Do you want to be rich or comfortable?

@apples99 (6556)
United States
January 17, 2009 10:43pm CST
I want to be financially stable and comfortable not necessarily rich, for example I want to be able to pay my bills easley and fill my fridge easly without having to budget so tightly and be able to splurge every now and then, without constantly thinking about my budget, I want to live and be comfortable, dont get me wrong if I became rich I'm not gonna throw the money away lol, but just want to be able to live life without having to think about money so much, that would be nice. besides being rich is not easy believe me Iv seen and know people who are and its a big responsibility its not all fun and games ether. but anyway tell me do you want to be rich or do you want to be comfortable?
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@noniefam (284)
• Indonesia
18 Jan 09
i want to be comfortable cause if im comfortable its mean i will be happy too but if im rich but im not comfortable its means im not happy with my life
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• India
18 Jan 09
i dont want too much money, just sufficient money to live better life not highfi life.First i want peace in life. that is most important for me. but i would get too much money, i dont knw how would i manage it.? rightnow i have too many dreams , to fulfill some of these dreams, not all dreams, i required some regualr income.Wish me luck. Happy MyLOTTING
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@goldeneagle (6745)
• United States
18 Jan 09
Being rich would be nice, but I would settle just to be able to pay all my bills and have some left at the end of the month...
@apples99 (6556)
• United States
18 Jan 09
I agree to be financially secure would be just as good as being rich as long as I could live and pay my bills and still have money left at the end of each month I would be content.
@lynnemg (4529)
• United States
18 Jan 09
I want to be comfortable. I want to know that when the bills come in the mail, they can be paid, and that my kids will have a secure future. I also want to be able to expand my business and help others who are in need. If I do become wealthy, I want to do something wonderful to help children.
• Chile
18 Jan 09
I very much agree with you, after living for so long in a state of financial uncertainty it would be great to have enough money to pay bills, do some repairs and invest in a few luxeries as well. If I became rich I would most likely give all the excess money I didnĀ“t need to charities, for example where I live there are lots of animals on the streets and I would like to give money to ensure they have a decent home, I have often dreamed of having enough money to create a pet sancuary because it hurts me so much to see the amount of animals suffering on the streets.
@apples99 (6556)
• United States
18 Jan 09
Yes I feel the same as you, I just want the comfort of knowing and having enough money to pay my bills and I want to be able to comfortably afford food to fill my fridge, and not have to worry about my budget all the time, I just want to be financially stable more then rich.
• Philippines
18 Jan 09
I prefer to be comfortable..it means am stable financially that i can sustain my daily expenses..am not aiming to become rich..just comfortable..coz there are rich people who is not comfortable..having lots of money is useless when you are not happy with your life.
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@JenInTN (27514)
• United States
18 Jan 09
I think everyone would like to be rich but I would be happy with comfortable. Being comfortable means alot more than just paying the bills on time and not having to think about the budget constantly. It seems money always draws those good time friends and gold diggers that could care less about the person you really are. You get rich and I gurantee you'll be meeting new family and hearing from childhood friends you hadn't thought about in years. Peace and comfort has no price tag.
@DEVONECO (144)
• United States
19 Jan 09
I think it all boils down to whether you are "content"!!!!!!!! Being content is being happy. "Rich" doesn't really have a value unless it relates to being happy and content. I know several people who have all the wealth and materialistic things in life but are not at all happy or content - but others refer to them as being "rich" because of their possessions. Once I recall doing a humanitarian project through the Lions' Club at a little village in Sri Lanka located deep inside a forest which wasn't even accessible by vehicle. From one point, we had to walk along a footpath about 2 miles carrying all the goods we took for these villages - consisting of clothes, school books, etc which were presented to us by well-wishers. When we reached this little village, we were greeted by the villagers consisting of 50 families, who were dressed in their best and had arranged a little ceremony for us. After we had distributed the goods we brought, we were hosted to a lovely but simple meal prepared by the entire village. Their only possession was their little houses. They do not have electricity and have to get their water from wells nearby. All this time there was something amazing I noticed among these villagers - they were always with a smile and seem to be happy and no stress. I realized that these people are the most contest people I've ever met with the little possessions they had - and this to me is the real meaning of being "Rich"!
@angemac23 (2003)
• Canada
19 Jan 09
Being rick would be nice, but in order to enjoy anything, I have to be comfortable so that's what I would prefer.
@kissie34 (2294)
• Philippines
19 Jan 09
When I was a child, I want to be rich because I want to buy all the things that I want and able to go around the world.. But as I grow older, becoming a rich isn't not my goal anymore.. I just want to be financially stable and have a comfortable life.. I know that dreaming to become a rich person is very hard and I need to sacrifice everything to be able to succeed it.. I admit that I need a big money in order to help my family especially my brother to have a better life.. I'm doing my best to be able to earn money either through hard working and through online.. But of course my salary isn't enough to be able to help them and even my earnings in online isn't big to help them also.. But at least I'm trying my best to help them.. All I want right now is to be able to earn big money to be able to pay all the debts of my brother, to be able to help my parents in their business, and to have a good and comfortable life for my whole family.. I'm still single so I don't have much worried about myself.. I'm more worried about my family and I want to build them a house and able to help them to have a comfortable life..I don't dream of having a big house for them.. I just want to build a house that can fit all of us in one house and able to enjoy the life in this world..
