She is growing too slow.

United States
February 13, 2009 8:17am CST
Ok as I promised here is the update on Savanna.......She is one happy little girl most days. She laughs and smiles all the time and like any normal baby she cries and poops all the time too. She is being watched by our doctor as she is a little peanut. At her four month appointment she only weighed 10.4 pounds in four months she has gained less then 2 pounds. That puts her at 3% compared with other babies. The doctor mentioned a calorie problem but didnt go into details she said its still to soon. She eats just fine and seems to be developing fine. A friend mentioned failure to thrive but that sounds scary and well like i said she seems fine maybe shes just gonna be a little peanut. So what do you know about failure to thrive or calorie problems in infants?
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@ElicBxn (63235)
• United States
13 Feb 09
I had a kitten that failed to thrive, but he/she was the one injured by the weedeater so that was probably the problem most "failure to thrive" has more to do with bad parenting - and hun - that's NOT her problem!
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• United States
13 Feb 09
Poor kitty that had to hurt. No way i feed her and love her theres no way its bad parenting. I even try and force her to eat more we have started making her bottles thicker hoping to get her more calories.
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@ElicBxn (63235)
• United States
13 Feb 09
I know you are doing a good job, because your dad would be on ya like white on rice if you weren't.
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@sudalunts (5523)
• United States
13 Feb 09
She's probably meant to be a small petite person. If she is healthy in everything else, I wouldn't worry about it too much. You did say that she is eating, she probably needs to intake more calories than other babies her age. I have a niece who is a little peanut, she is one year old now, but she is still really small. Check out this link: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Failure_to_thrive
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• United States
13 Feb 09
Thats what i say i was a peanut as a bay as well even as i got older i never weighed over 100lbs till i had kids.
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@Lakota12 (42600)
• United States
13 Feb 09
not heard of these but I guess there could be those problems. But if DOctor thinks to soon then guess it must be. seems like she is eatting good and the right tings she should be ok I hope she dont develope that failure to thrive thing that does sound scary . But to every thing depends on her frame small med. large. sounds small frame to me andthen to she could all of a sudden start sprouting like a weed. I would go with wha tthe Doc says as the Doc. knows her and he will figure out what is going on with her blessings and energies going to you and her .
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@Lakota12 (42600)
• United States
15 Feb 09
good idea! every one kept telling ua CHeyenne was big for her age. we didnt think so but then she is tal and has that in her genes.
• United States
14 Feb 09
Oh I always listen to my doctor. Im not to worried i just find myself explaining this all the time as she is so small. So i decided to jjust get it out there here as well all in one shot lol.
@faith210 (11224)
• Philippines
21 Feb 09
Hi minnie dear! I was a little peanut myself, one of the smallest in class when I was in grade school but when I reached 3rd year high..I started growing. lol..I was a late bloomer and I graduated to be one of the tall girls in school. To my father's dismay not the top! lol..Now my nieces and nephews are all little peanuts but we are sure that they took after me and my brothers. Soon they will grow as tall as their fathers am sure. So, I think she will be just a late bloomer and as long as she is eating, healthy, sleeping fine and happy..I think she will be just fine. Take care and have a great day! lovelots..faith
• United States
21 Feb 09
I was always small as well and i am comfortable with her health as well shes just a peanut thats all.
@lilybug (21107)
• United States
13 Feb 09
My daughter was a tiny little thing for the longest time. She ate just fine and there was nothing wrong with her. She is still to young to be worried about it. I have seen pictures of her and it does not look like she is underweight at all. She will probably just be a small child or maybe she will hit a growth spurt around a year like my daughter did.
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• United States
13 Feb 09
People still think shes a newborn when we are out when i say shes almost five months they look shocked. But then again i was the same way as an infant.
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@lilybug (21107)
• United States
13 Feb 09
No one ever believed how old my daughter was either. The Newborn outfit she wore home from the hospital fit her until she was 4 months old and her 0-3 month stuff fit her till she was at least 6-7 months old.
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@nanajanet (4436)
• United States
13 Feb 09
If she is acting normal, has no illnesses, and is gaining weight and growing, do not be too concerned. I have seen this before and if the dr. is not too concerned and just watching her, then she is okay. What does she eat?
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• United States
14 Feb 09
She is still on formula. I have started introducing baby food slowly.
@nanajanet (4436)
• United States
14 Feb 09
Then relax. My granddaughter was always a little under the "norm" in weight but now is considered average at 20 months. She eats very well, like most foods and so on. You will know if she is having problems. Mom's have that radar. If she is acting normal and no weird symptoms, just keep doing what you are doing. I hate those "charts" in a way as they are too generalized.
@anniepa (27955)
• United States
13 Feb 09
I really don't think you have a thing to worry about, Hon. You said she's happy and healthy and that she eats fine, it's probably just that she's going to be a little girl. All babies are unique and each one grows at her own pace. If a little later on the doctor decides she needs something to increase her caloric intake, that's fine, but I'm sure it's no big deal! Annie
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• United States
14 Feb 09
Too bad shes been worried about this since her two week visit lol. I think the doc needs to relax
@jillhill (37354)
• United States
13 Feb 09
Have you started her on any solids? I know they want you to wait but sometimes they just get hungry and need the extra calories..a rice cereal perhaps.....now you got me worried about her!
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• United States
14 Feb 09
Dont worry she eats just fine and she loves jarred fruits.
