family size..and why???
@walnutbrownie (745)
India
January 28, 2009 11:02pm CST
How many children do u have and for those of us unmarried here, how many children do u wanna have once u are marreid.I would go for 3 childrens and i hope my hubby agrees to that too. 3 because i fell that the children should also have someone to turn to when we grow old and are gone..a family other than thiers to look up to and be there one another.
what about u?
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@lokiblitz (169)
• Philippines
29 Jan 09
The best number of children for me for a family would be 2 to 3 children.And the age gap should be about two years so that each child would be given some quality time.And so that the elder ones will also be mature and not get jealous of their younger siblings.
@walnutbrownie (745)
• India
31 Jan 09
Yes..i agree wid u..we are 6 siblings so theres a lot of gap wid my older ones and difficult to communicate
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@Ephraim123 (274)
• Philippines
29 Jan 09
For me, as long as it's an even number, it's okay. 2 is the most ideal number for me. Aside from the fact that it's easier to manage/take care of 2 kids, they'll grow up together, learn from each other and protect each other when they reach adulthood. An even number is ideal so that nobody is left behind. Nobody gets out of place because there's always somebody to turn to.
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@sanjaychawla (366)
• India
29 Jan 09
i'll have a family with 2 children,not more than that. I think more the children less will be the love that we can give them and less attention can be paid over them. Moreover the main problem in India is the Increasing Population.
@walnutbrownie (745)
• India
31 Jan 09
hahah..population coontrol,,a concerened citizen..i appreciate ur move
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@sacmom (14192)
• United States
29 Jan 09
I have 2 kids, though my husband wants us to have 3, like you. Personally I wanted to stop after I had one, but my husband was able to talk me out of getting my tubes tied. However, I'm glad my husband did as both of my kids are a joy in my life, even if they do drive me up the wall! 
LOL
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@walnutbrownie (745)
• India
31 Jan 09
yes..kids do drive us mad..bu i think they are the greatest joy..m not marreid and dont have a kid but my neices and nephews are just to lovely
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@tlb0822 (1410)
• United States
29 Jan 09
My fiance and I have a wonderful little girl right now. In the future we would like to have one or two more. It all depends on our financial situation. We both love children, and love being parents. I wouldn't trade it for anything in the world.
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@walnutbrownie (745)
• India
31 Jan 09
im sure everything will turn out fine for u both...
kids are such a blessing.
and may u both be blessed financailly n all ways
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@squirt051305 (381)
• United States
29 Jan 09
Hello! I have been happily married for almost 4 years now. We just had our son this past May. I would love to have 2 more babies!! Hopefully the ecomony gets better so I can do this 
I am 28 years old and I really dont want to have babies pass 35 since its more danderous for baby and mother. I use to tell people I wouldn't have babies after 30 but since I started so late I have extended it. I would love to have a girl then another boy!! 
Happy mylotting!!
I am 28 years old and I really dont want to have babies pass 35 since its more danderous for baby and mother. I use to tell people I wouldn't have babies after 30 but since I started so late I have extended it. I would love to have a girl then another boy!!
Happy mylotting!!@walnutbrownie (745)
• India
31 Jan 09
Hy squirt..u give me complex..im 29 and not married yet..lols..guess i should opt for 1 or 2...
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@squirt051305 (381)
• United States
31 Jan 09
For me that's just what I want to do. I don't want to me in my late 30's having babies. Its a health issue for me because I have high blood pressure. Now if I was 100% health then it would be ok for me to get pregnant later on. So please dont freak out and think you have to hurry up and sytart having babies. Have them when you are ready!! Take care!!
Happy mylotting!!
