Friends on mylot.

I think it's more along the lines of what one sees, not who one knows. I'm new to this site too. So it's a little hard navigating around and finding things. I depend on what topics are sent to my email to what I answer. I'm starting to look around and figure out what I'm doing. Maybe others are too. Today, I just found out I should go back through finished discussions I started and choose which person gave me the best answer to my topic. Who knew? It's a learning process, and that takes awhile. Might depend on your topic too. I started one about David Eddings, an author. Nobody's touched that one. I think it's too specific. They don't know anything about him. I messed up. It needs to be more general, where more than a couple people actually have experienced it.

Hi, I answer any question I find interesting. This the first time I've seen you and this question.I will have to see what else you've posted.

hi suegt, Don't feel this bad , there are people who respond to the discussion to the discussion irrespective of whether they are each other's friend. I'm one those people.;-)

Now you got lots of responses! LOL! I respond to discussions that interests me and only if I am not repeating what others just said. But I also take time to see what my friends' threads and give some comments/opinion (if I think I have sensible one) even if the topic is not that interesting.

Hello suegt, don't feel like that. we here want to share about anythink with all PPL. If U want ppl respond U, try make some good to discuse.

I believe many people have the same experience. Most of people just respond their friends topic. The cause is people have limit time to search the limit topic, so they always respond the topic which they are interested or they knows well. Get your topic more interesting, and people will be attracted.

Personally I will respond to anybodies discussions. I don't just reply to my friends. It just depends on whether or not I find a discussion interesting or if I feel that I have something to add to that discussion. Sometimes I don't even reply to my friends discussions if I don't have something relevent to add. I hope it is like that for most of us here on myLot. Happy postings.

My lot is quite a big place with so many topics. And on their home page the number of the members grew very more. Members hoosen some of the discussion as on the base of their interest. So if your discussion is on that topic that is not relating to any one's interest that might be the reaso9n.

if you make a interesting discussion, people will give their comments..so main point here, make sure your discussion's title is hot and interesting..i believe you will see many people will comment your discussion..dont give up dude?

We have the same experience. Most of my postings don't get a response, or only a few. I get disappointed, which impels me to post more and to respond to the posting of others.

Well, that question is certain to invoke a response, isn't it? Anyway, if the discussion looks like something I know about or am interested in, I will respond to it. Or, if it has an eye-catching header. Answered one yesterday that said very little but conjured all sorts of things in my mind that I had to look into it and respond accordingly. Oh, and welcome to Mylot. I'm sort of newish as well.

what 's your worried is my care about.haha but I think i can change the situation as soon as possible.as i am a gongingout man .I believe everyone in here is my friend.so gradually come to my discussion,,weclome to my life

I've got the same problem. But then i'm new here so i'm hoping it get's better.

hey dont worry. i am here to discuss this thing in brieaf with u. most of the persons discuss on pnly those topics which is started by their friends. although it is not good practise, we should make new freiends here to get rid of this thing.

Welcoe to mylot you are just getting started here it is always like that when you start out get you alot of friends, and more discussions. It will get better just be patient, when I first started it was like that for me, when everyone starts here that is the way it is. wait till about a few more months it will get better.

I always look at the discussions that my friends have started, but those discussions are definately not the only ones that I respond to. I also check the discussions in my interest groups and sometimes I look at the new discussions, top discussions and the discussions with no responses. I think that I would miss out on some interesting discussions if I only looked at the discussions started by my friends, because I have many interests and I also have some interests that my friends don't share. I respond to a discussion if I find the topic interesting and if I feel that I have something to say about that topic.

I'm speaking for myself here, I only respond to a discussion I'm interested. Otherwise it's a moot point for me to respond without making any sense at all. I'm guessing you just need to start some interesting and meaningful discussions, that's all. Cheers!

not like that,I responds to any topics that interest me much.I will respond to any topics if I have enough time,we can learn a lot from all kinds of the topics,it's a good experience here and I look forward to see more discussions you start. BTW, I am a fresher here too;)

Mostly i respond to discussions i find interesting, or discussions i just happen to see on the 'hot' section. its mostly whether i can find it or not :D