arent mums supposed to know eveything???

They only thing mom told me about men was negative. I wish she would have told me some of the good stuff also. Like they can be loving, caring and yes some of them can be good in bed.

I suppose you are referring to your mother-in-law.........LOl! Perhaps most of the wives think like you, when their respective husbands do not behave themselves. My better half sometimes says the same dialogue for me...........LOL! However, she commits an error or unable to perform something..........I do not say her so.

mom didn,t tell me but i found it out.they also don,t like taking out the trash in the house one of my family member neglect his duty as a husband he is down right lazy.just messy just one big messy wanting someone else to clean up behind him isn,t this what children do.want clean are cook are see about the baby this man would have to go if he was my man.

would u have believed her, why no. lol you were in love & wouldn't have believed a negative thing about him. mom's do know everything. lol

Well, there are just so many things we need to learn from our daily experiences with them..they're both amazing and frustrating sometimes. Happy posting!

heck men, I wish my mom would have told me more of what to expect of women, me!! She never told, or taught me anything! From periods, to crushes, love, life, schooling, nothing, I had to learn it all on my own! I wish my mum and I were closer, but it's something that will never happen.

These kinds of things were not talked about back in my day. It was just expected that you handled what ever was handed you I didn't think to tell my girls either. they had two bigger brothers to learn from. I have raised two of my grandkids and started talking to my granddaughter about these things that are a pain in the you know what. But she's all starry eyed about her boyfriend so will have to learn on her own. I believe we wouldn't have listened any way because we are so starry eyed that we put that man on a pedestal. Now I'm working on my 20 year old grandson getting him to ash the glass and clean up the toilet when he misses. (Of course it's not him that missed the toilet). I hope to make his future wife's life (and mine) easier. So girls we have to do better with our boys.

I don't know about you, but I probably wouldn't have believed my mom even if she had tried to tell me. Not until about 5 years ago any. I think these ever important lessons are something we just have to live and learn.

There are so many things that our moms should have told us but were probably too embarrassed to do so.. Men can be so difficult, especially after you have finished cleaning the house.. I hear all kinds of excuses and he even has the nerve to try and place the blame on me, but after 43 years together, he knows it will not work.. He tries desperate measures for desperate situations.. I could never divorce him and turn him loose on the unsuspecting world, it could be a disaster.. I would feel obligated to pin a note on him as soon as I let him go, warning, warning, warning..

they reall know more than we think they do!!

hmmm thats a good question riya

I wish my mom told me that it would be really hard to make my dad accept that his daughters will have/have boyfriends - and that those boyfriends don't necessarily make the same mistakes he did. Thanks for the response on my discussion!

Hello my friend riyasam Ji, All Moms are Globely Nursary teachers for all their children at any part of society and I feel that every Mom has full her right and duty to tell everything required in future. But i have yet to find-out, where my friend is hinting at. may god bless you and have great time.