@coffeebreak (17798)
• United States
14 Feb 09
All kids grow at different rates. My son was in the shorter percential for some time in elementary school- and then once in high school shot up like a weed and went through new pants about every 3 months as they just literally got to short! He'd go in spirts eating too...he'd eat normal and then for awhile he'd eat dinner, and before I was done doing the dishes, he'd be back prowling the pantry and fridge for thirds and that is when I knew I'd be pants shopping really soon. My 3 year old grand daughter, was short for while as an infant...she gained the weight, but not the height...then once she started walking...she maintained her weight reasonablly but shot up and is now about 1/2 as tall as her 9 year old cousin - who is all legs and tall on her own! Just make sure your peditrian is a good one and knows what he is doing and don't leave his office until you have all our questions answered to your own understanding. Doctors have a tendency to rattle on about nothing, or say very little...either way, your concerns are not being addressed.. They have seen this so many times, they tend to do a very easy swipe of it all as no concern.. but mom's need to know.... I was at the orthopedic surgeon today.. asking about my knee problem and he kept saying (what I thought was ) "evasive" this and "evasive" that. I couldn't figure it as we are talking about a surgery - does "evasive" mean it is a very minor surgery and if so... that isn't fitting into what he is telling me the procedure is... Turns out he wasn't saying "Evasive" he was saying "Invasive" just sluring it a bit and that meaning just a cut into you, the style of the surgery. So sometimes, keeping at them does make a difference.
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• United States
14 Feb 09
I am a bit of a protective mom so if i feel there is a problem i will hound her. I just think shes small but the doctor seems worried more then me. But shes gotta be on her toes i guess thats why we see docs to catch those thing we just cant see.
@walijo2008 (4644)
• United States
13 Feb 09
I don't know anything about that, but when my nephew was 4 mos. old, my brother said the doctor told them he was underweight, I think he was about 11 lbs or so, my brother said he didn't know why, the baby ate good, he was always eating, everytime you seen him he had a bottle in his mouth...lol. He got over it tho, the next doctor visit he gained more weight and the doctor said he was alright, so I don't know what happened, guess he took a growing spurt. I think she'll be fine, if she's eating well and doesn't seem sick or anything, like you said maybe she's just gonna be a little peanut.
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• United States
14 Feb 09
She has been under weight since her 2 week appointment when she lost weight from birth. I agree i think shes just gonna be small.
@22angel22 (450)
• United States
13 Feb 09
I think shes just going to be a small frame person and doesn't gain weight easy. But it all can change in the next year or two.
• United States
14 Feb 09
I agree we are a small family so wouldnt suprize me.
@Opal26 (17679)
• United States
14 Feb 09
Hey minnie~ I wouldn't worry so much! If the doctor was really concerned he would have told you that! She looks happy and healthy and definitely not like a peanut to me! She looks like she is growing and getting bigger. I would just wait and do whatever the doctor tells you and don't listen to other people, only the doctor! If you are that concerned call him and discuss it with him if you don't want to wait for her next checkup! If he really wanted her to put more weight on he would have given her some kind of supplement so don't worry she is just fine!
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• United States
14 Feb 09
I aint worried the doc is lol.
@my2boys (821)
• United States
13 Feb 09
I dont know much about it. However, I am sure that she will be fine. My son weighed 12 lbs at his 4 month check up. Some people are just smaller than others. I wouldnt worry to much about it. Just listen to the doctor and everything will be fine. Have a nice day.
• United States
14 Feb 09
I just hope she starts gaining soon thanks for sharing
• United States
13 Feb 09
my daughter is small to she is only 27lbs at the age of 4 she eats evething in sight but just is not gain weight and her doc she is just fine so if i was u just keep doing what u are doing she will start to gain wieght soon
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• United States
14 Feb 09
Thats what im doing now thanks.
@Polly1 (12645)
• United States
13 Feb 09
Doctors tell us not to comapre our kids, that kids develop at their own pace. But then that is what they do. They compare babies to other babies to determine size, weight, things like that. The way I feel, if she is doing things that normal babies do, she is eating, sleepy, if she is happy, that kind of stuff. Like you said she might just be small, she is a girl and I don't think any of you are big people. Its good that the doc is going to keep an eye on her, try not to worry about it. My grandson has always been small, he is getting bigger.
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• United States
14 Feb 09
I am not worried really just giving an update. I would worry if she wasnt acting healthy and our familys like you said just arent to big either.
@foxyfire33 (10005)
• United States
13 Feb 09
I'm going to agree with your gut and what everyone else had said...it sounds like she's just a petite baby, nothing wrong with that. I've had a few little ones myself and they are all perfectly normal in every other way. "Failure to thrive" means more than just weight gain as far as I know. I always understood it to be about not thiving in general...as in being small and weak and behind developmentally and sickly. Doesn't sound at all like that's her problem. Plus she's still not old enough to be getting the majority of her calories from solid food so that will make a difference as she makes the change to that over the next 6+ months.
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• United States
14 Feb 09
Me and Andy - He doesnt like pics but its a good one.
Yeah shes strong and developing just fine.
@saundyl (9783)
• Canada
13 Feb 09
My second youngest sister was a very small child. She didnt grow very much until grade six (before that she was the smallest kid in the entire school and it was a k-12 school!) After that she shot up like a weed and did it fast. She was also one that didnt eat a lot most days then one or two days a week she'd eat a ton... mom called those her snake meals.
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• United States
14 Feb 09
Snake meals thats too funny thanks for sharing.
• Philippines
14 Feb 09
Maybe, you should change her formula milk into a milk with content of large amount of nutrients necessary to form bones formations , don't worry much, she is still baby and still has a chance to gain weight as soon as she reached her 1 year old.
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