@analupinho on myLot

Alex18 @Alex18 (169) • United States 16 Feb 09

Hope everyone is having a great day! :) I had been dating a girl long distance. I live in the U.S. and she lives in the philippines. This morning she was on yahoo messenger and I was asleep so the messages she sent me I...

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analupinho Hi! I think you must consider the fact that she can no longer be in love with you if she has another bf. I don't mean to be rude, but I think reality hits hard in these situations... I know many people who have long distance relationships and honestly the...

16 Feb 09

analupinho @analupinho (34) • Portugal 8 Feb 09

Dear myLotters, what do you do when you just feel so lonesome you can't even bear to wake up every morning? What do you do to break the routine? Recently, I've been through harsh times. The fact that I didn't make it to the...

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analupinho I tried to sign up for the gym near my home. Although I had already signed up for it, some methods have changed round there, so I'd have to pay for a new entry and it got awfuly expensive, so I just got it out of my mind because I don't have that money and...

9 Feb 09

analupinho @analupinho (34) • Portugal 8 Feb 09

Dear myLotters, what do you do when you just feel so lonesome you can't even bear to wake up every morning? What do you do to break the routine? Recently, I've been through harsh times. The fact that I didn't make it to the...

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analupinho I was planing on traveling to Amsterdam with some friends but then the flight got so expensive we just quited. I'd really like to go somewhere else but then I have no money and no company :( Thanks

9 Feb 09

analupinho @analupinho (34) • Portugal 8 Feb 09

Dear myLotters, what do you do when you just feel so lonesome you can't even bear to wake up every morning? What do you do to break the routine? Recently, I've been through harsh times. The fact that I didn't make it to the...

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analupinho I'll take the volunteer work in consideration, it's not a bad idea at all and I had already thought of something like that :) Thank you!

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analupinho @analupinho (34) • Portugal 8 Feb 09

Dear myLotters, what do you do when you just feel so lonesome you can't even bear to wake up every morning? What do you do to break the routine? Recently, I've been through harsh times. The fact that I didn't make it to the...

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analupinho Well, that's something I've been doing and that really bores me. Right now is raining cats and dogs here in Portugal but in the afternoon I just had to get out of home before I had a nervous shootdown! Anyway, thanks for the tip :)

8 Feb 09

moneymommy @moneymommy (3418) • United States 8 Feb 09

I used to bite my nails all through my childhood,teen years and into my twenties. I believe this to be a form of anxiety and a habit. One day in my late twenties I just stopped without even trying. I have not bite my nails since...

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analupinho I have never bited my nails. Actually, I think that's a terrible habit, and this could sound futile, but I couldn't even think of what it is not to get my nails done, because when I look at them all long and painted it's such a satisfaction to me. Besides, I...

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analupinho @analupinho (34) • Portugal 8 Feb 09

Dear myLotters, what do you do when you just feel so lonesome you can't even bear to wake up every morning? What do you do to break the routine? Recently, I've been through harsh times. The fact that I didn't make it to the...

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anetteh @anetteh (3590) • Sweden 6 Feb 09

Now days with the internet connection, I wonder how many of us have the time to read books. I usually did read books before I discovered how much fun it is to be connected and online. I found myself thinking I have not even read...

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reading books

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analupinho I always take the time to dive into some pages of my books at night because it is when I let go of all my problems and frustrations. I couldn't go to sleep without reading, as it settles me down for a good night sleep and keeps me in touch with everything else...

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analupinho @analupinho (34) • Portugal 4 Feb 09

Hi everyone! Recently I've been concerning about my relationship with a guy whom I've been dating for about a month and a half. He's very kind, peacefull, honest and sincere with me. The point is he's almost 20 years older than...

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analupinho *that sort of commitment! Sorry, I made a mistake ;)

6 Feb 09

analupinho @analupinho (34) • Portugal 4 Feb 09

Hi everyone! Recently I've been concerning about my relationship with a guy whom I've been dating for about a month and a half. He's very kind, peacefull, honest and sincere with me. The point is he's almost 20 years older than...

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analupinho We decided that this time apart is going to be a time to think things over but we never decided to "break-up", we just accorded that if anything happened we'd be sincere with each other. It's not like we have that sort of compromise that only comprises the two...

6 Feb 09

doc_alma_jones @doc_alma_jones (822) • Philippines 4 Feb 09

it's there, your friend is your friend. that person is great to you. but what do you do when your friend tells you he/ she is cheating on his/ her spouse? and what if he/ she looks at it as a "human" thing? do you give...

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analupinho Something like that never happened to me, but you have too see, if your friend who's cheating on his wife is more important to you than his wife, than you should consider not to tell her, but still try to encourage your friend not to do that, giving him some...

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analupinho @analupinho (34) • Portugal 4 Feb 09

Hi everyone! Recently I've been concerning about my relationship with a guy whom I've been dating for about a month and a half. He's very kind, peacefull, honest and sincere with me. The point is he's almost 20 years older than...

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analupinho Thanks for the advice, I really appreciated. In fact, he's always saying to me how's good, above all the relationship we have, to have an older person beside me who can guide me and make me a better person through this times. I guess that's the best part of...

5 Feb 09

Jenaisle @Jenaisle (16572) • Philippines 3 Feb 09

Would you trade security for love? or would you select love over security? I, for one, would select love because I believe that love is the answer to all problems. If I happen to fall in love with a poor man, who has no financial...

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analupinho I don't share your opinion, because I could fall deeply in love with a drug dealer knowing he'd never change, although he loved me very much too. I could get killed by some of the people he were in debt with and I'd never live safely, although I had good...

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rychelle314 @rychelle314 (285) 9 Feb 08

Do you ever feel insecured? A lot of us hides our insecurities through various defense mechanisms, like that infamous bully in school, that snobbish next-door girl, that self-righteous bloke we know, etc. etc... the thing is a lot...

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analupinho I can be very insecure at times and I always try to hide it shutting myself off to the world, or being aggressive to people because I don't want them to notice I'm vulnerable, as you said. But I guess that vulnerability is what allows people to enter your...

4 Feb 09

analupinho @analupinho (34) • Portugal 4 Feb 09

Hi myLotters! I really wanted some advice on this issue because everyone tells me I'm an intelligent and beautiful girl, but I keep loosing myself everytime and I've done some things that I'm not proud of just to call some...

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missybear @missybear (11391) • United States 4 Feb 09

You know when you got to go to the Bathroom you just got to go. What if you expecting a phone call and you really have to go? Do you take the phone with you or do you hope they don't call while you in there? My...

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analupinho I sometimes take the cellphone with me when I go to the bathroom, especially when I'm going to have a shower and I'm expecting a call for someone really important to me. It even happened once that I dropped my cellphone down on the toillet and I was so shocked...

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analupinho @analupinho (34) • Portugal 4 Feb 09

I've recently opened an account on blogger but I don't have many visitors in my page, so I was thinking this is a good way for my blog to get to be known and I was hopping that you visited my page and leave your comments if you...

TheRealDawn @dawnald (85137) • Shingle Springs, California 4 Feb 09

What are your feelings on the subject of forgiveness? Are you the sort who can forgive anybody pretty much anything? Does it depend on what they did? On how repentant they are? On how close you are to them? Have you ever...

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analupinho When I forgive someone I always think I'll have to forget, because if it isn't so I wouldn't be confortable with myself and I'd prefer not to forgive. I always take the time to ponder what I might lose and what I might get forgiving, and if it's worthy the...

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