What's wrong with the world today?
By kris182_2000
@kris182_2000 (5475)
Canada
January 18, 2009 8:33pm CST
I got a call the other day from a friend of mine.
He was distraught, and getting depressed.
His wife is disabled and can't work, and gets a meager monthly income to help pay the bills and provide basics for the family.
He has 3 kids, 3, 5 and 8.
He has a great career, they rent a beautiful home in the country, they're doing a rent to own program.
So on to the phone call I got from my friend.
He calls me the other day and tells me that his car died. Since he lives in the country, he needs it to get to work in the city, but he can't now. Since his wife is disabled, she never had a car and never learned to drive. Children are clearly too young to learn to drive.
Now the big issue for him is that he can't afford to buy a car and pay the rent and bills as he can't go to work.
He doesn't have good enough credit to lease a car either without a substantial down payment.
I can't help him as I've already got my own lease.
It saddens me that he can't get something simple as a loan either because of his credit score.
He's sad now. If he can't get another car, he'll lose his job, then he'll lose his home. His wife could die if she doesn't have a roof over her head, but if they lose their home, what do you think would happen?
I'm trying to help him the best I can, which is trying to help him raise the down payment needed to get a car.
In these hard times, I wonder if there are others out there who care about the wellbeing of their fellow man enough to help out.
I have a fund raising campaign going on right now, and will post it if there's interest. I've already offered him what I can afford, which isn't much.
I thought I'd post this to see how people would react to the fact that there are people out there who need help, and to show how the economic crisis has affected people.
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3 responses
@rsa101 (40987)
• Philippines
19 Jan 09
I guess its a nice thing that he has a friend like yours that is really ready to help despite your own limited resources too. I guess his car only needs to be taken into a repair shop and does not need a new one. It might be solved and I guess it will just need some cash to have it solved.

@rsa101 (40987)
• Philippines
19 Jan 09
Well to get such many problems in the car just means that it was not taken into the car for maintenance regularly. It should be taken on a regular maintenance check up to prevent this catastrophe. But anyway he could also sell that to the junk and earn something from there.
@ktosea (2026)
• China
19 Jan 09
sorry to hear that,your friend is obviously in trouble right now,you may help him to maitain his job first,if he lose the job,he lose everything as you said,so if you have way to help him to mend his car or rent a new one,it will be great for you.anyone would be in trouble some time,help them to get out if you can and they will help you back when you need help
@kris182_2000 (5475)
• Canada
19 Jan 09
I'm trying to help him because he came through for me back in my own time of need.
A few years ago, I faced a situation where I was almost homeless. He helped me find an apartment and even helped me move.
It's a karma thing I guess, and good karma is hard to come by sometimes.
I feel bad that I can't do more for him, but in this time of crisis, even I'm struggling to get by month to month.
@Thoroughrob (11742)
• United States
12 Feb 09
I am sure their income is not too high. He could try community action or Job and family services. They helped my sister in law fix her car, so that she did not lose her job.