@Humbug25 (12540)
19 Jan 09
Hey there apples99 Being rich, in my opinion, certainly doesn't bring happiness. I am happy now and I am by no means rich!! I have heard that a lot of rich people are actually very unhappy. I wouldn't like to wake up every morning without wanting for anything, how boring would that be? There is something to be said about wanting something and working hard to get it and with a sense of achievement. You wouldn't get that if you were rich and you can't buy that either!
@jamesgrub (673)
• United States
18 Jan 09
i would be happy to be rich or to be comfortable. but mostly to just be comfortable, growing up my family struggled sometimes with money thats why i know if i was rich i wouldnt blow my money. i would be happy just to make sure i have food, a house, and basically anything else you need to live a normal life. i would love to not have to worry about money!!
@apples99 (6556)
• United States
18 Jan 09
Yes I understand because Iv had my share of struggles, and if I became rich through hard work or some other achievement I would be really thankful for such a blessing, and I defintly would not take it for granted and start spending like crazy, but if I dont become rich I would still be content as long as I am comfortable in my life and I didnt have to worry about every single dollar I spend and I could pay my bills and eat with ease.
@bing28 (3795)
• Philippines
19 Jan 09
To be comfortable is enough. Yes paying bills on time, having a house of our own, a budget for food, savings for unexpected expenses and free from debts. Should be blessed to be rich would enable us to help others or making others living omfortable. We can have our car for us to transport easily. We can donate more to charities and support good cause.
• China
19 Jan 09
when i wan a child i really think i can be very rich when i grow up. but now it seems it's hard to be though i will still struggle. and as times goes by my opinion has changed money is only a thing though it's really a good thing can buy us lot, i tend to i will be satisfied if i have enough money to live is ok, but most of time we don't live with ourselves only, we also should to pay others bill...ah...it's horrible to talk about this topic, anyway, i need to be richful to surive...
@yanzalong (18984)
• Indonesia
19 Jan 09
I personally want to be rich and live comfortably. And I think everybody does. In this modern world, money is everything. It supports people's lives. Without it you can never ever get along well. Many people live under poverty line because they are skint, while some others live richly and comfortably and what they want to have come to them easily.
@y4ndys (45)
• Indonesia
19 Jan 09
rich can make life easier, beautiful and fun that why i join mylot.com and have my own site too selling t-shirt and merchandise http://www.sablondigital.co.cc i am really sorry cause its written in indonesian language but at least you can see samples there
@Ithink (9980)
• United States
18 Jan 09
I would love to be comfortably off. I agree to not have to worry about how to pay all the bills and have food too would be great. Right now it is a battle to figure out how much to pay on each bill and still have enough for things we have to have. There is no splurging or extras. I know that we will get thru it but it sure makes things unpleasant at times. Now if I became rich, like you I wouldnt throw the money away and I know what I would do with it. I guess either would be alright by me!
@cher913 (25782)
• Canada
18 Jan 09
i would like to be like you, well off but not necessarily rich. it would be nice not to have to struggle to pay off bills but i think having scads of money is silly. who cares if you jeans cost $800 or $10.99? seriously, it doesnt matter in the end.
• Philippines
18 Jan 09
all people are wanting the same as you are. and i myself would be a hypocrite if i don't do or wish the same. i wanted to be rich and comfortable also. but as the days pass by, what i just wanted right now is to be contented with the things that i have and to be able to settle and help my family. i earned not a high salary but is just enough for me and my brother.. hmm.. to be rich and comfortble is nice, but to be contented with godliness is another.. thanks..
@jesbellaine (4139)
• Philippines
18 Jan 09
Hi there Well, not really literally rich because there are lots of "safety procedure" when you are rich. Lots of people would take advantage of you even the one closest to you. So, I should say, I want to be financially stable as well. It means that I should have all the necessities that I need in my life and extra money if something comes up. For me, being financially stable means you have a home and a van for family use then a secure job to keep you earning. If not, I can put up a small business so that i have an alternative on where to get money if needed. Financially stable also means that I can spare time for myself having fun like going to a long trip (maybe out of town or going to neighboring country once a year or once every two years). That's is so enough for me!!! I don't need to own worth 5 million dollars of house and lot. I just need a house that I can call home and it should not be more than a million pesos (in dollars it is like uhmmmm... 40000 dollars). lolz... FOr a car, I would prefer a van for family use or a simple car. I don't need mercedez benz that cost millions here in the Philippines. I am okay as long as I am comfortable in my life. Thank you for the discussion. Happy Mylotting and Have a great day! Cheers!
@djemba (767)
• India
18 Jan 09
Yes ofcourse like everyone in the world i'd like to be rich but thats's not a very comfortable place to be in ...i mean i like all the money,the splurge..but with getting rich comes some insecurities and a bad change in behaviour to not so rich people...i'm not just guessing i've seen it happen.....so i want the money but the changes that come alongwith
@chris20 (109)
• Philippines
18 Jan 09
when i was a kid, we've experienced a good life but when i've reached my college, we've experienced some financial difficulty. currently, we're still patching up things with the help of each other. truly, if your not working alone with your problems in life, soon, everything will turn out to be ok. no matter i've already experienced the two sides in life, still, i just want to have a simple, comfortable life with my family but if i get more than that, i'll be very thankful such a great blessing.