would you believe in LOVE AT 1st sight???

Philippines
February 12, 2009 1:58am CST
one time, i have met a guy whom told me he fells inlove with me with that very first time we've met...i never believe in him and said he's only joking...i don't know him, in fact he's living in the north part of our province while i'm at the south...after that time, i did not expect anything after and since then we never see each other again....but then, i've got a text message from him saying he's still inlove with me even i ignored him so many times.everytime i will told him to forget me, he will say to me, "i hurt him"...until now, he's courting me...it was almost a year after we met but here he is...continue courting me...what should i do now?i'm sure i didn't love him and i don't intend to hurt him.i tried to change my number but he's texting my friends and begging not to change my number...is he serious?why he is like that?i don't know what to do....i felt guilty of ignoring him 'coz i know he don't mean to fell like that,but i don't fell anything special for him...is it really a love at first sight?
7 responses
johndur
@johndur (3052)
• Pasig, Philippines
21 Feb 09
i think it should be re-phrased like crush at first sight,because there is no such thing as love someone on the first time they have seen them.its not true that you can love somebody in such a short span of time.i think it was lust at first sight maybe....lol
limitbreaker
@limitbreaker (253)
• Philippines
12 Feb 09
Hmm. At some relationships that I know they were in love at first sight. It must be the chemistry between two individuals. But some where fallen out of love due to this first sight. Some just are attractive in just looking. I can't possibly tell if I believe or not. let's just say 50-50. God bless to you!!!
kunizzul
@kunizzul (1066)
• Malaysia
12 Feb 09
Yeah, i believe with the love at the first sight but i think this love only works if both of the couple love each other. =p
jlamela
@jlamela (4898)
• Philippines
12 Feb 09
I don't think so because true love slowly grows it is a long process to say that indeed you are really in love. There's no such thing as love at first sight, it is only infatuation and it will surely fade as time goes by.
underworld_xygmax89
@underworld_xygmax89 (181)
• Philippines
12 Feb 09
do have time for him to come to you and talk... that's a solution to your problem!!! happy mylotting!!!
wyethlovesyou
@wyethlovesyou (349)
• Philippines
12 Feb 09
Hello there sis lib_assist19! =) Honestly, I do not believe at first sight because I myself had never fallen inlove at first sight! But what i see with the determination and perseverance of the guy, he really fall for you. Tell him in the proper way that you do not feel anything special towards him. You know or help him how to find another girl. Good day!
ujjwalbatra
@ujjwalbatra (446)
• India
12 Feb 09
hi there,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,, well its only attraction or can say lust because love is not like it love takes time,,,,,,,,,,,,,,