Broken hearted

January 27, 2009 4:15pm CST
It pains me to let him go but i have no choice because he was the one who gave me up. I wanted to fight for him, but he left me alone in the battle. it is just so painful because i love him very very very much... :-(
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@Margajoe (4718)
• Germany
28 Jan 09
Sorry to hear that. But, don't worry, the pain will go away soon. Keep yourself busy, go shopping or buy some new cloths. Go out and enjoy yourself. I know it sounds like you cannot. But, it time you will meet someone new. Take care.
@silverjam (969)
• United States
27 Jan 09
My heart oges for you. I know how it feels being left alone w/ a deraly loved one. Well you didn't put it in detail what really happpened and why. I would just assumed that something very serious happend that is beyong reconciliation and I guess you tried to save the relationship but still it ends up. It's not the end of the world though and surely you still have life and hope to live on. Stand up and pick up the peices of your life. it may take time to be healed but am sure you will be. Don't loss hope, life is still beautiful despite the odds. Everybody in this world has their share of downfall just be courageuos.
• United States
27 Jan 09
You sound so hurt. I am sorry you have a broken heart. I will not lie and tell you things will be easy and over soon because in truth they will not. Getting over a lost love takes time. I will tell you that with work the time will come when the pain will lessen. It is difficult but it can be done. I know this because I have been where you are today. It is no fun but I just did not give up. I moved on with my life and found a man whom I love and who loves me in return. Love must be a relationship in which each will work together and if not it will always fail. You will get over him and you will find your true love if you just do not give up hope. This being said cry your river, eat your gallon of ice cream while watching Steel Magnolias, and then allow your friends to get you out on the town in hopes you will meet someone new. Take my advice and allow yourself to love again and someday you will even more deeply than before because you know what it feels like to hurt and you realize that the hurt will not kill you but only make you stronger. Good luck girl and the best of wishes.
27 Jan 09
Oh dear cristina you sound so sad. I am sorry to hear that you are going through such pain and having a hard time right now. You are a very special and sweet person and breaking up is never easy when you love someone. It is never ever worth fighting to stay with someone if they want out because it will always be an uphill battle and you would be on edge wondering if he really felt the same as you did. Take time to grieve and look after yourself. Write down how you feel and dont feel pressured into bouncing back on the dating scene until you feel ready. Spend time with your friends and family and treat yourself to something nice like a new haircut to make you feel great. In time things will not feel as desperate - I promise you this. Set yourself a goal a month from now to look at your post and see just how much you have changed in 4 weeks :) Take care
• Canada
27 Jan 09
It's always hard saying good-bye to a love especially when you were still crazy about them. But the truth is, if they wouldn't be there with you, then that means even if you guys were to stay together, you couldn't really depend on eachother and thats not a good relationship to be in. I know it must feel like the end of the world right now, but soon you'll be able to move on and there will be other fish in the sea that who knows will be alot better to you. Everything happens for a reason.