Eating in same same plate

India
February 5, 2009 5:34pm CST
Hello everyone here Ji, As a Ex. soldier's wife, I was subjected to attend many gthering inside four walls as well as outside for outing/picnic etc. and faced times when we had to sahre our eating together. In fact, I never encouraged it on hygenic point of view. My hubby is always fond of eating and sharing in same plates even with un-known. His arguments hold good, as he says, I wa sun-known to him after the marriage, and as a customery, we had to eat in same plate together in front of everyone. So where was a rule. His experience says that he had taken tea from same mug along with others, and nothing happened. He further argues, when people take meat/chicken and these dead bodies asorted diseases do not do anything bad, then what is the harm of taking food in same plate. Please share your personal experiences and settle our issues. Your arguements with plus and minus will have lot of bearings on our way of thinking. may god bless you and have a graet time.
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@Lakota12 (42600)
• United States
6 Feb 09
I see nothing wrong with sharing the same plate with hubby. adn you might also be talking about the food being laid out like a buffet as you go down the table picking out what you would like to eat. WE do this all the time in a buffet line.
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• India
7 Feb 09
Hello my friend lakota12 Ji, So nice of your positive response, But at the same time, I would not prefer to take food in a left out plate, even by my hubby. May god bless you and have great time.
@Lakota12 (42600)
• United States
7 Feb 09
well no not one left out but I see nothing wrong with eating out of same plate together!
@Lakota12 (42600)
• United States
9 Feb 09
thnks for BR
@riyasam (16556)
• India
7 Feb 09
i donot prefer to eat from the same plate for the reason that it is not at all my habit,and also there is hygynic reason.my hubby would love to share the same plate as mine(he thinks,it increases love)i donot agree with that thinking.
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• India
7 Feb 09
Hello my friend riyasam Ji, Fortunately, we ladies are at par, whereas , we both differ and fall un-parallel to our husbands. I think it is natural. Just do what our heart says to do. let them have their own way. The more we try to bring at par, the more they drift away. may god bless you nad have great time.
• India
6 Feb 09
If your husband has done it and has been doing it for a long time and he hasn't got infected or something, then I guess he is quite safe. Actually, it all depends on the individual. I know people who seem to think that eating from the same plates enhances the bond of love and friendship between two people. That could be true. Personally, I feel the bond of love and friendship has nothing to do with eating from the same plate. I prefer to eat from my own plate. LOL!
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• India
7 Feb 09
Hello my friend positiveminded1977 Ji, So nice of for appriating my hubby and resonse as well. I understand the circumstances , under which, he must have taken. All along soldiership he had totally change and wants create example of battlefields. He thinks life too is like a battlefield. But now we take in seperate plates.May god bless you and have great time.