Marriage or Career? Which would you prioritize for 2009?

I want my gf and I to get marry, but she still do not want it because she has her goal to achieve first. I respect her decision. So now, I have to prioritize career and when she's ready, marriage comes next.

For me, the carrier is clearly the first option, since there is nobody in my life to get married to. Right now I'm preparing for a job contest, that would be a great step in my career. Also, I'm writing my first scientific article that will be published this year, and that's also beneficial for my career.

There is nothing to regret on when you prioritize your career first than getting married. Go for it. For me, I would choose the same. Better to establish a career now.

Since I'm already married, I guess it'll be a career. I have to keep us going until my husband gets back to work. Of course, that wouldn't be until at least the end of this summer. That's a good six months away. It's definitely going to be interesting.

i think you need a good career to have a healthy marriege.so many people choose marriege first and have alot of finance problems and then wish they had finished the career.so i would say career. if the person loves you they will wait.

Hello, once again maean, Well, since I'm not of marrying age yet, I can't tell you my opinion, but I can certainly tell what my opinion would have been if I was to marry this year, I would first concentrate on my job, then marriage, Job's are more important than anything else.

Well I am married already. But when I wasn't my career came first. As for astrology I never put much trust in it not my thing. I would think if your Bar Exam is coming up I would take care of that first and then worry about marriage. Really now days there are a lot of men and wmen waiting on marriage to get their careers started and established. But if I had to choose again this year it would be career then marriage.

like you maean, my astrology sign says that it's a good year for me to get married. problem is, i'm not attached and still very much a student. but i'm graduating in 3 months time. So.. from the current situation or circumstance, career would be my route.

I am married for fourteen years so i am hoping for a good career for 2009.

career of course this 2009..and i'm too young to decide for marriage.. i choose career because i still have four sisters and i want to help them in their studies..i want them to earn good grades and landed a good jobs..i dont want them to grow dependent..i will help them how to become independent..

I don't have any plans for either of them, but my advice to you is to go with your plans!! Don't change them just because your astrology says so... If you are a strong believer in your astrology and it seems most times it has always come true then go for it, but in my case my astrology has always seem to be wrong, not just wrong, but not even close! So it really depends.

hi, i want to marrie this year but it will held only after focusing on career, so i want to focus on career this year and with perfect planing i will marrie after getting a good position.

hi maean, happy new year jan 26,2009, If it is possible i want to underline both means change 'or' to 'and'.yes career comes first then marriage. Have a nice exam ,be lawyer and be married man

not just for the yar 2009, but for every year of my life, i would prioritize a relationship to career.. its because a marriage is somehting that ought to last for our entire lifetime and i dont want it to ever take a backseat.. its the most important thing to me and it never ever compares to career..

I am already married so I would have to prioritize both of them I have to keep my marriage safe and alos make sure to work and help pay the bills.

To me I would have to choose career. Because sometimes marriage dont always last and the career is always going to be there. I hope the best for you maean_19. To me it is going to be a lawyer and get married. To me I am trying to work my way out of debt and get me and my fiancee out of debt before we get marriage. To me get your prioritize.

Of course I will choose for MarriCare - a telescopic merge between Marriage and Carrier. Once noted the right time and opts, I won't leave the opportunity disappear from my life. Actually, marriage is a good social contract, when it be in through and true network. In fact, it strengthen our carrier and affirming our right direction in our live as well as one of the key to success towards reaching our life's goals.