silverjam

@silverjam (969)

United States • Age 53

Joined myLot 12 years ago

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Are You "Living In Sin?"

MegDM123 @MegDM123 (145) • United States 6 Jul 09

I don't like calling it that, but my mother sure does :) I like to use the word "cohabitating", because that is what we are doing. We have pooled our resources, share the responsiblity, and have agreed to be committed to each...

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silverjam I like our cultural practices when it comes to marriage (of course not the gossip thing there). We are still holding a high standard of morality when it comes to relationship. Here in the USA, they are very loose about it. Living together w/o marriage is very...

7 Jul 09

Are You "Living In Sin?"

MegDM123 @MegDM123 (145) • United States 6 Jul 09

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silverjam Is the man you love and is living with your husband; are you married to him?

7 Jul 09

Rinse and Repeat

Marie Anne @Ldyjarhead (10241) • United States 6 Jul 09

An acquaintance on an email list mentioned that she was very excited about finding her favorite shampoo on sale and got an even better deal since she had a coupon. I applauded her for that. What got me was her statement that...

frugal

shampoo

wasteful

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silverjam I only take shower 3x a week but I guess I am the most stingy guy in here; my shampoo lasted for more than 6 months and I have a long hair (almost up to waist line) I bought my recent shampoo last Feb and its still almost half-full. I only shampoo once; I...

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I wish I could be a child again........ Do you??

siddharthjeevan @siddharthjeevan (645) • India 1 Jun 09

When i was little my parents used to tell me, " Your childhood days are the best days of your life. Enjoy them while they last." i never listened to them at that time. Now that i'm 20 and i look back i feel that i didn't exploit...

childhood

happiness

life

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silverjam Sure I do wish to be a child again and if only I can turn back the time I would rather be. Children have n worries and responsibilities like adult do; they won't be thinking on bills, groceries and other things in daily routines. Their world evolves only in...

2 Jun 09

Do you eat fish?

gicolet @gicolet (1703) • United States 29 May 09

My husband doesn't like fish. He said it stinks. He just can't stand the smell of fish. I think fish is good. Not all fish are super duper delicious but i think it depends upon how it is cooked. I like baked salmon but I don't...

fish

salmon

tuna

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silverjam I do, and am very much a fish-eater since I grew up in the Philippines where people's mean dish is fish, and moreso, we lived near the seashore so a lot of fish there. I really missed a lot of fishes that I used to have while in my country and I didn't find...

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Do you leave a tip when you eat out?

beamsey @beamsey (425) • Philippines 29 May 09

I know that when you're a student, you don't have to leave a tip. Also when there's service charge, the tip you leave is much less than what you leave if there's no service charge. But even as a student, I still leave a tip. Also,...

eating out

money

tip

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silverjam I never did left any tip before, not until my husband (was my bf then) always did when we ate in food places while he was visiting me in the Phil. I still didn't do that in my first stay here in the USA but he always told me to do so, so now am used to it. I...

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long or short hair on a women

momtrying2makeit @momtrying2makeit (3278) • United States 21 May 09

I was curious this is for men women can answer as well. I like long hair more than short for me but I wanted to know what others thought about it. Take care and let me know thanks

long hair

medium length hair

short hair

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silverjam I always wear long hair because of my face' shape (round) as I look more fat if I wear short hair. And I guess most men like to have longer hair for women; my husband do.

31 May 09

Do you use the same bath towel with your hubby or other family memebers?

Bebs08 @Bebs08 (10685) • United States 27 May 09

I don't!! I have my own bath towel and my hubby has his too. Even when we travel, we have different towels and face towel. We do share soap but towels? nope!! Even when I was yet single, I don't want to share my towel to anybody....

family members

sharing

towels

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silverjam When we were kids and a little grown ups we did but when we're adult we have our own w/ my siblings. We have each towels and toiletries at home. Even w/ soaps and shampoo we don't share because we have different brands, me and my husband I mean. I guess thoise...

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have you ever??? -momtrying2makeit

momtrying2makeit @momtrying2makeit (3278) • United States 24 May 09

had a dream that came true? like everything in the dream is what I am talking about. I have had dreams where some of it came true but not all of it. So I was cuirous to see about other mylotters as well. Take care and I look...

dreams that come true

nightmares

real true dreams

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silverjam I remembered having a dream literally came true on that very same day. it was Friday dawn (about 3 or 4am) when I was awakened by my husband for my heavy snoring and it was when my dream stopped. I dremat of having a newly grown nail in my one of my thumb and...

27 May 09

Did you experience cutting your hair yourself?

Bebs08 @Bebs08 (10685) • United States 26 May 09

I do experience doing it when I was in college. I was living in a boarding school at that time and I don't want to spend my money to pay for hair cutter. It's too expensive. LOL.. How I do that? Well, I just go to a big full size...

cutting

ecpensive

hari

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silverjam I remember doing that when I was in my senior years in high school; I cut my bangs myself and it was horrible I never do it again. I was thinking it's just easy to do that, thinking that anyway it's just the bangs but boy, it looks like ladders/stairs...

