Love ,Marraige and Forgiveness
By panzerswifey
@panzerswifey (314)
United States
January 26, 2009 3:57am CST
My husband is absoutely the love of my life. He is in Iraq right now
and I miss him so much. Whe he is home we fight all the time.
But I would not give him up for nothing.
He is mean but he is loving and caring person.
And he is strict but when you need him he is always there.
GOD blessed me when he sent my husband to me. I Just wanted everyone to know
what a good man I am married to.
And I want people who are thinking about divorcing to to disagreements and other little
stupid things.
Do not do it. Call a chaplain,rabbi,preist,reverend,paster, imam,spiritual guide
Call somebody to come and mediate.
When you got married you took a vow.
We married in Colorado at the court house and here you marry yourselves.
My husband took me in the hallway and said...
If we do this we can never divorce no matter what.
He said I am not marrying to divorce you.
If you divorce you will regret it.
I will never find a man like my husband. My husband is my best friend, my soul mate,
my confidant and my everything.
There are times when I think about divorce.
But I will not because i made a promise that we would work out even the worst of the worst
when it came to problems.
I just love the man and nothing can change my mind on that!
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5 responses
@aisaellis22 (6445)
• United States
26 Jan 09
Hello panzerswifey! Well, we are somehow related. My husband and I are away from each other for 5 months now and I terribly miss him. He is american where I am filipina. I can't immediately join him in the US because I still have to have a visa as an immigrant there. Hopefully, this year, I can join him. I would never think of divorcing my husband. I know what he'd been through. He is the nicest man I have ever known. He doesn't want to argue with me although I tried to make some arguments to test his love to me. He is very patient when it comes to me and I know I am one of the luckiest girls.
I am glad that you love your husband and I am happy and I am proud of you because of your different perspective towards divorced. I wish you all the best with your family and I hope your husband is safe wherever he is right now.
@panzerswifey (314)
• United States
26 Jan 09
My friend she is a filipina also she married a American Soldier and she is the nicest lady I ever met.
I bet you are to.
Keep in touch when you come to the US you got a friend here.
Sometimes it is really hard because we are so far away.
But what keeps me going is the fact that I love him and I know my husband loves me.
He may not say all the time but he does.
Women like us that are far away from our husbands only have love to hang on to.
But it makes us stronger.
I hope you get your visa very soon.
@aisaellis22 (6445)
• United States
26 Jan 09
oh, you're so sweet..thank you so much...I can tell you're nice too..Which part are you in the united states?maybe our place is near..
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@siomaiii (238)
• Philippines
27 Jan 09
I admire you for holding on to your marriage despite of all the difficulties. Although I'm not yet married right now, but I also believe that marriage is a lifetime commitment. Thank you for sharing your story, you are an inspiration.
@underdogtoo (9579)
• Philippines
27 Jan 09
You have a good life in that you have the right idea about life. Cheers!!
@celticeagle (159572)
• Boise, Idaho
26 Jan 09
I think you otta get some marriage counselling. I am sure you can find a good counselor and that person could perhaps find a book or dvd or whatever for your husband to work on as well. And when he comes home you could see the counselor together. When you speak of vows it sounds very important to you. I would go the counselor route before making the final decision as to divorce or? Atleast you talking to one would probably help you make some decisions. Then go from there.
@panzerswifey (314)
• United States
28 Jan 09
We are not getting a divorce.
maybe you miss read. We will never get a divorce.
I know he loves me to much and I love him even more.
Right now divorce is not an option.
@celticeagle (159572)
• Boise, Idaho
28 Jan 09
You said he was mean and the things you mentioned made me think of divorce. I hope you both get the help you need so you can be happy. Good luck!
