how do you feel when ur loved ones hurts you?

India
February 5, 2009 7:18am CST
hi guys.., i am very much depressed because my friend hurts me a lot today.. i didn't forget that thing if tried to do some other work., how do u feel when ur loved ones hurts you..?
5 responses
• United States
5 Feb 09
I feel really crappy, but I also look at things this way now as well. If I am hurt than I need to work on something on myself. I feel people try and not hurt others or they might just be having a bad day. I try to move on as quick as I can and not think about what hurt me. If they hurt my feelings really bad to the point where I am depressed than I would tell them how I feel and let them know that they hurt me in such a way that I am depressed, but someone told me once I am in control of how I feel and I should not blame my feelings on others because I am the one that choose to feel in that way. I hope this helps and I hope you feel better as well. Happy mylotting and I hope you feel better soon.
• India
5 Feb 09
ok thanks for ur advice and i feel something to do and i have to concentrate on my work.., happy mylotting
@aisaellis22 (6445)
• United States
5 Feb 09
Hello prakaashkpk! Well, I am glad that you can still concentrate in working eventhough you were hurt. In my case, if one of my love ones hurt me, it's as if I don't have peace on mind. I can't concentrate on working of something so sometimes, all I would do is just sleep and think of really what happen.
• United States
5 Feb 09
you're welcome prakaashkpk...thanks for the advice too.
• India
5 Feb 09
thanks for your response buddy., ok if you love your job then it will make atleast to concentrate a little.., happy mylotting.,
@rberon1985 (5359)
• Philippines
5 Feb 09
Sad to hear that from you. When someone hurts me, especially if my love one hurts me. I do not know what will I do. Maybe I will get myself busy, but still can't forget to think about it. I will definitely go to a place where I can voice out mt feelings. i used to do it in the seashore. I share with them how much I feel in the person that hurts me. After that, I am already relax. It is just that I was able to release all the feelings that I want to release.
• India
5 Feb 09
thanks for ur response buddy.., happy mylotting.,
• India
5 Feb 09
ya feel very deppress and also i feel of very restless so it very bad when a most loved once hurt you i have the feeling and experience happy myloting
• India
5 Feb 09
thanks for your response.., happy mylotting..,
• India
5 Feb 09
Oh it's realy very hard to bare Impact on your immotions. Specially from those who you love most. Real friend and all those specially a girlfriend when they impact on your immotion i can understand your immotions when they are hurted.But you have to come through it because life never stop for any thing.
• India
5 Feb 09
thanks for your response friend., happy mylotting.,