wife, she likes pretzels. She is pregnant now, and I told her I would eat most everything she wants to eat too, but she cant...

31 Dec 08

Do you think south park is controversial?

nwike1561 @nwike1561 (94) • Nigeria 29 Dec 08

Most people say south park is controversial. They said Trey and Matt dont care about anybody, that they are over-using thier right. some say south park is gay. All i know is that i love the show. what do you think?

controversial

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marksleem I think people need to remember what the orginal intention of television shows is: entertainment. I get tired of hearing people complain about this show and that show being so bad because of this and because of that. What you see on TV is for entertainment, if...

29 Dec 08

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Divorce- A last resort or a first option?

katsmeow1213 @katsmeow1213 (28716) • United States 28 Dec 08

It seems to me that a lot of people get a divorce without ever searching for another option to their problems. Do you know someone who got divorced without first trying to solve their problems through councelling or something...

divorce

extreme

marriage

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marksleem I feel that divorce is very muchly so a last resort. I believe marriage is for life, if your not sure whether you want to spend your life with someone, then you shoudn't get married in the first place. I think it should be very difficult to get a divorce...

29 Dec 08

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which foreign language would you like to learn

Denise_Tung @Denise_Tung (647) • China 29 Dec 08

Ok, I am self-learning French now. What do you think, heehee. I guess I am triggered by the inspiration of traveling. I'd like to have a trip to France someday, mabye for the honeymoon or simply for Chanel, lol. Anyway, I have...

questions and answers

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marksleem My wife and I are planning to learn french together. We have several reasons, she knows a little french from school and just loves the language and just likes the french culture. I had just wanted to learn a second language, but now I have a reason to learn...

29 Dec 08

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Would you go to a wedding of someone who you're not so close with?

AnakSuNamun @AnakSuNamun (2084) • United States 29 Dec 08

Yesterday a co-worker of mine got married and she invited all of us to the church. I was debating whether I should go since I didn't have any gift(we got her a gift as the team),I wasn't dressed appropriately,I don't go to church...

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marksleem To me, weddings are an important and special time for the 2 getting married, and only close friends and family should be invited. If you just invite the whole world then its not a wedding, its a general party. Is that what the beginning of a union for life...

29 Dec 08

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If you failed in your love life, will you go for arrange marriage?

sunilpatel @sunilpatel (150) • India 29 Dec 08

It happened with me and I ask the same question to everyone.

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marksleem In my opinion, arranged marriages will NEVER work. You and only you know what you look for in another person, you and only you can find the right person to spend your life with. If you go for an arranged marriage you are giving up your rights as a human being...

29 Dec 08

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which music gives u satisfaction in every mood

vicky22101984 @vicky22101984 (573) • India 29 Dec 08

which is the best sort of music which gives u satisfaction in every mood. just think about it. which is the most satisfatory musc to ur ears even when u r in pain or happy or disgusted by something

enjoy music

music

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marksleem When I'm stressed out and need to relax, I usually listen to new age type music, it really helps to mellow me out. When I'm tired and need to wake up, I listen to hard rock. When Im sad or depressed I listen to something like Dave Matthews Band, always makes...

29 Dec 08

Does music act as a good de-stress medicine

yoursonlyurs @yoursonlyurs (394) • India 29 Dec 08

Im a stress filled person. even being calm and patient doesn't help me to avoid stress. i heard that music act as a good de-stress medicine. please share your experience regarding it. what type of music should be listened...

doctor

music

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marksleem I think the right kind of music at the right time can work wonders for your mood. Music can definately help to relax and "de-stress" you. I myself prefer new age music, namely Enigma. Some people say classical music is very calming, but thats not my cup of...

29 Dec 08