to those who responded about 79 yrs old!

@bombshell (11265)
Germany
February 17, 2009 1:52am CST
to those who responded about operation of my 79 yrs old faher inlaw,the descision is made! yesterday they were discussing so many doctors and members of his family about operation.there will be no operation happen because the operation will take more than 20 hours because it needs to open completely and they mention about cleaning and that long,we are sure he canĀ“t survived it.so now my father inlaw stayed at home and depending all the medical supply he needs to survive.My mother inlaws said"its God descision
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@Lakota12 (42681)
• United States
17 Feb 09
WOw 20 hours a very long operation for any age! May God go with him
@bombshell (11265)
• Germany
17 Feb 09
thanks.....yeah its very long Lakota thats why no operation.
@Lakota12 (42681)
• United States
17 Feb 09
figured that.
• Canada
18 Feb 09
My great grandpa went through the same thing at the SAME AGE kind of wierd but he didnt fine and he is still living... He is currently 96 years old. My prayers are with you! Hope everything turns out well... my family wasnt feeling so well when my great grandpa was going through with it either.
@bombshell (11265)
• Germany
21 Feb 09
wow thats a great news!anyway tahnks for the kind words and my father inlaw is home now and so far so good with all the medications
@se7enthbird (8324)
• Philippines
17 Feb 09
wow that is quite a long procedure and i dont think that a 79 year old person can surpass that. so that was a good decision. just make the man happy and bring him to places that he wants to go. make sure he live his life to the fullest so hev will enjoy it even he is old.
@bombshell (11265)
• Germany
21 Feb 09
agree .my father inlaw is home now and so far so good
• United States
17 Feb 09
ugh that is so sad.. but maybe he will have more time on earth if he doesnt get it and can cherish those moments
@bombshell (11265)
• Germany
21 Feb 09
maybe or maybe not.but so far he is home and very fine
@riyasam (16570)
• India
17 Feb 09
ya,20 hours will be stressful for anybody!!the family members might have discussed all the pros and and then they might have come to this conclusion.so,quit worrying,all things happens for good to those who love GOD.
@bombshell (11265)
• Germany
17 Feb 09
thanks riya
@bhanusb (5709)
• India
17 Feb 09
You and your whole family members are beside your father in law.He is feeling satisfaction.I wish he will survive for some years.
@bombshell (11265)
• Germany
17 Feb 09
thank you bhanusb
@AXLAERO (426)
• Philippines
17 Feb 09
well,let's just pray and hope that your father in law will stay longer and survive.yes,it is god's decision.it's hard to lose someone in the family.thats why i know that its also hard for you and your family.dont lose hope my friend.god is so good.he will help your father in law.god bless you and ypur family.
@bombshell (11265)
• Germany
21 Feb 09
THANK YOU dear he is not my real father but he is very nice to me and to my little girl.
• Janesville, Wisconsin
17 Feb 09
I will keep you, your father in law, your family and all of his friends in my prayers, and thoughts. It is hard when they decide not to do treatment, my family felt the same way when we found out my grandpa was refusing the rest of his lung cancer treatments, He however was ready to go.. It was hard.. but I know we did the right thing by not talking him into changing his mind. I hope and Pray, that your Father in Law, is able to regain his strength, and heal... So that later on if he decides to he can go into surgery, and if he decides not to, and it is his time in passing. I hope and pray he passes with ease, and love, and That you and his family are all there to support him... and I pray Spirit helps you all remain strong, and heals you through this trying time. Rev. Dana C. L. - DNatureofDTrain
@bombshell (11265)
• Germany
21 Feb 09
thanks for you kind words
@ronaldinu (12439)
• Malta
1 Mar 09
i hope that it is the best decision for your father in law considering all the factors tha tyou have mentionied.