can success will have more priorty than wife??

@yadav8797 (1211)
India
January 15, 2009 11:22am CST
hey friends, it will be a tricky question to answe my friend that success will more important than wife or ont. it will difficult to answer if you are married. tell me your views about this friend in detail
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7 responses
• Malaysia
18 Jan 09
hi yadav .. i guess i should not respond to this but i want too when husband n wife ..are in partnership ...the sucess of any individual is the success of the partnership when i was promoted into my position, 3 years ago, my husband was so proud of me that he actually bragged about it to all his friends similarly, my husband was promoted 2 years back and .. i was bragging about it to everyone i know .. we are both lucky because, both of us encourage each other and back up each other in all our own ventures .. we want to be successful together ... we work hard towards it and we have sacrificed alot of things in our life to achive success in our lifes ... But if your question is actually ment as , should you be looking for wife or success at young age .. then i guess my reply will be, work hard and have a setteled life before looking for a wife cheers
• India
17 Jan 09
Oh my friend frist of all you have to decide you wanna success or you wanna happyness. Most of the ppl think success mean happyness but both are different happyness gives you success it is not sure.and my family is my first priority in my life so I give more priority to my wife than the success without her.
@iskayz (5422)
• Philippines
16 Jan 09
Hi there! For me success and a wife has a relation so there is no need to choose between the two. If I am a man and married, of course I would want to be successful for my wife. I would think of my wife as my inspiration in everything I do. I would also want to give her everything she needs and if I am successful in terms of finances, I could give her a good life. Ciao!
@mjmlagat (3171)
• Philippines
16 Jan 09
I don't know with the other guys out there but not because I'm a wife myself that this is my answer. I would consider a wife more important that any success in a man's life because a man most of the time strives to succeed in order to impress his wife, am I right? Maybe...
@oadgmd (102)
• Philippines
16 Jan 09
I understand your problem because i too am having a problem with balancing a relationship and a career. I love my job and this sometimes hinders my abuility to develope a relationship with a special someone. I guess its just a matter of balancing and sacrifice. Definitely, sacrifices have to be made. On my side, it will probably be success in work that will suffer
@ladym33 (10990)
• United States
15 Jan 09
Not if you really love your wife. It is possible to have both success and a happy and successful marriage, but you need to learn how to balance them both. I think in the end having a wife that you love and who will grow old with you is more important than having a successful carreer, but there is not reason you can not have both. I think it is good to be successful but if you have to risk the hearts of those you love then you have to pull back a bit because it is not worth it. Perhaps if someone does not mind living a lonely life than success can be more important, but for me I would go for a good love any day.
@Sydemon (119)
• Philippines
15 Jan 09
well for me i would it better if the happiness you get from your success it would be shared to your wife without she feeling dished out in your future,like if you think success is when we you get promoted make a her a part it too