would you ever stop dating someone because of bad rumours you heard about them?

Malaysia
January 1, 2009 1:04pm CST
My answer is no. What about you? What is your thought about it?
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6 responses
@liisafiat (659)
• Latvia
1 Jan 09
No. I would not stop to date somebody because of bad rumors. Maybe people are jsut being JEALOUS? Or they hate him for something? Maybe they would like to have him and want to set us apart by making very bad rumors about him and hoping that I would let him go? I never let things like this to happen. I try to search and find the truth.
• Malaysia
1 Jan 09
Maybe you are right. Thanks for your comment. :)
@ANTIQUELADY (36440)
• United States
1 Jan 09
i would check out the rumors & then make my decision. u can/t jump to conclusions w/out proof. i have found out over thet years where thereis smoke ther's usually fire. lol
• Malaysia
1 Jan 09
haha, that is true, thanks for your comment.
@giuliaXD (162)
• Italy
1 Jan 09
also my answer is no. I hate people that let be bad-influenced by rumors... I am persuades that even if bad rumors are something bad and cruel, and the most of the times dued to jealousy, there is always a part of truth... for example, in an italian forum, an user asked: what do i have to do? people tell that my girlfriend is a wh*re.. and I answered: if you're in love with her, I think she'll be a good person.. but if people say this, undoubtedly there is a reason!!!
@vanonas (949)
• United States
1 Jan 09
I wouldn't stop dating someone just because of people telling me rumors. I'd have to talk to the person I'm dating and ask them straight to their face whether or not they were true or not. Hopefully they'd be honest with me and we could continue our relationship depending on what the rumor is.
• Malaysia
2 Jan 09
My answer is no as well. I trust in communicating much more than solely listening. If I heard something bad about her which affects me somehow, I'd talk about it with her if she's willing to. Sometimes, we do something we didn't meant to; Sometimes, we do something which is bad in the eyes of others but we have a good reason to do it; sometimes, we did something bad in the past and we try to make things right later. Even if the rumours are true, I believe I have to know how she thinks about it, I want to know her version of the truth. There are definitely a lot more reason to believe in the one you love, than believing in rumours. Even if the rumours is real, most things can be forgiven and accepted when you truly love a person.
• India
1 Jan 09
let romour make the run round the mill i will run round the mill with my date...that will also become a romour... did you come across it..then ...pass it to other too...let it become the hot topic....we need hot topics to live.....