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some people use scissors in cutting their fingernails and even toe nails!!!

Bebs08 @Bebs08 (10685) • United States 26 May 09

I know of someone who used scissors in cutting his finger nails and even toe nails. Of course he can have clippers which is easy to use than scissors but I am just wondering why he is doing that? I tried that once just for...

cutting fingernails

scissors

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silverjam Yes I did; experienced cutting my nails w/ scissors. My mother did it when we were kids as nail cutters were not common that time hence doing it w/ the scissors but am doing it w/ clippers now, it's more easy and convenient of course.

27 May 09

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Are you folding your clothes after drying or just hang it in your closet?

Bebs08 @Bebs08 (10685) • United States 26 May 09

Some people do fold their clothes after drying it they don't even iron them.. because most of the clothes now are wash and wear. I do both.. I hand some of my clothes and I folded also some of it. Although it is pretty neat to...

folding

hanging clothes

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silverjam I'll be folding most of my house clothes and hang those nice ones for church or outside puposes. I rarely ironed them as drying clothes minimizes wrinkles.

27 May 09

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What will you do when you see somebody picking up your clothes on purpose?

Bebs08 @Bebs08 (10685) • United States 26 May 09

what I mean is.. that you caught somebody picking up your clothes on purpose of stealing them? what would be your reaction specially if it is your branded underwear? This is ridiculous but it happened to me many times. Most of...

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silverjam This happends to me I guess many times already. The first was my undies being hanged inside the bathroom and still wet. I'd been looking for that one for a week or so and one time I saw it and it was hanged by a friend who is just a visiting one every now and...

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should i get angry???

riyasam @riyasam (16567) • India 17 May 09

i had expressed my desire to go to certain family friend place a few days ago but somehow the expenses were too much as a family and we dropped the idea!today my hubby called me up saying that he had to take a buisiness trip...

relationship

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silverjam Well I guess you don't have to be angry just because your husband dropped at your friends house w/o you. However, I would understand if you feel disappointed/frustrated for it. Maybe it was just so convenient for him to dropped by in there since the house is a...

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just leave me alone......

riyasam @riyasam (16567) • India 19 May 09

have you ever said these words to anyone??i have but sometimes i mean opposite of what i say!!attimes,I like to be alone, it helps to think and to get things done, also to relax and get away from noise and problems.. I tell people...

lonely

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silverjam Weel, honestly (and sadly) I said it many times to my husband during or after our fights. I want to be alone and don't want any talks as I felt I'll be more comfortable by just being myself so I can relax and stay calm. But I guess I only had said this to my...

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Do you do your own nails or do you go to nail spas?

gicolet @gicolet (1703) • United States 18 May 09

I do my own nails for so many years now. I can count how many times I've been to a nail spa to get my manicure and pedicure done. I just don't feel very satisfied with their services and also for hygienic reasons. I've heard some...

manicure

nail spa

pedicure

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silverjam When I was still in the Philippines I was having both my hands and feet nails done every month as I had a friend who does it regularly (I'd been her regular customer for more than 20 yrs) because I need special cuttings in my feet nails. I can do it that...

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husband and wife 50/50 with expenses? Interesting to know this!!!!

Bebs08 @Bebs08 (10685) • United States 29 Apr 09

It makes me ponder upon this situation or family set up. A friend of mine told me that she and her husband share 50/50 with the household expenses. They will split the bills. For example their telephone bills is $50? the wife will...

expenses

husband

wife

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silverjam Well if it works fine for them then so be it. I heard similar cases among my friends too and I guess it's only applicable for those who ar earning well and has more or less the same income range. We cannot do that because I don't have a permanent job and we...

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bragging-hurting or irritating???

riyasam @riyasam (16567) • India 2 May 09

i have seen people bragging about themselves,their families,their careers,their richness and how classy they are (then they are not classy at all) if i have to listen to them for shorter period of time i do and can manage a smile...

bragging

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silverjam I met a lot of those kinds and I just let them have their ways. I guess these people has some insecurity issues. People tend to uplift themselves in an effort to hide their insecurities. I just listen to their braggings.....am telling myself that maybe it's...

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why is it that some women are attracted to older men???

riyasam @riyasam (16567) • India 4 May 09

i am married to a man who is 3 years older than me but i know in many arranged marraiges men are quite older than women(love marraiges is no exception)lolita thing happens alot, i have heard girls getting madly attracted to much...

relation

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silverjam Well yes I do; I mean I was easily attracted to older men when I was single. I guess this has something to do w/ a lot of security issues. I like older men because am expecting them to be more mature and experienced in life; more patient and understanding and...

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How do you tell someone to give back your stuff?

gicolet @gicolet (1703) • United States 8 May 09

If someone (friend or not) borrowed something from you and you're not sure if he or she forgot about it cause it's been a couple of weeks or even months already and he/she hasn't returned it, how do you ask it back? What would be...

borrow

lend

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silverjam Well if that happends, I would simply remind them about the things they borrowed from me. I guess that is the most effecient way in getting back your stuff; be frank w/o being tactless.

11 May 09