What can be done to improve your self-worth?
By analupinho
@analupinho (34)
Portugal
February 4, 2009 6:49pm CST
Hi myLotters!
I really wanted some advice on this issue because everyone tells me I'm an intelligent and beautiful girl, but I keep loosing myself everytime and I've done some things that I'm not proud of just to call some atention from people around me. I'd really like to have a much more defined personality because I think I suffer from a terrible lack of self-esteem.
I have this girlfriend who makes friends everywhere she goes and is very sociable. People actually notice her and everyone thinks she's beautiful, although she's not that special. I often feel outshined by her when we go somewhere together and I don't know how she does it to be so proud of herself and to have so many people who love her. I'd really like to be like her sometimes...
What shoul I do?
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3 responses
@my_name_is_coco (4334)
• Philippines
26 Dec 09
I think that you should focus on your positive qualities and improve your personality.observe your girl friend.how does she make new friends?does she always smile?be genuine and don't pressure yourself in making new friends or being likable.just relax and have fun.people will be drawn to someone who is laidback and relaxed.
@intari (190)
• Indonesia
5 Feb 09
just be yourself and believe that you have ability and quality. don'tu ever imitate anyone else. because if u do that, u'll never be number one. u'll always be number two. everybody have different and have their own unique that make them special.keep learning the new thing. keep in high spirits.good luck to u always. :-)
@raynejasper (2322)
• Philippines
5 Feb 09
..basically, you need to socialize with people.. although we do have different personalities.. and you have that kind whose personality is a shy type.. I was actually like that before, then one day, I realize that I need to give myself a break and socialize with people.. I try to volunteer myself when there is a task to do during parties.. I also try to converse with people when I'm in gatherings.. try to discover the talents and capabilities you have.. With that you can be able to overcome your silent type personality with a new one.. God bless..
