wingsanctuary

@wingsanctuary (163)

Malaysia • Age 40

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who would you meet and why?

megsgem @megsgem (123) • United States 14 Jan 09

who would you want to meet from the past who is passed? from the present alive? and from the future has not been born or we know exists? and why? I would want to meet eve before she ate the apple so we would still maybe be in...

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wingsanctuary I would like to meet Socrates, the famous greek philosopher. I love debating and philosphy, and from what Plato wrote, Socrates rocks. I believe if I would be in Socrates' time and be able to meet him, I'd follow him around the places he go, watch him talk...

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Can you live without it?

Lore2009 @Lore2009 (7378) • United States 14 Jan 09

Recently, cell phones are a necessity for many. Can you live a day without it? Do you ever turn it off? How often do you use it? And with how many people? Do you really hang out and see those people you text with?

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wingsanctuary I can. I feel a little uncomfortable without it as I'm quite used to sms my girl friend everyday and we'd chat about the day, but most of it can be done on Windows Live Messenger, so it's not a big problem. I never really liked phones, and I have a little...

15 Jan 09

If you needn't go to work,what's the favourite thing you will do?

JummyTao @JummyTao (265) • China 14 Jan 09

I am free now,and enjoy the life without office-time.But a little boring during these days.I am always thinking about my life what's the favourite thing now? Maybe go to find another new job for self,or still stay home and do...

office time job

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wingsanctuary Temporarily I'm on holidays, and I don't need to go to the school or office. I enjoy most of my time reading all the books that I bought these few years which I hadn't the time to read in the past. There's so much to explore in books, I doubt that I could ever...

15 Jan 09

Do you sleep in daytime?

khan2abdul @khan2abdul (416) • India 15 Jan 09

I love sleeping very much than my exam even in the exam I sleep more than 10 hours. Do u sleep in afternoon? In india i think every body has the habit of sleeping after eating their food at 1-2 pm in the day. I also sleep in...

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wingsanctuary I don't like sleeping but I know it's an important part of life and I can't live without doing it. I sleep about 5-6 hours a day on the average. I do sleep in the day now and then, an hour or two when I've stained myself with heavy exercise or read something...

15 Jan 09

are you ready for valentines day?

chantalgiardina @chantalgiardina (2523) • United States 14 Jan 09

well now that christmas and new years is over it seems it is birthdays, tax time and valentines day. I love valentines day i love what ti stand for. i think it is a romantic day and should be shared with someone special. i cant...

romantic

valentines day

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wingsanctuary I am thinking about it and of course looking forward towards it as this would be my first valentines day which I will be spending with my girl friend in her home town instead of mine. We live apart and maintain a long distance relationship, so I really want to...

14 Jan 09

Which would you want?

Loverbear @Loverbear (4918) • United States 14 Jan 09

Would you want to be famous and have lots of money or unknown and just comfortable? Personally I prefer to be unknown and comfortable as I wouldn't have all the stress that the famous people go through.

famous

rich

stress from being famous

stress from being rich

unknown

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wingsanctuary I much prefer to be unknown and comfortable, that's my ideal life and I'm working towards it. Securing a steady and adequate income, strengthening family bonds and relationships with my girl friend and some friends...etc. I don't like to be famous as...

14 Jan 09

At a job interview

Marty @marty3888 (2355) • Acme, Michigan 14 Jan 09

I wonder if anyone knows a good answer to this question. It's easy and you know when someone asks "what are your strong traits?" But what about when they ask what would you say are some of your negative, or what would a former...

interview

job interview

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wingsanctuary If I am in such a situation, I think the most important think is to be able to evaluate myself objectively. If I can do something and I'm good at it, I'll say it. If I'm not, than I'll say I'm not good at it. If you fail to get the job for that reason, it's...

14 Jan 09

How to handle ex-girlfriend or boyfriends' photos?

ktosea @ktosea (2026) • China 14 Jan 09

I kept several pieces of my ex-girl friend's pictures and recently my girl fiend found them out,she seems very angry and upset.last time we quarrelled about a scarf my ex-girlfriend left for me,and I give up finally.it seems in...

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wingsanctuary It depends a lot on your current girl-friend, some girls feel hurt when they find out that their boy friend had kept something sweet from their past relationships. I believe it's perfectly normal for them to feel so and it's a sign that they feel insecured in...

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do you love yourself?

megsgem @megsgem (123) • United States 14 Jan 09

I believe that we have to love ourselves inorder to love others...not in a vain way...but I like who I am and I can look myself in a mirror and be proud of who I am. I love myself and like who I am. what this means is that I have...

confidence

mirror

self worth

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wingsanctuary I agree about what you are saying, loving ourselves is definitely not the opposite of loving others, we have to love ourselves to love others and vice versa, that's how relationships should be held strong. But, most of the time I have some problems...

14 Jan 09

Sir Isaac NEWTON

abhilashsoman @abhilashsoman (45) • India 14 Jan 09

what according to u is his best law or invention.... do u think just the falling of an apple on his head had made him one of the greatest scientists of alla times

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wingsanctuary Sir Isaac Newton is a great man because he made the whole world look into things differently. It's not so much at what theory he came up with (it is probably not flawless in today's science, scientists today had probably formed a better understanding in...

14 Jan 09

Ever fallen in love with a chat mate...

j47lee @j47lee (740) • Canada 14 Jan 09

Did you ever fall in love with a chat mate... you may think that he knows you so well...but you've never met him before??? I guess its kind of wierd isnt it... but then i know people who met online and got married......

fall in love

mate

when i fall in love

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wingsanctuary I never fall in love with a chat mate. My best friend did experience love with a chat mate, but it didn't work out in the end. From what I've seen, I believe a chat mate in the net as a lover can be quite great. The net may be thought of as a place of virtual...

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If you could celebrate your birthday in anyway, what would you do?

CRSunrise @CRSunrise (2981) • United States 14 Jan 09

Mostly, I'd want to celebrate my birthday with friends and family. However, if I could do anything for my birthday, and money were no object, I'd love to go on a cruise...somewhere warm. Take all my family with me, let them enjoy...

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wingsanctuary I usually have a nice dinner with my family and read the mails my best friends would sent to me which are usually something that really brightens up the day. I'm not so in to celebrating birthdays, I even tend to forget about them (as they are always near the...

14 Jan 09

Has Life been good on you ?

sion316 @sion316 (228) 1 Jan 09

Has life so far been worthwhile for you. Do you you think you have been blessed with what you have or do you think that life has had some harsh setbacks?

bad

good

life

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wingsanctuary Yes, it sure is. I always think that I'm a lucky fella. I have a great family who cares about me, I'm in a stable financial situation, I have good education, a nice girl friend, perhaps I just remember hard all the good things in life and forget about the bad...

1 Jan 09

Choose: Happy BUT Wrong, Sad BUT Right?

coolmailraj @coolmailraj (2459) • India 1 Jan 09

It’s like, you’d go for the person you love (who didn’t give a damn about you) or the person who loves you (and you don’t like that person).. The decision is all yours..:)

love

person

you

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wingsanctuary Most of the time, I'd choose happy but wrong, but first I've got to add some content to the idea of wrong. Wrong simply means that it is not beneficial to my life materially. Perhaps I have to sacrice a job, some time and get nothing in return. That's what I...

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school- loan or wait?

butterflytears @butterflytears (77) • United States 1 Jan 09

I am 19 years old and I feel like I'm going nowhere in life at this point. I realize that I'm young and that I have a lot of time ahead of me but I can't help but want to start college already but the problem is that I don't have...

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wingsanctuary I'm 23, not too old. ^^ I've experienced similar feelings like you when I was your age. It seems that there is so much that I should do, there's just an urge telling me that I should do something other than sitting around doing nothing. I believe that time is...

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why do we do this?

jhl930 @jhl930 (3601) • United States 1 Jan 09

i know in life i have wished that i could have more than i did, but it seems like lately since im getting older, i really realize that i have a lot, i mean i have a girl that loves me to death, my family is all doing good, and i...

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wingsanctuary Well, I believe that it's human nature to wish for things that they don't already have. It's a distinct difference between man and beast. Everything has pros and cons, this human nature is no exception. The cons are, we get greedy and we get lost in all we...

1 Jan 09

To die would be a great adventure?

lovesummer @lovesummer (1162) • Malaysia 1 Jan 09

This is a funny question. In Peter Pan, it is said that "To die would be a great adventure." How do you feel about that...? Personally I think it is kinda true. When you think about it we don't really know what happens afterward...

death

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wingsanctuary Death is something feared by a lot of people as it is the greatest unknown in life. The moment we realize we've got to die, the moment death starts challenging us. I believe the quote is a great way to think about death, as a great adventure. Unknowns make us...

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understand and accept

savypat @savypat (20216) • United States 1 Jan 09

How much better is life if we can strive to understand and accept the challenges that are placed before us. Is there are way to bring this actively into our lives?

questions and answers

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wingsanctuary I belive it depends a lot on confidence to understand and accept challenges that are placed before us. The way to actively strive is to build confidence and give meaning to your life. When you know what you are meant for living, when you know your cause, work...

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is it possible not to get angry ?

bombshell @bombshell (11256) • Germany 1 Jan 09

its new year and i have good mood.i can´t imagine myself how happy and contented i am.i would like to stay this mood till next year.so is it possible not to get angry?i know its a crazy question but anybody here who is like me...

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wingsanctuary Well, I believe the defense to anger depends on the strength of your happy memories. If you have a strong happy memory in your mind and in your mood always, you have less chance getting ignited into fury. You have good weapons: happiness and being content....

1 Jan 09

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Rude people

Emmapep @Emmapep (98) 1 Jan 09

How do you cope with rude people that you have to see often? A couple my partner is friends with can be really rude and it gets me so angry! It's not the kind of situation where you can say something though, as then you end up...

rude

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wingsanctuary I'm lucky that I don't have to cope with them often, I really don't like to be rude and don't like to deal with people that are rude. If I'm in such a position, I'd do mainly two things. First, I'd keep myself polite and cool-minded. Always remind yourself...

1 Jan 09